Alexis Amore.  I e-mailed her about a direct booking; her direct rate is $1000 per hour.  Throughout the process I found her to be difficult to reach on her cellphone and not that good at returning calls in a timely manner.  We tentatively scheduled to meet in the early afternoon on a Mon.  When I woke up that day she had left a message on my cell that she would not be available until later in the afternoon and would call me at 2pm to reschedule.  She actually called close to 7pm.  We then scheduled for the next day.  She gave me her general location and told me to call her at 10am and she would give me her exact location.  She assured me that she was free and there would be no problems.  I called the next morning at 10am and got her voicemail and left a message for her to call asap as I was waiting to come see her.  She never called back.  I tried her cell a few more times over the next several hours but just got her voicemail.
    I normally don't post negative comments but I wasted the better parts of two days trying to see her and am obvioulsy dissapointed.  I e-mailed her afterwards asking for an explanation but she never replied to my e-mail.

I have never seen her, but I have exchanged E-Mails with her many times and she has always got back to me very promptly and I have heard many good things about her from others, she posts on this board from time to time, maybe she will see this post and give us her side of the story and unravel this mystery.

Sorry to hear about you bad experience.  Unfortunately, flaking is to be expected in this hobby.  However, this is why these boards came about; to share your experience and hopefully save others hobbyists from suffering the same fate.  It is unfortunate, but many hobbyists are reluctant to post their negative experiences.  They will be shared via private groups but many never make it to the message boards.  I am fairly sure you will shortly see why.  As to not getting an explanation, that is also par for the course.  However, many times when you do get an excuse they are some of the funniest stories.  Thanks for taking, or should I say, not taking one for the team.

I E-Mailed Alexis and asked her to come on the board and explain her side of the story, let us hope she will accept the challenge, as a negative post such as this can only compromise her credibility as a provider.

Thought I would make this comment before this thread disappears.

After going through all of the above, it's clear that she was ambivalent about meeting you. Indifferent service is never worth $1000 per hour. So, at least you didn't lose any money, in addition to the time you did waste.

Look at it this way, given the run around you got how do you think the encounter would've turned out?  You saved a G that you can spend on someone who'll be less of a hassle to see.

If you want to know the reason why I never got to meet this man please feel free to e-mail me. Am not going to star posting messages back an foward to explain my reasons. There is two sites to every story..... I have the right to refuse to see some people if I want. I love meeting new people and I love what I do that's why I do this job. But at the same time I have to go with my feelings about some people that don't want use the agency's to see me.

                         A.A
P.S like I said please feel free to e-mail me
Thank you

              [email protected]

I understand you not wanting to post on the message board but what is probably going to happen is somebody will email you for the explanation and it will get posted anyway.  Unfortunately, it will be second hand information and probably not said in the proper tone or context as if it came from you directly.  You will then end up posting to explain that as well as the original post.  These threads all seem to follow the same course.

You have to remember that safety and LE is the main concern for these ladies when booking direct.  They do a little checking just like the agencies.  I’ve booked direct with Alexis, by using a referral and had no problems what so ever.

Whatever the reasons are -its her right NOT to see anyone for any reason she feels like. Clearly they weren't a match for each other. When someone doesn't call you back repeatedly -give it up and go on to someone else.

jerking them around for a couple of days is ridiculous.  

I want to find out about this type of behaviour on the boards before someone else wastes their time.

Well here it goes....

I have answer all the e-mails about why I never met the men that e-mail me about a date with me.
And I don't think that I should do it here because is just going to cause a big back and foward messages situation. But here it goes:

