if a PSE which you have paid a large amount for, shows up at the encounter without any makeup, and does not wear provocative clothing;  how would you feel about the encounter?  would that take away from the meeting/experience?  she simply shows up as if she were going to the grocery store.

which leads me to the next philosophical question, do most of you all make these bookings simply for the erotic experience, or is it simply to network with a famous star, or to try to establish a serious relationship?

Well the question has been asked before in different ways but I always like to answer it to see how I am feeling at a particular point in time.
I always liked Fast Eddie's answer that he liked them to look like they came from fresh off of a cover shoot.
But in point of fact, I have done a fair amount of overnights with my ATF PS and I would pick her up at the airport so most of the time she DID look like she just came from the grocery store.  She looked great in the stuff a lot of people would wear to the grocery store and she didn't need provacative clothing to turn heads.

As a side arguements one of the current arguements is regarding Tawny Roberts and whether she is worth booking.  The only recent photos anyone has seen of her look just like she came from the grocery store and no one is interested.  I am reseving judgement still someone shows me a current photo of what she looked like NOW if she were posing for a cover.

As to 2nd part of your question, my ATF is great in bed, fun to hang out.  I don't network with her and trying to establish a serious relationship is out of the question.

Was this PSE completely unattractive TO YOU? Was there an understanding that she'd be dressed up for something in particular? I'd agree that if your gonna hook up for some fun, she should at least look the part to some extent. Was the performance just as unpolished or unprepared? Everything seems to hinge on your overall satisfaction in this particular instance. I mean, if she turned around and did things to you that only happened in the greatest of porn movies, well, then maybe she made up for it.

On the other issue of networking. Only a core group of individuals really seem to have "networked" with the porn stars they have had sessions with. I guess it takes a certain amount of personal investment on both sides to make it a workable relationship. I'm guessing that you've gotta visit with these ladies so easily (i.e. money is no object when it comes to visits) and with frequency to converse on a comfortable, familiar level with common interests.

Personally, I'd have to say its more about having a brief, enjoyable, erotic experience during which I may get a bit insight into the biz or personal views of the PSE. I don't think I have what it takes to be networked, its probably over my head. I'll stick to dabbling...happily.

My 1st PSE wore a nice conservative dress when we met, but underneath she had a bustier and a thong. She only needs a little face makeup (she is naturally gorgeous), which was tastefully done. She looked like she just stepped out of a Victoria Secret's catalogue shoot....

She could've shown up in jeans and a t-shirt and it might've made the encounter even more exciting. I like the tomboy look.

Either way, it's really the girl who makes the outfit, not the other way around.

well, the experience which i had went like this ( i won't mention any names).

first of all,when i arrived at the location, we spoke on the phone and she said she would prefer to see me in the morning, as it was getting too late that night (it was around 11:00).  so i agreed.  well, the next morning, she showed up and was dressed rather conservatively, a white pair of pants, and a tasteful top, but nothing provocative at all.  it was just as if she were going shopping.  also, her hair was still slightly damping from just getting out of the shower from her place i suppose.  she did have some makeup, but not like she was going to a club or anything extravagent.  we had our session (i couldn't turn her down out of politeness), and it was a great session; although i just dont' think it felt like a PSE experience due to the attire.

i do however feel somewhat "networked" now because i feel if i saw her at a club or at a fitness facility she would recognize me, and we could have a nice conversation.

in conclusion, i feel it was overpriced session for what i got.

by the way, this has happened more than once with different people

I see a PSE because it's a fantasy experience, and part of the fantasy is that she's dressed like a pornstar.  Although most of the PSEs I've seen dressed the part, four in particular stand out.  When I say Taylor Wayne, she answered the door in a see-through full length dressing gown, matchin bra, thong and garters, fish-net stockings and 7 inch platform stilettos.  Her hair was perfect and she had "club hopping" makeup on... long eyelashes, eye shadow, hot lipstick and long, perfectly manicured nails.  She looked like she had just come from shooting a box-cover.  The same thing with Kathy Willets; clothing, makeup, hair and nails done to porn star perfection.  The former PSE Raylin took it one step further... her hair, nails and makeup were perfect and she had two or three outfits arranged on the bed and asked me which I'd like her to put on. The fourth was Ava Devine who greeted me with a bustier, garters, fish-nets and platform stilettos; again the hair, makeup and nails were perfect.

