Not too long ago I emailed a current favorite porn star of mine. A couple weeks passed and she emailed back saying "I don't escort! " but that I she might be up for dinner sometime. She said I should contact her agency about a "non sexual sugar daddy" situation. Is anyone here familiar with that kind of situation? Could this be a down low provider set up or does she expect me to pay her to have a meal with me?  

I did the research and haven't found any evidence of her providing. I just emailed her because why not? Thanks if you've got info to share.

It depends on what you're looking for from her.  If all you want is sex, I'd say definitely look elsewhere.  Someone who says they are looking for a "sugar baby" arrangement it usually means they are looking for someone to pay all their bills, take them out to fancy dinners, clubs, etc. and to be, mostly, arm candy.  They are not looking for a sexual relationship, or a boyfriend, or anything like that.  Just someone to take them to fancy and/or exotic places and pay all their bills.  Sometimes "sugar baby" arrangements can be made that include sex but not always.  

There's a very funny scene in "Two and a Half Men" where Martin Mull brings Jodi Lyn O'Keefe to Charlie's place (Charlie invited him thinking to set him up with Charlie's mom).  Anyway, Jodi is, apparently, a "sugar baby" and says something about Martin paying all her bills and "I only have to let *that* climb on top of me once a month".  That's pretty much what being a "sugar baby" (or if you prefer "sugar daddy") is all about.  At least in my experience.  YMMV.

The "platonic" nature of the relationship may have been true in the past but is certainly not the case these days.  Check out "Seeking Arrangement" or our own "Erotic Highway" and you will quickly learn that 99.9% of Sugar Baby/Sugar Daddy relationships are intimate.  In fact, if you want to spend private time with a porn star at a fantastic rate just scan through SA.  

Do one platonic date - see how that goes. Bring up the fact that you want a more physical relationship on your date and see how that goes. Worst case you spend some time with a current favorite, best case is you get to have sex with her either that night or in the future.

If the price of the first date isn't out of your range go for it and find a way to talk yourself into her panties.

And there are several websites where porn stars, models, cam girls, etc...sell custom videos, private cam shows, phone dates, and lunch or dinner ONLY dates. Many guys, obviously not hobbyists (except for a few) would be interested in the platonic ONLY dates these women offer. But, many of their fans are interested in this type of non-sexual date, and there is good money to be made offering this service.  

reeks of a scam..

Yeah, no.  I don't know what research you've done but I've been to at least 10 different "sugar baby" sites and, for the most part, my comments stand.  The girls are looking to have someone pay their bills.  Period.  If you're lucky, they might have sex with you once in a while but anything more than that seems to be the exception rather than the rule.

"I've been to at least 10 different "sugar baby" sites"

You may have "been to" the ""sugar baby"sites" but you obviously aren't a SD or you'd know...SB's have sex for money, and SD's pay the SB's for sex! If the guys didn't want sex, they'd stay home with their wives!  

Bottom line, the SB's aren't legally allowed to offer sex on the sites you're viewing, so they don't mention it.  

Now sometimes, the SD & SB will have a platonic date...but you can bet you ass, SD's pay for $ex most of the time during the month, and a SD/SB relationship is prostitution (even though the sites attempt to candy-coat and deny the allegation).  

You obviously haven't visited "Seeking Arrangements".  It's all about frequent intimacy for sugar and, in most cases, the sugar is limited.  If you can't score on SA there is something definitely wrong with you.  Just check out the Erotic Highway and you will see what I mean.

Robin,
Couldn't have said it better myself.  Our dear Mr. French is just a pathetic old fool.

They say, a sucker is born every minute...let us know if you are that sucker?
If you are, I have some land in the Everglades for sale!

Hank

"She said I should contact her agency about a "non sexual sugar daddy" situation"

Tell her you already have a non-sexual relationship with your buddies and they don't charge a dime!
And if that is not bad enough, that you need to contact her through agency...that is like her saying,
contact my lawyer for further communication...STRICTLY business. If she is not willing to use her ASSets, you are not willing to part with your wallet's content!

You're both wrong, in my experience.

Plain and simple: yes, you *may* be able to find sexual arrangements on those sites.  But the MAJORITY of the ladies on those sites are looking to get their bills paid.  Yes, some of them will offer sex.  Most of the time, that's limited - you can't just have sex with them any time you want because you're paying their bills.  It's far cheaper to deal with escorts in the long run and you don't have the commitment.

As for my "experience" on those sites.  I've exchanged enough emails, and met enough of those girls, and conversed with enough about the "arrangements" they are looking for, and what they are willing to do in exchange for the money, to be certain of what I'm saying.  The "sugar baby" experience is NOT about sex for money.  It's about money.  Period.  If you get sex, that's a bonus.

As for me being a "pathetic old fool" - perhaps you're just a naive youngster.

As someone once said: There's no substitute for experience.