I've seen this girl a few times and she is great. We get along about as well as two people with our arrangement can, I think anyways. She has great sense of humor and I enjoy being with her and I don't think she despises being with me. When I asked her how much she said don't worry about it. Since she doesn't shoot movies or work for free I paid her anyways. I think she was just being polite and probably figured I would pick up on that. Anyone else ever have this happen to them? If so what did you do?

I won't go into here. But I paid her because she was going through a dry spell.

Things like this are bound to happen. I have had it happen to me. I've ended up dating, casually, a few of the providers or even porn stars I've met. One friend of mine, a very interesting member of this board who shall remain nameless (and those who "know," please don't "out" him)
is now living with a provider he met through TER.

For my birthday. It was a multi-day thing and she discounted her fee by one day.

She was a no-show on our first date and she couldn't be reach afterward. Given her good reputation was quite surprise, but I flew back home and she finally called later the following week with an explanation. She offered me a free session the next time I was in town so I took her up on it, and I'm glad I did.