I don't see people that ask me over and over questions about what I do on the dates. It makes me feel weird. I feel that the 1st time we talk we can get that out of the way. This guy never even give me any referrals. He wanted to do 1/2 an hour and I agree (not alot of porn stars will do that) but I had explain to him that the company comes 1st and that is how it always is when they pay for everything. I ask him to call the agency  and make an appoinment to make sure that he gets to see me and he said that he don't want to pay the 1350.00 that the agency was asking for me. Now let me ask you if you where in my place. You don't have Referrals and don't want to book a date with the agency to make sure that you do get to see me and that they do the check on you since you don't have referrals and I should feel okay about meeting you? come on. When I get an e-mail about a date I always ask for your phone # after that I want to talk to you about your job, Who have you seeing in the past. I want to make sure that your safe to see. I only post here because I think that is a good way to meet wonderful men and I have. But just because I post here it don't mean that I'll meet with every single person that e-mails me. I rather meet one good men and have a great time . Instead of seeing 10 and not enjoy my self or for them to feel like this is just a job or that am acting. Is not all money to me. Yes he save himself 500.00 but I save myself the stress and how knows what else. I hope that you guys understand and don't think that I'll be posting anything more about this subject. I like to have fun and I love what I do. If people get off by posting negative messages well have fun. I think that is only fair to post a messages if you got to see me and you had the worse time of your life and in my case I know what am doing and I do it well(so that will not happend).
I think that after this I don't have to answer any more e-mails about the subject but if you think that this is not good enought think about it this way. Only me and him really knows what happend.

                                Love
                                      Alexis Amore

I E-Mailed Alexis and asked her to come on the board and tell her side of the story and she didn't want to air the problem in a public forum, but you could contact her privately. Has anyone E-Mailed her? and have you gotten a response?.

It is a provider's perogative to see or not see someone.  The only error that AA might have made in this situation is by not just outright telling him no and then moving on.  If she did just say no to seeing him and said not to call her anymore, than shame on him for stalking.  I agree that AA should have just been straight with him and said take a hike.  If she did this than she is in the right.  If she didn't, worst case, she made a bad business decision and can be forgiven.  

As for using an agency, I don't particularly like them myself, but sometimes you can't avoid it and if she feels more comfortable using one, that's her decision.  believe me, most of these ladies would rather get every cent themselves and not have to share.  As much as she says she likes her job, the truth is that it's at least 90% about the $$. Or in AA's case $$$$$$$$$$$$$.5

I agree, but if it's true that she rescheduled several times, that's still not right.  If she didn't want to see him, she shouldn't have rescheduled at all.

PLAZAMAN,

Alexis was at risk of getting screwed by her agent's for going direct with you trying to save you some cash. You MUST remember that her agent's are reading all the public and some private boards and by you exposing her publicly she might get screwed for this.

Since she is sponsored by one of several agents she books with, YOU must understand that the agency's clients are first and if there is space for you then you are in. The only thing wrong I see Alexis doing was to assure you that she was available for the date and time she agreed with you without conditioning the meeting. If you are a veteran hobbyist, you must understand that the agency does not tell the provider who and when they are going to have a meeting to avoid them going around and booking direct.

I think you should have taken care of this off the boards and perhaps you and her might have settled it.

As I see it now, you might have gotten screwed as well as she did by the agent(s) that were sponsoring her tour and nothing positive was achieved here. Also, by doing this, the ladies that go direct without publicly admitting it, might be reluctant to continue offering it after this public post.

Be smarter and understand that no lady can tell you that she is available when she is on tour.

I’ve seen Alexis several times and she is sweet, shy, humble and wild when things get going. I’m not saying that Alexis was wrong, but are you certain that was what she really told you or are you leaving some words out?

LOTR

-- Modified on 3/8/2003 6:25:55 AM

If you did not feel comfortable seeing him, then you had an obligation to tell him so and if made him mad, that's his problem.  You did not have a right to be flaky and promise to see him TWICE then flake out.  Potential clients would be smart not to have anything to do with you.  Better yet, you sound too immature to be in this business.

