My past experiences with PS providers is to meet at a hotel which either I provide or which the PS selects. In some instances, where the PS is touring, I might be invited to visit the apartment she is renting.

Privacy and Security being serious issues for the Major PS, I'm wondering if anyone knows of instances where a major PS invites you to her home, reveals her actual name, etc. ?  

Thanks for the input...

Yeah, right, like that's going to happen!!!  Dude, put down the blunt & clear your head!!  Privacy AND Security are eseential to PSE's & taking a client to her house will probably NEVER happen for most stars who value that!!

Yes, it happens all the time, not usually on the first meeting, but if you are a repeat customer, they will open up to you. There are several well known PSEs in the LA area that I have this sort of relationship with, they have invited me into their homes, they have invited me to birthday and Christmas partys, they have invited me to dinner in their home, they have gone out to dinner with me and in some cases have even paid for the meal. Not only have they told me their real name, but have introduced me to their extended family, mothers, brothers, sisters, and on one occassion a husband, but I felt kind of weird about that. I have been invited on porn sets and given free access to ladies websites. PSEs are people just like anyone else and if you make friends with them, they will open up just like any other friend and there is nothing special about me, anyone can do this, you will be surprised  at the rewards you will receive, if you just show a little kindness towards these ladies.

So you are saying such an occurrence would be very unusual, correct? That's all I'm asking. Sorry if this seems like a question with an obvious answer, and I'm not trying to pull anyone's chain.

I had an experience that seemed "unusual", and am trying to figure out what it means. This isn't the first time that a lady has told me her real name, and I take that as an indication of trust.  In this instance, I offered to fly in and stay in a nice hotel. We'd see each other there. She suggested that I forget the hotel and instead stay in her home (in her guest room). She picked me up at the airport, and drove me back the next day. Obviously we've seen each other several times before. We're both already married.

Most of the porn starlets I've seen have provided me with their actual name because I request their driver’s license when matching the name shown on the HIV tests that they show me.

As for porn starlets opening up their houses to us sports, this might be possible for very few that have established a friendship for being a regular customer or adult starlets who provide incalls that are their actual residence.

I've read here that Sinnamon Love and Candy Cotton have their own incalls, which could also be their residence (maybe the ladies themselves could confirm this?).

I personally haven't experienced or have ever been offered such thing when I've visited some them in their hometowns in California and Texas. Maybe because those I've visited in their hometowns, since they do have children and/or significant others, are the reasons why.

A very good question asked.......

LOTR

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Thank You, both Lord of Rings and jldick50, you have confirmed what I suspected. In my case the term "starlets" really doesn't apply. The Lady in question (and don't think for one second that she isn't a Lady!) is over 30.  Treating another person like you wish to be treated yourself goes a long way. Of course, it also helps to be generous financially. That is one key point that I didn't note in my follow-up post. Chances are if you are a person who would never spend more than $$$, then the experiences of others may seem like we're pulling your chain. While I'd like to think that my experience was not motivated purely by business, I'm also aware that the original basis for the relationship was commerce.

For jldick50...I speak to her husband on a semi-regular basis. At first it was strange (I didn't know he was her husband), but I went along with it because that's how she wanted it handled. It took some time before I figured out that they were married. Since it obviously doesn't bother him, I'll not let it bother me.
Thanks...