Having participated in this hobby for going onto 11 years, there are many PSEs who for one reason or another (retirement, death), I missed the chance to see.  These are my largest regrets:

Nici Sterling
Stacy Valentine – The way she would sweat while she was getting fucked was a major turn-on.
Danielle Derek
Amber Michaels
Tina Cheri
Sana Fey
Taylor St. Claire- I had actually booked a double with Sana Fey and Taylor for two hours with video allowed. Stupidly I got buyer's remorse at the rate and canceled at the last minute – Doh!
Tami Monroe
Anna Malle - I had TWO opportunities to see Anna; I met her at AVN and was suppose to hook up and we just never pinned a time down.
Lexus Locklear – One of the hottest woman ever to do porn.
Raquel Darrien – The only drawback was that her husband stayed in the room and watchede while you fucked her.
Chloe Jones
Victoria Paris
Wanda Curtis
Bridgette Kerkove
Sunrise Adams – Sunrise briefly toured with her aunt Sunset Thomas and did doubles together!!!

Great list- I remember seeing a lot of the ones mentioned when they danced and never thought of or knew to ask about anything else-  first one I approached was Kathy Willets- (since I had heard she had been at the Ranch- I figured why not- saw her at an unbelievable rate- years ago while she was still dancing- she was actually surprised that I asked)

Would have to list

Anna Malle as my top disappointment- got a lap dance from her while dancing- got her number, called but never hooked up

Gina Lynn- again got lap dance, got number- talked about it-  didn't call- basically she wanted same fee as the fee of the agency she was with and I figured on principle if she wasn't going through the agency she should have given a discount

I would have loved to seen Sana Fay

Good thread topic, but without a doubt my #1 missed opportunity was a non-porn star who I had cancelled my appt. with, & I'm still kicking myself - 5 years later..

Morgan Ashley of LA

Eddie, Danielle Derek is still around if you have enough patience and persistence. She's a great time!

Totally agree on Stacy Valentine... I've been looking for a PSE that sweats like that since she's stopped performing.

Carmella Bing is my all time favorite.  Does anyone know how to contact her?

I also missed out on Taylor St. Claire. I had forced overtime at work and missed my appt. Still kicking myself in the butt for that one.

Wanda Curtis? Damnnn!!! The Racquel Darrien situation would've been interesting, but not in a good way.

Deena daniels and neveah...pregnant

Dani woodward...retired

Sarah blake...retired, moved, boob job

Erica boyer...lap dance and was clueless

In 1982, I saw Lisa DeLeeuw dance at the Mitchell Brothers Theater in San Francisco.  I would have loved to see her privately.  Sadly, she died of AIDS a few years later--although there's a rumor that she floated the AIDS story in order to disappear from the porn industry and start a new life.  I hope that's the case.

Good topic- lots of good responses-  I'm assuming the ones on Eddie's list were all available at one time?

if so-  Victoria Paris- also saw dancing and if I had known back then would have love to f her

Not sure if she was ever available but would add Leena to my list also saw years ago dancing

Nina Hartley was my ATF, saw her dancing 2 or 3 times-  15 years ago back when she had that deep tan with sexy tanlines and really in great shape- one time went up to get her autograph was thinking about inquiring but the guy in front of me was talking to her about meeting or something and she nicely declined, I got my autograph and as I'm leaving she grabs my butt- I think about asking but a little gunshy since she just turned the guy down in front of me (though he was kind of a mess- so maybe?)-

Great thread Eddie!
Anna Malle's at the top of my list as well. I had she and Kathy Willets scheduled back to back on two straight days about 4 years ago on a trip to Vegas and Anna had to cancel on me. I spoke to her on the phone twice before our appointment and she was absolutely delightful to chat with. Even though Anna had to cancel on me, Kathy made up for it big time!!!!!!!!!! We miss you Anna.
I had an appointment scheduled with Ryan Conner a few years ago and the same day my brother was having heart palpatations out of state so I had to cancel and jump in the car. Nice to hear that she's come out of retirement so maybe I'll be able to schedule another time with her.
Lastly I was offered by referral so see a major UTR hottie by another above the radar gal but funds were in short supply at the time. I shoulda sold a kidney or something! LOL!!!

