I read your posts about bringing an intimate picture with you when you approach a porn star for a private show while she is working at a club, and I have a question:

  I have gotten many private shows from strippers at various clubs. One rule which I scrupulously follow is to NEVER disclose to one girl the identity of any of the other strippers there I have seen. Sometimes it drives me crazy because a new girl will say that she would consider it except she doesn't know me well enough to feel safe, and I want to say "Why don't you just ask XXX about me", but I have stuck to the rule. I even have had girls approach me and say "XXX says you like private shows, and I was wondering if you would like one with me", and I act like I have no idea what they are talking about. (However, if XXX tells me it is okay to talk to them, then I do.)

   My question is whether you think it is different with porn stars because they don't mind other porn stars knowing that they do private shows? Those that work for agencies presumably wouldn't care, but I would think those that try to keep it quiet might not appreciate having their picture shown. I have had sessions with two girls who Doc has stated he has no "411" about and a third who it has been posted says she does not do private shows, so some of them obviously want to keep it quiet. After all, Doc has often posted here that he cannot give out private contact info on certain girls, so I assume those same girls would not want their photos shown. Or, are they just worried about getting too many calls or emails?

  Of course, if you have a photo with someone who advertises that private shows are available (like Rebecca Lords), I guess it is not a problem. So, perhaps that answers my own question. Anyway, your thoughts would be appreciated.

  P.S. I totally agree with Score's suggestion to go during the week. I almost always go on Thursday night to the early show. I generally get my picture taken with them after the show as well as a couple of lap dances, and then they usually have at least an hour to kill before the next show, so there is time to talk to them then. Most of them do the lap dances after all of the autographs have been signed and photos taken, so you don't have to deal with the crowds. If they don't do lap dances or I can't discuss a private show during the lap dances, I also agree with giving a tip to a staff member to arrange the discussion, but I usually tip one of the dancers rather than the manager. It has worked just as well for me since the house dancers usually have access to the star's dressing area.

Hi,

I don’t go to any clubs for my activities or any activities; it is a venue I will never partake in for personal reasons that those that know me are aware of.

The information I have provided here about clubbing is based on ‘SCORE’s” successful rendezvous in this type of venue and of others that have followed his similar steps as well.

Pornstars that feature are publicly displayed on Boards, Magazines and local Newspapers since they are the added value for that particular club and they are additional income generators, the reasons why they are paid more than others, which is do mainly for their popularity on the Big Screen so one hobbyist showing a photo of a Pornstar who features to another one is something I don’t see wrong, besides most of them could
care less as they have told me when I have inquired while meeting them. By showing the photo you are not stating that you have done “Private Shows” with her but that you have taken a photo with her and nothing more. How you utilize the photo for you advantage is how Score and others have and is up to one to adapt his own style for such thing.

As for ladies that I have said I have no 411 or ladies that I am aware that do escort but have asked me not to post it and not even say it are for many reasons:

1. I truly don’t have any info about them. (Less of the cases).
2. I have been asked not to provide their information. (The majority of the Cases).
3. Some ladies are contracted girls and companies such as Vivid, do not like the idea that their ladies escort as told by several of them that I have spoken and seen were their contracts could be terminated. (Very few cases).
4. They have children, boyfriends, and families and is sufficient for them to know that they do porn to also find out that they are escorting. (Some cases).
5. They don’t do it on a regular basis but by referral from other Pornstars/Friends exclusively and ask to keep it this way. (Many of the cases of my 47 PSE’s).

As I have said here, I will not burn my breaches and/or contacts for anyone just to look like a Stud because I met someone that tons of hobbyists have said they do not when several senior hobbyists and I have seen them. I am sure you have gone thru this as you have said of three NO 411 posted here that you have seen and you have refrained from posting them here for whatever reasons you have chosen.

Continue building your referral and database, one day you will hit the jackpot like many have already and if you haven't already.

Cheers,

Seth A/K/A The Doctor

-- Modified on 6/12/2002 5:09:30 AM

I should clarify here that any intimate photo I show a porn star or feature dancer of myself with another porn star or feature dancer is just that...intimate. I can't just show a picture of both of us in a club with our clothes on because that doesn't prove that I've had a private appt. with her and thus can be trusted. HOWEVER, I would never disrespect the privacy of anyone I've seen who does not publicly advertise escorting; all the pix I've used are of women like Minka and Kianna who are visible to many.

Mark,

By the way, I'm glad the club approach has worked for you and I think you raised two good points. One, you can just as easily use this approach on house dancers. I've done it...it's great because you see the girl in person instead of an internet photo that could be outdated or touched-up. You can also see what their personality is like beforehand too. Second, I'd never thought of it, but tipping one of the house dancers to introduce you to a feature also makes sense if the manager is busy.

Score

In reference to showing pictures to help assure the ladies you are legit, I have used this approach with success.  However, I have only shown a picture of the two of us in a hotel room which shows it wasn't taken place at a public type of event.  I don't think an intimate picture is necessary in this case.

In clubs I've gone to, I've made good contacts with regular waitresses.  Many times, waitresses are tipped out by the dancers and many times waitresses can be hand picked to wait on you in the "VIP" rooms.  They remember you because you are a good tipper and thus they set you up with various girls who may fit your bill.

Whoever you tip... remember, you take care of them and they'll tkae care of you.