Like I said no one knows but him and I what happend.  I never said that I was rigth . Things happend and then again am new to this. If I said that is not all about the money to me is because is true. I have a job, I do this for extra money and to have fun or if I feel like I need some company . I try to answer all my e-mails as fast as I can't, some e-mails I never get and some I have to answer weeks later. This is  not the only job that I have. I understand that there is alot more girls ( adult stars) that have left the Industry to work as an escort full time and good for them that is just not me and maybe they have better prices that I what i have. But that is up to you guys to choose who to see. You guys defend a guy that you don't even know and then talk about me . You guys  have no clue who I am. There is a few guys that I have seeing thanks to this post and Keep seeing every week or two. If I get to meet more wonderful man (that's great) but if am only going to meet jerks like the guys that post thinks with out even knowing me or talking to me then let it be it. Have fun


                                      A.A

An acquaintance of mine, who is a pretty demanding client by all respects (he likes to bang his dates into submission, it seems, he grades by how well they can take the pounding) rated Alexis very highly when he saw her a couple of years ago (at $400, I believe). That's good enough for me.

As for the other issue, what is said and what is heard are frequently two different things. It does sound like both the client and the provider could have handled things better from both ends. I will say this, the premium prices charged for a PSE are really not about the act that takes place, but it's a license, much like a hunting license, that says you had sex with [fill in blank of porn star]. If Alexis is savvy enough to command a high rate for her time, maybe she could be more sensitive to that in the future. If there were so many negatives about this potential client, then she should have been less equivocal about making the date.

I do not plan on posting on this topic anymore because these debate type threads can become tiresome.  I want to thank all the hobbyists who offered to e-mail Alexis and then send me the e-mail to let me see what she said.  No one else needs to e-mail me with those types of offers.
To quickly refute a few things said about me before:
1 There were no weird conversations over and over with Alexis.  I have booked over 150 different providers and I know what to say and not to say on the phone and how to and how not to say it.
2- If she did not want to see me for 1/2 hour then she should not have offered it openly. I actually had money for an hour session but one of my cardinal rules of hobbying is to always book the shortest session possible when seeing someone without alot of reviews.  You can always add on later if you want to stay longer.
3- She never told me to call her agency and she had no problem dealing with me direct.  Those of you that have seen her know that her cell number is private (it comes up on your caller id as "private number".)  She gave me this number.  Why would she give me her private number if she wanted me to book through her agency???
4- I gave her a referral - Exotica.  I told her that I had booked Miko Lee through Exotica and that the review was on this website.  She said that was good enough for her.
As an escort she does not have to see anyone she does not want to see.  The entire process between the two of us lastest over 2 weeks.  She also knew that there were only 2 days that I would be able to see her.  She had a ton of opportunities to e-mail me and tell me that her schedule had changed and she could not see me on either day.  That would have ended the discussion.  While she was not good at calling back in a timely manner, she did always call back (except for the last day) and was always friendly and apologetic and repeatedly said that she was eager to meet me.  
    The best example is the Mon evening/Tues morning disaster.  She called me on Mon evening at roughly 7pm to tell me she was definitely available the next morning.  I told her that I did not want to call in sick unless she was 100% sure there would be no problem.  She assured me that her schedule was free and gave the name, address and front desk number for her hotel (so I could call for directions).  Why would she call and give me this info if she had bad feelings about me???  My lack of references/weird phone manner/1/2hr session issues were clearly not an problem Mon evening.  How did they become such an issue by Tues morning??  Did she call the Phsyic Friends Hotline and get a bad reading about me from Miss Cleo????
    I think Alexis probably just overslept and I think she needs to take her escorting a little more seriously.  As I said I sent her an e-mail afterward and gave her over a week to respond. (I think an e-mail entitled "What Happend to OUr DAte" would probably stick out in her e-mails.)  I also asked senior hobbyists for advice and they all said to post.  Certainly I have learned from others bad experiences so I posted my experience to give something back to the board.  I also knew that Alexis read this board when I posted. I think that people who book her in the future will get treated alot better that I did.  She will be better to deal with a not pull the I  GAVE SOMEONE MY PRIVATE NUMBER AND CALLED AND GAVE MY HOTEL INFO BUT THEN MYSTERIOUSLY DECIDED THE CLIENT WAS A BAD GUY routine. So I think I have given something back to the board. END OF STORY