For me, the outfit is part of the fantasy and as good as the session might be, I feel that without that it diminishes the experience somewhat.  It wouldn't keep me from seeing a girl again if we had a good time, but the next time I'd be sure to request sexier clothing/makeup etc.

Personally, I'm really into high stiletto heels; what has suprised me is when I'm in the room and ask the girl to put some on, on more than one occasion she's responded that she didn't bring any CFM shoes with her!  How can a PSE NOT know that that's a big turn on for a lot of guys.

Hmmmm,
well since everyone else is gone on spring break.

Since it was a morning session, I would expect her to have makeup on appropriate for the morning rather than going out at night.  
Sounds like she did an outcall since "she showed up" so again if she showed up in the middle of the morning at your hotel  looking like she was ready for the middle of the night, then everyone would know she was a hooker (excuse my language, ladies).
And if this had happened to me before, then I would have told her to bring something sexy to change into.  Which is actually what I told my ATF.  I didn't care if she arrived in something inconspicuous as long as she had something she could change into and I even told her what to bring and she did.

Last but certainly not least, I always thought the PSE experience, and the definition is a moving target was a sexual experience your wife or girlfriend wouldn't do for you.  For me that includes 1)BBBJ and CIM or on her tits or face, unusual positions you only see in porn movies, sexual aggressiveness on her part, dirty talking if that is your thing.
In other words the sex outa look like a porn movie only with me as the male star.
That to me is the pornstar experience.
If you got that, then you got your money's worth in my opinion even if she showed up in a mumu.  LOL

I love morning sex which is part of the reason I do overnights but you gotta expect that morning look which is different from the going to the nightclub look.

I think you should feel like you are getting your moneys worth.  Afterall it is your money.  I think if you are having a regular problem with this happening to you, you need to take the time to explain to the lady what you like before she comes over especially when it comes to dress.  The other option, of course, is to provide the clothing you want her to wear.  

Ooh and as to the networking part, if my ATF was in a nightclub with her friends, I would not expect her to talk to me.  I think that would be a pretty big boundary violation even though she has spent weekends at my home and I am not sure I would necessarily want her walking up to me if I was engaged with my friends.  I would want her to ask my permission.

Depends on how she looked. Recently saw an UTR who showed up straight from a shoot in sweats and tshirt with hair in ponytail and she took my breath away. A girl who looks hot without trying does it for me I guess.

I see my favorite PS not because see's a Porn Star but because to me she is the most beautiful woman I've ever been with and rocks my world. I actually like her better with no make-up on, she looks much better that way than with her porn make-up on.

so ur paying PS prices and get someone showing up in like she was going to the "grocery store?" PUH-LEEZE!!!

when u go on a job interview, do u go like ur gonna do yardwork?!?!?  i didnt think so.

if im shelling out beaucoup coin for a PS, she damm well better show up LOOKING like a PS or stay her ass home!

and for those who feel that some look fine "au natural?"  maybe so, but that's a SIGINIFICANT minority.  most women look 10 times better w/makeup, including PSs.

networking w/PS?  what, are we looking to get into the industry? cuz the only networking she wants to do is w/the benjamins in your pocket!  nuff said

A BIG turn on for me is provider wearing a pair of tight low-rider jeans & a sexy top w/with out a bra along w/a T-back.

Jodie Moore, Stevie, Jessica Jaymes, Teri Weigel (many yrs. ago when I met her) & some of UTR's I have seen are just natural beauties w/out make-up or w/just a little bit of make-up.

Never go to or make a "meeting/date" looking for a long term relationship but like FastEddie I have made "real" friendships w/some very nice providers, porn stars, Playboy model & a Penthouse Pet.

