I really don't mind shelling out 1k+ for the right girls but there are certain things that are complete deal breakers for me, just wondering if anyone else agrees or if mine seem unreasonable.  Because twice now I was about to book with someone until I saw certain things.
Mine are:
1. CBJ. I understand why some girls don't want to preform BBBJs but I don't understand how they can still charge so much.

2. No videotaping or charging extra for videotaping. I like to see a variety of providers and basically I like to have something to remember better.  I really don't understand why it costs an extra 300+ for something that has no bearing on the provider.

3.  Not allowing facials.  No reason for this imo.

1. CBJ. I understand why some girls don't want to preform BBBJs but I don't understand how they can still charge so much.

They can beacause someone will pay it. It would be a deal breaker for me as well at that price however...

2. No videotaping or charging extra for videotaping. I like to see a variety of providers and basically I like to have something to remember better.  I really don't understand why it costs an extra 300+ for something that has no bearing on the provider.

No bearing?  You can sell it or at the least put it on you tube.  IT's her image and her bread and butter. She has a right to protect it and a right to charge whatever she wants for it.

3.  Not allowing facials.  No reason for this imo.

From a health perspective if semen gets in a girls eye it is getting into her blood stream.

Couple quick takes on the thread...First, if someone wants to tape a session, IMO, best thing to do is hire a professional cameraperson..That way the finished DVD is much better...

As far as facials, that has never been important to me...

And w/regards to deal breakers, I have my preferences & I'll leave it at that....

Think your analysis is spot on (especially re videotaping).  

The only thing I would add is, while I prefer (hell, LOVE!) getting a BBBJ, I think the reason some may only offer cbj is to avoid the unexpected -- and unwelcome -- CIM.  I have little doubt that there are plenty of people who would shoot a load in a PSs mouth without any advance warning or "go ahead."

BBBJ and DFK if they dont do these its a deal breaker for me.

I get the CBJ thing just from a health perspective. Some providers will wait until you're a quasi-regular customer before the BBBJ is even on the menu. From a health perspective I kind of appreciate this. the industry takes great steps to avoid diseases being spread but if the PS is out giving BBBJ to guys like us then you never quite know what you might be getting yourself into.

And I agree that videotaping is a nice touch but the PS DOES make their living doing that and it's their perogative as to what they want everyone to be able to see. You could put it up on youporn or redtube or any of the sites like that if you wanted to.

I used to insisit on video taping when I first started seeing pornstars, but it became too much work so now I usually don't care.  But my deal breakers are:

CBJ
No DFK

I don't care one way or the other about facials... in fact I prefer swallowing or at least CIM

CBJ without a doubt. Who wants their dick sucked thru a Hefty bag at those prices?