Thanks "Moose" for providing me this tragic update....

Doc

-- Modified on 8/3/2002 3:22:39 PM

That really sucks!  She was a hottie and I was hoping she would turn escort...  Does anyone know how she died? Suicide, drugs, etc...  She sure didn't look 31.

and porn actors, and straight actors and actresses. Not to mention mothers, fathers, brothers, sisters, wives and children.

Reamn!

Sorry, but is that all you can think about? The fact that you no longer have the chance to hook up with her? Jeez, I hope my fellow hobbyists have more heart than that.

This board is here really to promote the AE business, and to create a sellers' market for those who wish to partake of those who offer escort services. I would like to commend Doc for actually maintaining objectivity in a situation which really is skewed against the men who pay for these services.

Being that as it may, doing a PSE transaction is quite elementary. You get what you want, she gets what she wants, f there is an agency involved, they get their cut, etc., and everyone is square. End of story.

From time to time, you hear rumours. As was astutely noted in The Player, the rumours are always true. As long as the girl shows up on time and whatever personal issues she may have does not affect the quality of the session, it shouldn't affect us.

When a performer dies prematurely, it is natural to speculate. But it's not really our business or what we are here for. Much better things to do with our time and energy, if you ask me.

It's not always sad when someone dies.  We may be indifferent to some loss of life (a man from a third world country or outside one's community)  We may even be relieved when someone in particular dies ( a tormentor, a child abducter, a murderer...etc)  Point is we feel a greater affinity to those close to us (superficial included) If one's world is porn then the passing of a porn star will be a loss.  

When Faye desiree passed away a year ago, i felt a loss although i've never met her.  How was she different than other any other provider or any other human being?  She touched many lives, and mine was one of them.

Not all lives are equal.

Reamn!

I appologize... I didn't realize my post sounded that shallow.  It is sad that she died, and the fact that I never knew her beyond the porn industry explains why I didn't comment on anything beyond her career.  Again, it is sad and I feel for her family.

I didn't mean to dig up dirt about how she died... I was just curious.  The article said she died at her home, so naturally I thought of suicide or drugs. If it said she died at hospital I may have thought of cancer or something.  I am still curious though, did she have an illness, a physical condition... what?  I don't think it's harsh or insensitive to ask how a person died.

-- Modified on 8/5/2002 10:04:00 PM

It is, of course, common human nature to be curious about death and to ask why somebody died.  Mention to anybody that you know somebody passed away and guess what their first question will be?  It will be to ask how they died. There is nothing wrong with that and it is not a reflection of their class or their manners.