Great topic indeed!

The only lady I missed out on who I knew of at the time she was advertising her availability was Rebecca Lord, but I did get lap dances from her on two occasions.

Those that I've found out about since my entrance into the hobby, but who preceded me, include Crystal Wilder, Fallon and, of course, Taylor St. Claire. On the happy other hand, I got in just under her retirement to be the last fan that Venus ever saw -- and I had her all to myself for a weekend. Glad to report she held nothing back, even though she knew a new life awaited her when she flew back cross-country.

But my biggest regret is that I never got to meet a Southern Charm by the name of Redd Hott Momma. Does anyone remember her?

Back in the day long before I knew about the hobby. I worked as a doorman at a Gentlemens Club and was responsible for picking up the features at the airport. I was in charge of there security when they were at the club so I got to talk to and meet with quite a few of them.
My favority was Tami Monroe. I also met with Anna Malle,  Meghan Leigh, Viper and several old school ladies. Ahh the good old days.

I'm sure she was just fuckin' with me (in a figurative sense) but I saw her once at an appearance she was making at a local theatre back in the late 80s during her heydey.  She sat on my lap for the $5 polaroid (which was taken by her then husband Bud Lee) and then gave me a nice kiss on the cheek and a wink while she grabbed my ass.  I wanted to grab hers but with her hubby/manager 5 feet away, I thought better of it.  As I started to walk away I gave her a quick hug and she whispered in my ear "See you later tonight???"

I was so shocked that I nearly shit my pants. One more look at Bud made me think I better get the hell back to my seat in the theater.  


Damn, that would have been the ultimate fantasy.  Hyapatia was one of my first all-time faves.

Anna Malle - Had several opportunities but just could never make it happen.
Nikki Dial - Don't know if she ever actually went through with any appointments, but one of the services had her on tour years back.  I actually had the appointment made and they cancelled the appointment.   Would pay almost anything for the opportunity with Nikki.

UGH this is painful for me, but I missed out on Trina Michaels, Aline and Cherokee. Audrey Bitoni was in my town dancing at a club for 4 f'n days I was going to go to see her, to schedule something but due to circumstances I couldn't make it

I can honestly say I haven't really "missed out" on too many opportunities. That being said I've only been hobbying w/ PS's for only the last 2-3 years.  There have been a few UTR's that appeared on an agency and I didn't/couldn't set anything up and now their profile is missing so I'm not sure if they stopped providing or were no longer available through the agency.

Some of the names mentioned above though make me wish they still provided.  Sunrise Adams and Stacy Valentine are def up there.

I was still in the USMC and had an appointment scheduled with her down in Atlanta through BM.  I was going to make the 7 hour trip for the weekend, but got derailed by something called 9/11.  BASTARDS!  

Stacy Valentine would have been my all time fave and I would have taken a loan out of my 401k to see her.  And I also would have fucked Raquel Darrien in front of her husband@! LOL...No problem there.

Oh yeah and Eddie, the poster above is correct, Danielle Derek is still around, and can be seen.

I know... I now realize that I didn't mean Danielle Derek... I was thinking of Danyel Cheeks.

A similar story... back in the 90's I saw Trinity Loren at Show World in Times Square and after her dance went into one of those private booths where you talk to the girl on a phone while she sits behind a glass wall.  She fucked herself with a big dildo and talked dirty to me  while I whacked off.  She asked me what I was doing later, and being too dumb to realize what she was hinting at I gave some lame answer about bar hopping with some friends.  What a moron I was!

She died a few years later in 1998 of a drug overdose.

I listed Danielle Derek; I believe she's still available (although hard to pin down).

I was referring to the 90's big-haired, big busted stripper/pornstar Danyel Cheeks who came to fame originally with John Stagliano.  John was a genius in that he predated Bang Bros. and others with his "reality" based movies where they supposedly picked up "regular" girls off the street. and took them back to their hotel room to fuck.  Danyel first appeared in Butt Man does Las Vegas.

amber michaels when she was available through exotica-2000 a few yeaers back.(limited availability)
It still hurt when I think about it..

