About three months ago, I spent some time with a girl who does g/g porn and who on a basis of looks is a very solid 10! However, her performance that day was as disappointing as I've ever experienced...just totally detached and not into it at all. It was like she was looking for a camera or some direction, but all the while, going over her grocery list in her head. I mean a real waste of both our time...

So I never called her again.

BUt now she's called me pleading , and really I do mean pleading, for another session, which I know will be just as disappointing. If you went through what i went through, you would know it would not be worthwhile to give her a second chance.

So if you were me, how would you tell her no?

Everyone has an off day...
What happens if you see her again and it sucks the same...well then you know...
HOWEVER if you see her again and she rocks your world like its never been rocked...you would walk away thinking MAN IM SO GLAD I DID THAT.

we say go for it

I have been in that situation before and I was honest with her about.  And she was honest with me that she had other things going on with her life and she wanted to make it up to me.  I was more surprised that she acknowledged what she did, but I have not been able to see her.  

Id say just be upfront with her and say, hey why are you showing more interest in me now than when we last meet?  Last time you seemed so uninterested in mw that I did not considered seeing you again.  If she owns up to it and offers you a better time, than it would be up to you to see her.

Just my 2 cents

... go by once bitten, twice shy.

kenescalade02 raises some good points. If you have a conversation with her and she seems sincere about upholding her reputation and giving you a better experience the 2nd time around, go for it, but go for it with your eyes wide open. You've got something she wants and she's got something you want. Make it work for you.

nycad

She is a professional porn star. She gave you a shitty time. I say NO.... especially when your talkin about premium $$$ involved.  Just because you are "Rick the regular guy", stars feel they dont need to bring it and can afford a bad session.

Interesting. What is different? Did you write up a review and she hopes to minimize the damage? Is she offering a discount? How do you know it "will be just as disappointing"?
If you can figure out at least some of these answers you will know what if not who is coming if you return to her. In the absence of a clear answer to #1 I'd check out the other fish in the sea at least some of whom are also 10's.
Let us know what you decide. Who knew that the hobby could be so intellectually as well as physically hard?

Spot on Mr. Fisher...too many well reviewed and top notch ladies available to take a second chance.

simple solution..ask another girl who is very bi to join you for a threesome..i can guarantee you and her will not be disappointed..you are giving her what she enjoys most with the added bonus of you..she will not have any time at all to go over any 'grocery lists in her head'..she will be getting and giving enough real head so as not to worry about it..

Call me cynical but I suspect she is calling you because she needs cash fast, and not because she feels an overwhelming desire to correct the previous disappointing experience (as per your statement).

Since the last time was so thoroughly disappointing, I would suggest she put forth some gesture of good faith.  Either a discounted price or multi-hour for the original price.

I am not sure why the customer should have to take the risk here.  She did not deliver last time.  The onus is on her to justify why this time around things will be different.  Hence she needs to put forth a proposal that clearly demonstrates that she intends to rectify what occurred previously.

If she is unwilling to demonstrate a desire to deliver above and beyond this time around, I would take a pass and simply deliver the message without being rude or a jerk about it.

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She's a businesswoman.  She blew it (no pun intended).  Plenty of other ladies to spend your money on.

There are too many other great choices out there to take a second chance on a poor performer.  Unless, of course, her offer is gratis

I just quickly read your post and the replies. Did I miss something, or does she have no reviews, and is she UTR? If she has reviews, what's her reputation? Of course she needs the money again. The question is, if she's your fantasy, maybe this time she will be worth remembering---and going back to again. I do like the suggestion of having another girl along too.

A few extra thoughts...

Yes, I'm sure she texted me because she needs money. There were no reviews, she is ver utr. Communicating with her is more difficult because she is European, and her English is challenged at best.

My final thoughts on her is that my first impression made by her first performance will not change. She is a totally spectacularly looking girl. Her body and face were stunning. Which made her first performance so much more disappointing.

And yes, at a time when there are so many other really great girls around, I just said I couldn't see her.

And moved on.

Wise decision.  Your original post is a classic example of small head vs. big head thinking and this email trail should be referenced every time we see this issue raised.

It appears you were successfully talked off the ledge!!

Z

Just be honest and tell her, "No."  Don't elaborate or allow her to indulge.  Just, "No."

Its simple, its to the point, it communicates your message.  Move on.

Its not "cold"...this is business.

I say your first encounters mean so much for  future endeavors.  If you are in the business of making money you should do your best to impress, this will always make you cum back for more. I say try another and pardon good bye.

Totally agree.

Why don't you post a review so other people who might come accross her know what they might be in for.

I would say give her a second chance. Everyone has an off day. Plus think about how hard she will be trying to make it up to you. Could be a hot wild session ;-D

but it should be free...forgot to add that lol