So this past weekend in chicago, I had the opportunity to spend some time with a beautiful young porn star. Although she had no reviews here, I wanted to see her and figured it had to be fun based on her movies and scenes. When we actually got to playing she pulled out a condom for a cbj. In my limited experience with porn stars that was definitely a first. Had I known in advance I probably would have passed on her. Was curious if cbj is the exception or the rule with porn star providers.  And is it something I should have thought to ask about first?

While I've expressed numerous times the only apt (BB) I book, I think its reasonable to assume CBJ is very rare (though some clients might ask for it)..

I would send a Macy's gift card for $1,200 to Mitt Romney (and im a far left guy) before I book a CBJ or CFS appt...

Which is also why I never rely on the very vague and subject to wide-ranging interpretations acronyms of "PSE" or "GFE."  If there is a specific act that you want to make sure will be part of the experience, I've found it's best to confirm that ahead of time.  Of course, asking such questions can create tension with the girls unless you have a very good referral, a bunch of reviews or are whitelisted here.

As far as your more general question, it has been my experience that porn chix are usually ok with bbbj (almost all that I have seen and I'm up to 40 or so at last count) as well as cim.  Personally, I absolutely see this as being an integral part of "PSE" since 95% of the scenes I see seem to end that way!   Of course, it's point of personal preference for the girls and I respect anyone's decision to set boundaries with which they are comfortable.  Just as I respect my ability to have this issue be a deal breaker, I personally do not see girls who do not allow bbbj/cim, in or out of the film arena.

That said, I just conducted a very unscientific poll for you, doing two review searches here, setting the following parameters: 1) Porns Stars in US who allow CBJ and 2) Pornstars in the US who allow CIM, either spit or swallow.  In the first search, there were 21 pages of reviews and looking thru the 1st 5 pages, only saw 5 names I recognized: Courtney Cumms, Sophie Dee, Kelly Devine, Anita Blue and Maya Hills.  Interestingly enough, for me anyway, the only one of those I'd be interested in seeing anyway would be Anita.  Also made me reflect that I've met Sophie Dee on at least three separate occasions at industry functions and she was a screaming bitch every time.  Never did figure that out, I'm actually quite gracious as such things.  

Anyhoo, search 2 had 37 pages of reviews, with a lot more names I recognized in the 1st 5, Jessi Castro, Becca Blossoms, Dani Woodward, Keisha, Flower Tucci, Karen Fisher, Ashley Shye, Shay Fox, Dahlia DeNyle, Valerie Castro, Ginger Lea and Sara Jay (and have had the pleasure of spending some quality time with Ashley, Valeria and Dahlia).  You can add to that list Nikita Denise, Claire Dames, Kiki Daire, Mia Domore, Sasha Knox, Taylor Lynn and Veronica Jett as girls who agree with my analysis.   It would seem there are lot more girls who do than don't allow bbbj!

Still, the real points here: assume nothing, get and use you TER VIP membership!  Look thru the reviews carefully, it's been my experience that if more than a couple of the reviews provide specific details regarding what you're looking for, you're quite likely to have that be part of your experience, understanding, of course, that people do change their minds about things so you still may want to verify with the individual provider!

Well, obviously it wasnt a deal breaker as much as a disappointment.  Though I get tested regularly I assumed that the fucking would be covered but I also assumed (incorrectly) that an integral part of the pse is a bbbj. It didnt occur to me to even ask. In hindsight I should have walked away, but its kind of hard to get up once youre naked in bed with a condom on.

Have not decided to post a review yet or not,as I think that the porn star in question may be utr. She had no reviews when I saw her at least

A porn star I saw, as she she was about to give me a CBJ, told me its in their contract that when they provide they have to use protection even for BJ's

who knows if its true

That, my friend, is a very clever excuse AND a total crock of shit!  Two ways to back that up: 1) I've seen a few of these contract/release forms and that ain't in it and 2) let's stretch out a bit with our thinking and ask ourselves, "how the fuck would they possibly enforce such a thing?"  Now granted, that's based upon the standard one-day shoot contract.  Who knows what could be in the Vivid contract girls' contracts?  Altho, I would wager that not doing tricks at all would be one thing.

Of course it's true, she reports back to the company she works for and ALWAYS tells them the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth,,,,,, hey I've got some real good land I can sell you, super cheap!

Interestingly enough, my first point is the most salient, most of the girls I've gotten to know in the industry are pretty damn sharp!  Good senses of humor, too!

In my opinion, I think it depends heavily on the physical attraction & chemistry you have upon meeting your date. I've seen more than 25 different porn chicks only 1 required cbj. Yes it was a disappointment but I managed to get through it. Every chick & every situation is different, take nothing for granted.

corwinofavalon and journeythunder both hit the nail on the head.

There are two factors involved:
1.  Personal choice - some porn stars will do all the things as a provider that they do on screen.  Some don't.  Some providers will do everything with a client that they would do in their personal life.  Some don't.  It's entirely up to them.  That's why reviews are so important.  Now, I don't know the lady involved so I can't say for sure, but it's possible that if you walked into the session with a copy of your full STD tests that showed you were totally clean, you *might* have gotten a different session.  One of the reasons (but not all of them) that girls will do cbj as providers but bbbj on screen is fear of stds.  You *can* pass STDs through oral sex (one porn star told me she got gonorrhea in the mouth from oral sex).

2.  Chemistry.  There is nothing so important.  She might not have been attracted to you.  You might have had an odor that she didn't like, or hair on your balls, or she might not have liked the something about you.  I don't know - I don't know you and I wasn't there.  But, every girl has things that to her are turn-offs that might change the type of session you get.  I remember the non-star provider I was with first who had dozens of reviews that all said that she loved to kiss.  She wouldn't kiss me.  Why?  Because she didn't like the way my teeth looked (they're not perfectly straight).  It's an individual thing.

The bottom line is, as others have said: never assume anything.

The only porn star that I've been with that performed a BJ with a condom on was Aurora Snow. I'm not usually a fan of CBJ's but she was so damn pretty that I didn't care....

... is completely contrary to nature, reason, & common sense. I'm sorry you were milked- I mean bilked, that way; you have every right to feel shafted, I mean, no one likes to be jerked around that way, no one...

Though I do also agree with the comment above about chemistry, and every situation being different...it's important to remember that nothing is ever guaranteed... however, when seeing a well reviewed provider, one can usually predict with a fair amount of accuracy what will, or won't, be on the evening's agenda..

Now you tell me?!!!!!