The Admiral Theater in Chicago used to fly pornstars in to dance between the movies. A pornstar named Serena, who was big in the late 70's was dancing there and posing for photos in the lobby. She was seriously crazy. One of the bouncers there told me she was a handful. As I got a photo with her, she kept grabbing me and saying how cute I was and I should go backstage with her. Between the bouncers giving me the cold-eye and my youthful trepidation, I politely declined. She kept asking and tugging on me and the guys in line kept staring and I kept declining and finally I just walked away. My buddies were just about rolling on the floor laughing at me. What an idiot I was!

I missed on Shanna McCullough, Ariana,(Luc Wylder's EX) Marie Silva aka Aria, Ona Zee, and Sana Fey.  Just plain stupid on my part.

ATF was Mustang Sally Layd! Sexy, cool, love to talk dirty, and nasty like in her videos!

Those booths were a manna from heaven. The excitement that coursed through my veins when I heard over the P.A. system that after her dance, Lauren Brice (LAUREN BRICE!) would be available for one-on-one booth sessions.

The combination of nervousness and excitement I don't think has ever been felt again to this extent.

And you know what? She was great. First thing she said after I asked if it was OK to pull down my pants, was "nice cock."

I pity the poor fools whose greatest brush with fame was something like being invited to the White House to meet a sitting president.

It's not apples and oranges. It's filet mignon and chopped meat. All right, beef chuck.

I remember her well... she and Jamie Gillis were a couple, and both were pretty heavy into S & M.  She was wild on film and from what I've read/heard, was just as wild or wilder off-screen.  You should have gone for it dude!

Of all the pornstars I've met (at least 50 of them), the only ones who were escorting at the time I met them, but I regretfully did not proposition were DAVIA ARDELL and LETHA WEAPONS.

I was one of the lucky ones who got to see Donita when she was active but it must have been 8 or 9 years ago. She was GFE and PSE all rolled into one! After we were done playing I drove her to the grocery so she could buy some Diet Coke and microwave popcorn!

my number #1 regret is not seeing Ava Devine when she was available. I hope she gets a divorce.

When bobbi bliss was available in nyc a few years ago she emailed me to setup an appointment and I didn't check my email that day, and I missed a opportunity to get head from the best cocksucker I have ever seen.

She walked by - we made eye contact and at the last second she reached out and squeezed my arm.

No words were exchanged - she looked great!

Victoria was one of the FIRST pornstars who escorted.

Great list. I did get to see Nici Sterling and Anna Malle. Both were fantastic.

Of the missed opportunites, I completely agree on Amber Michaels and Raquel Darrian. They were always at the top of my list.

I would add Leena and Dascha as I really regret missing both. I also always wished for the chance to see Tiffany Million. I could go on but those are the names that come to mind right now.

...like the time you mixed up Kia with Kitty Yung.  Do you have video?

I didn't know Dascha was ever available.  I saw her in a very recent MILF/Cougar video so she's still doing porn... maybe she's still available.

i don't think dascha was ever avaialble.
Vivid contracts a few years back were very lucrative. plus this girls made lots of money on
appearances/signings.
I think she retired from porn and headed back home to czech. I've seen the milf theme video but believe it's on a compilation type dvd.
(from scenes after she left vivid)

She was active up until 2007

How about the tall, statuesque brunette Angel from the mid-80s.  Great face, great body.  Don't know where she is now, but if she's interested, I'll look into obtaining appropriate funds.

I have it from two seperate and reliable sources who saw Victoria personally.  These guys are senior hobbyists who've never lied, so I have no reason to doubt them.  And since Victoria is one of my ATF's, it's not a case of mistaken identity.

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Dang it, Ed, never choke on the "burn" word.

I wish Lauren Montgomery was available.  Something about her tall model-like physique always got me going...probably doesn't qualify as a missed PSE opportunity b/c I'm not sure she ever was available.

Lauren was most certainly available many years ago.  She was listed with Body Miracle at the time.  Unfortunately she retired from the porn/sex biz over 5 years ago.

My two ATF pornstars, Roxanne Hall and Bianca Trump, used to provide and I missed out on both.  My next two favorites would probably be Christy Canyon and Nikki Dial.  I read that Nikki used to provide before she began making films, but, to my knowledge, neither she nor Christy provided during or after.  Alas!