I'd be a bit nervous, because of what they are used to seeing. The porn dudes are all buff, and small physically, their junk notwithstanding. It would seem "regular" escorts see all kinds of regular joes. Porn stars I would not think would spend a lot of time with regular guys. Most porn guys aren't big, tall guys. The few I've met at strip clubs are much tinier in person. I wonder how at ease they would be with non-porn looking guys.

I have had many conversations about this with the stars I work with. Trust me when i say that the guys you see in the videos are just there to help with the fantasy. Some of the girls dont even find the men they work with on film as attractive...its just a job.
These girls are very happy to see so called normal regular everyday men. so dont be scared at all...you will be delighted to find out that your favorite star might be very much into you.

I am quite amused...

I am about as far away from a "porn dude" as you can get: I'm short, a little overweight, have body hair, average junk... I'm nowhere near the buff, muscular, big-dicked guy in porn films.  I've also had very few problems with porn star escorts due to my looks.

Sure, there are probably some porn stars who don't see guys who don't look like a "porn dude" but they are few in number.  Most of the stars who escort know that most guys don't look like that and they're ok with that.

The real secret to success with the porn star escorts (or any escort for that matter), IMO, is to be CLEAN.  Being RESPECTFUL doesn't hurt either.  From what I've heard from escorts over the years (and ladies, feel free to jump in here) is that taking a shower when you arrive at their place is a turn-on for them.  Being clean, freshly showered, with a touch of cologne or something when they arrive at your door will earn you points.  Almost every escort I've ever seen, the first time they get up close has remarked that I smelled "nice" and things quickly go from there.  Smell is the #1 turn-on - that's why companies make fortunes on perfumes and colognes...

If you're worried about the "lost time" while you're showering, well, you can always do what I've done and ask the lady to join you.  I've never had one turn me down, and showering together leads to friskiness in the shower.  I've even had oral sex right there in the shower...

A few years back I set up a threesome with 2 ladies who've been featured in videos, magazines, etc.  One of the ladies I've known for about 7 years. It was my first encounter with the other.  We were in my hotel room and I started to change my shirt before going to dinner.  The "new" companion said "wow" to the other, who replied "He works out". (This was some years, a couple of surgeries, and 30 less lbs for me). The "new" lady says "Most of the guys I see can barely see their cock beneath their stomach".  We all laughed, but that's the reality of being a "provider".

I understand about being clean and personable. My concern is that the porn star would have higher expectations than a regular escort would.

I've read through this and the key point here is that in my experience with both seeing porn stars and then having spent more than a little bit of time with some, their only real expectation is to be compensated for the agreed-upon donation.   As far as your prowess, looks, charm, etc., as long as the primary consideration has been attended to, most of the girls could care less about the other things.  And if you spend anytime with any of the true professionals (Nikita Denise, Ashley Shye, Chennin Blanc leap to mind), they will be incredibly at ease with you, provided you treat them like a lady and respect their boundaries!  In other words, go for it!  The few regrets I have are for foregone opportunities!

porn stars love their fans..the shoots they do are a job only..robotic sex as one told me..they truly love intimate sex..escorting is their way of doing that..they are fun to be with..their personalities are genuine..do not worry about being at ease or not meeting expectations..just schedule  a session ..you will see..just seeing one of your favorite porn stars in person is always worth the price of admission..the memory of it will last a lifetime..

Not in my experience. Perhaps the high-end providers, whether they're porn stars or not, are used to dealing with a more affluent clientele. But the physical attributes you mentioned are seldom an issue.

With all due respect, I think you should sack up. In other words, you're the one shelling out a good amount of dough for their time and shouldn't be concerned about being rejected by any of them. If anything, they're worried about being rejected by YOU based on THEIR looks! That's right. No matter how beautiful, high-end or in-demand they are, they're still women, and every woman is extremely self-conscious about how she looks to others (and the more attractive they are, the more this applies). We men have a great advantage in that we can attract the opposite sex with qualities other than our physical appearance. And one of those qualities is confidence.

There was a time when I acted nervous, meek and insecure anytime I met with a provider. She'd typically treat me nicely but also as if she was dealing with a little boy. She probably left the appointment thinking how pathetic I was. Because no matter who they are, the average female isn't attracted to "weak" men.

So man up, brother! Walk into that room as if you're in charge (which you are)! She'll appreciate you for it. Unless of course you're hiring a dominatrix, which is a another topic entirely.

The point I'm making is that they don't have higher expectations.  They, like all escorts only really care if you're clean and personable.

the porn star I have seen, was bliss to be with, a real down to earth girl.
they are people, females who deserve respect.

Treat them with respect, they will treat you good my friend

You're so thoughtful.

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