There's a lot of really on the money advice here. I've been with my share of porn stars and have the same feelings. It's only worth it if you've had serious downstairs feelings for someone/s in particular. I've been pleased more than let down, but I have had a few expensive lackluster times. That being said, lately I've decided to go high end escort over porn stars. I know it's been discussed ad nauseum, but for half the rate (or less), you can have some very special time with someone who might be just as hot and talented (and doesn't get bare backed regularly by guys that you would probably prefer not to follow).
Posted By: mrfrench
Posted By: curious4fun75
Hi everyone,
I have never had a session with a porn star and was curious to see if others in the community think the $$$$ is worth the experience? Is there something different/more than being able to re-create the fanasty whenever you see the provider in a vid?
Also is date-check.com sufficient for screening?
Thanks for your advice.
I've been with a lot of porn stars, only a fraction of which I've reviewed or talked about. Some were even in the days before TER...
That said, several people here have made some good points. There's one other thing to consider: what do you want out of the experience?
If you want mind-blowing sex, you don't need a porn star for that. There are plenty of escorts around the country who can give you that. Some of them are even better at it than some of the porn stars and they're a lot cheaper for the most part - the better ones are about half the cost of the average porn star.
If you want arm candy to accompany you to a meeting, a show, dinner, a wedding, or some other function where you'll be seen, sure, a porn star will have everyone talking especially if she's recognized. Is that what you want? If so, fine. If not, again, there are plenty of regular escorts around the country who are attractive, and can handle themselves appropriately in social situations, who will make your enemies hate you more than they did before you showed up with that hot young woman, and make you're friends very jealous.
So, what is it that you want from porn stars? What do they give you that no one else can provide? There's really only one thing: the fantasy. You've seen her on film, you've probably masturbated watching her, you wish you could fuck someone like that and...lo and behold... for a thousand or two thousand (or more) dollars, you can. You can live out that fantasy. If you have the money to spend, and can afford to spend it, why not fulfill that fantasy and give yourself a lasting memory? And the next time you watch one of her films, you can say "I did that".
I've heard some people liken "dating" porn stars to climbing Mt. Everest. Yes, there are plenty of other mountains to climb, and climbing Everest is costly, and dangerous. But, in the end, doing it gives you a lasting memory and the right to say "I climbed that". It's the same with porn stars as escorts - they are more costly, there are plenty of other less costly options, but in the end you have a memory and can say "I did that".
Whether you're planning to see a porn star, or a "regular" escort, DO YOUR HOMEWORK! Read the reviews and see what people say about her so you don't walk into the date with unrealistic expectations and so you don't choose to see someone who isn't going to provide you with the type of experience you're looking for - not every woman will do everything. And, I've repeated this many times and people still don't get it: just because a woman does something on film, or she does something with a guy who reviewed her, DOES NOT MEAN that she is going to do it with YOU. They always have the right to say "no".
Now, on to your second question: whether or not date-check is sufficient for screening purposes depends entirely on the girl and/or the agency. Some are ok with just that as a screening process. Others are not. It certainly doesn't hurt to be on that site but references from girls you've seen, or being whitelisted here on TER are much more useful, in my experience.
Hope this helps.