How many porn ladies arrive on 'set' already dolled-up? There are enough blogs out there of the industry that describe 'pre-game' prep. They come dressed as  you would see them in the mall, etc., and then they go into their 'bag-o-tricks' for their outfits, make-up, etc.

So, you may be getting a bit more of a 'true PSE' than you are intending. (IMO her 'prep time' should not be considered on the clock if she is doing this.)

than the "Pornstar Outfits".

Eddie makes an excellent point. Considering that you are normally paying Top Dollar, particularly for the 'first time', with a PSE, I'd expect them to look like they'd put in a serious effort to look their best. It's really a question of respect and professionalism.  If you just want a roll in the hay, you can go to Craig's list. If you hire a PSE, you expect them to appear like you saw them in the movies/photos.  If you then decide to book additional engagements, it totally dependds upon what the two of you agree upon. As another poster noted, if I'm picking her up at the airport after a long flight, I do not expect her to be buffed. If you've seen her often enough, and have had over-nighters etc, then you know what she looks like when she's not made up.  My ATF loves to dress up. However, I know how long it takes her and sometimes I'd prefer she skip the outfit and make-up and "let's just have lunch..then screw".  For the first few times, though, I want the "fantasy".

I just saw a UTR PS and she answered the door in a t-shirt, jeans, and shoes. Very normal clothing, but it looked good on her, and she did change into something more racy right before we got started.

Was this an incall or outcall also? I can understand if she came to you looking "normal", but then dressed up once she was there. If it was incall (like mine above was) it's not overly upsetting as long as she changes. I've had it where the girl was dressed sexy, and was dressed normal.

I agree w/ Eddie that the "fantasy" part plays a major role and I would prefer that she dress like a sexy porn star, but I don't think, for me it doesn't, that it takes away from the session. She's the one fucking you, not her clothes, and let's face it most of it comes off anyway.  lol

As for why I make my bookings...  I do it simply for the experience. I've gotten a video, several autographs, pictures, etc. I don't actually think it will ever turn into something, especially since I don't have the $$ to establish any kind of regular meetings. I do it simply to see a hot girl in person and have great sex. If something more happens so be it, but I don't plan on it and certainly don't expect it to happen.

I guess my fantasy is a little different than some other guys when it comes to porn stars. I'd rather have them looking like a normal girl who performs like a porn star. From reviews of some porn stars you may get the looks but then get a performance that is way less than that of a regular provider. I know with the 2 PS's I'm seeing tomorrow they look hotter than hot and happen to be porn stars and their performance has always been off the charts, and yes I can always know that I have been with a particular porn star but that it didn't seem so businees like if they were casually dressed, more like being an actual friend to a porn star.

The experience that i had was a outcall, but whether or not it is incall or outcall, you would expect provactive clothing (at least high heels).

i guess to put my question in perspective, if you have a meeting with Briana Banks (who is the most popular porn star to date), and she showed up with no makeup and casual clothing, would you leave the experience with the same satisfaction?  by the way, the PS i had the experience with was not briana banks, i'm just using her as an example since she is the finest porn star today!  

basically, would your PSE experience be satisfied simply because you mingled with "Briana Banks" even though she didn't look the part, or would the experience  be less satisfying due to how she dressed.

If Katja Kassin showed up in sweats and sneakers it really wouldn't matter to me.  Same for most of the Hungarian girls on my favorite porn sites.  For one thing, the stripper uniform (clear heels, butt-crack showing jeans, etc.) do little for me at my age; which is to say that what a lot of women think men find attractive is lost on me.  For another thing, the visuals I care about have little to do with dress; for instance I've found that the visuals I like in porn (stiletto heels, thongs) just don't make that much difference when I've got my tongue buried in the most holy-of-holies of my spread-eagled ATF.  As for why PSEs, I can say that the few I've done are all about the experience--these are women who I already know look a certain way, behave a certain way and offer certain specialties.