Has anyone had the opportunity to take out a PSE on an actual public date, like dinner or anything similar?  i would like to take things to the next level, but am not sure if i would like the attention with which this may generate.  has anyone done dinner and movie?

I suggest being very careful when taking this step.  Not to long ago, I had a 1hr appt with a pretty famous adult film star.  When we finished, she told me she was starving and having a rotten day.  She seemed like she needed and/or wanted some company.  I offered to take her out to a very nice lunch as friends.  She excitely accepted.  During lunch she told me how stressed she was about money, her car, ex boyfriend etc. However, things went pretty well although she was a little wild.  When I took her back to the hotel, she asked me if I had a good time.  I said yes and that it was wild and crazy refering to the hot sex that we had earlier.  She was so stressed out and a little paranoid from all the weed she smoked, that she totally misinterpreted what I said and completely flipped out.

done it several times..had a perfectly good time..no one knows she is a porn star but the two of you..you blend in perfectly..there are just as normal as anyone in the civie world..the conversation alone about their lives is something no civie girl could ever match..absolutely fascinating..

I guess it depends on the star. I had a multi-hour date with someone and went to dinner. Toward the end of the meal, one of the waiters worked up the nerve to ask her "are you . . .?". Of course, after that several of them wanted autographs or to take pics, which she asked if I minded, then obliged them for a couple of minutes. So, no, you can't always stay incognito.

I've done it with mixed success.

One porn star came to my city and we went out to dinner, and then back to my apartment.  She spent almost the entire time texting on her phone.  Wasn't a great time.  She was UTR so I can't mention her but I'll never see her again.

One time I planned an all-nighter with a UTR porn star which included dinner, show and fun with a porn star who apparently was off her medication.  She constantly was looking over her shoulder, and was paranoid that she was being followed.  She freaked out so bad, she went to the bathroom and disappeared and about two hours later I got a call from the police.  She had gone to the police station to report that she was being followed and they called me to check on her story.  That was one of the weirdest experiences I ever had, especially trying to tell police 5,000 miles from my home what I was doing there and how I knew this woman.

I did an all-nighter with another porn star.  We sat in the restaurant, that had a few work colleagues in it, and talked in a rather loud voice about the guys she fucked and her life as a porn star.  I think it took about a week for my embarrassment to die away.

On the other hand, I've been out to lunches or dinners and done "dating" stuff with Eden Adams, Amy Brooke, Victoria White and a few others and had a great time.  

It really depends on the woman.  Some are good dates, some aren't.

I had the fine pleasure of Debi's company for dinner. I was in a good mood. She gave me a smokey blowjob in the car before dinner right across the street on Sunset Boulevard. She was dazzling as a companion, although she ate like a girl.

Others:

Went bike riding with Venus on San Juan Island. She was lovely and of course I made sure to stay "behind" her the whole time.

Have gone out to dinner with April Blossom on numerous occasions as well as a couple of concerts. Pure class for the most part, except when it came time to let the Stone Temple Pilots know who she was. First she found the tallest guy in the audience and got up on his shoulders. Then the top came off to the wild appreciation of all who wanted to cup those voluptuous tits. Then, in preparation for a body surf to the stage, the top went back on. But I was invested in the thrill more than the admiring looks, so it was all fine with me.

Went out to dinner at a well-regarded restaurant with Dru Berrymore.  Had a great time but Dru is elegant and very bright and is probably the exception.

A couple times i've fone out with porn stars, it was an off the clock dinner....The one girl i went to IL Sole (restaurant on Sunset Blvd.) with was a real nice time..

A girl i use to see (non porn star) and still my #1 favorite, was a terrific dinner date, not only was she an extremely attractive burnette, she was a very fun girl to go out to dinner with...You could talk politics, pop culture, current events, sports, etc with this girl, very bright woman...

Multi-hour dates that include things like dinner or social functions work best, in my opinion, with someone you have an established connection with. I personally don't like committing to multi-hour dates over 3 hours with someone I've never met before. It helps to be able to talk about outside of just what her latests project was over dinner. Also, it helps if she is a combination of GFE & PSE, so dinner doesn't feel like you're just waiting to go back to the room to play.. rather than on a date where the rest is a perk... not an expectation on either parts. Many ladies will agree to dinner/ drinks if their schedule permits either before or after an appointment - sometimes off the clock. It really depends on how booked they are. However, booking it into a leisurely date is always nice and preferred.

I've done several multi hour dinner dates with both Stevie and Sophia Rossi. Both were great fun as these ladies are very down to earth regular gals. It's especially fun with Sophia watching the waiters drool. Although both are semi retired take the plunge with either if you have the chance.

I think you might have read my post wrong...I didn't say anyone was stupid nor was i even implying that....All i said was a girl i use to see was very bright, there wasn't a comparison made to any porn stars, etc..It was just my observation from seeing this girl many times and talking with her enough to know that she was very smart...

I would be the last person to knock porn stars, they are the only providers i see anymore...

I would only do this with someone that I know, without any doubt, would carry themselves in an elegant manner and present themselves at all times as a lady.  I would not risk this with anyone that might behave in a loud (not necessarily rude) manner that would attract unwanted attention, or someone that has an over-the-top outward appearance, e.g. full arm-lenght tattoos, etc.

Having said all that.  I have only taken out two ladies to dinner, who were Dru Berrymore and Adriana Sage (Adriana was over 5 years ago).  Dru knows how to carry herself and dresses like a fashionista from the pages of Vogue.  She cant go wrong with her.  Adriana was similar but seemed to be a little self-conscious, overall though it was a good time and I have no regrets.

At the end of the day, it all depends on you.  If you are in a position not to care what the world thinks then go with whoever you like.  If your profession or personal life requires a certain amount of discretion, then make certain you do your diligence before setting out in public.  Finally, make sure there is no misunderstanding as to whether the dinner portion is on the clock or off it. Get this wrong and the evening will certainly end with fireworks.

If you are worried, go with Dru.  She can also carry a conversation on a wide variety of topics, both national and international.  Makes for much better dinner conversation.  Personally, aside from a couple of PS, I find for these types of dates you are better off with a high-end courtesan like Mika Hoffman, among others.

I will get off my soapbox here.  Just my 2 cents.

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Bridgette Monroe. Great dinner companion and it made dessert that much better

My first meeting with her was a one hour appointment in the evening.  The appointment went well and afterwards we were discussing our plans for the rest of the evening.  I had actually planned on going to a nearby casual Tex-Mex place that I liked.  To my surprise, she asked if I would mind some company as she was hungry and liked Tex-Mex.

It did occur to me that some people in the restaurant might recognize her, but I didn't really care as she was dressed well and a very good conversationalist.  After a very nice time of just eating and talking, we finished up and she insisted on paying for dinner.  Even though, I told her that I would gladly pay for it, she insisted as it was her idea to go out.

She was probably the nicest and most genuine PSE that I have seen to date.

If you don't want unwanted attention I would order room service.  I've done it.  It's not like going out with a face-blurred provider.  People will recognize her.  They may approach you all for autographs or to hit on her.  They may recognize you and say oh hey that's Steve over there with Nina Hartley.  If you don't care about any of that then go for it.  I'd rather stay out of the limelight.

No, I wasn't saying that you thought that.  What I was trying to convey is that there are a lot of guys, some of whom are on this board, who do see porn stars as being stupid or "dumb broads" or whatever and that's far from the case.  You and I and some other lucky guys have found out how smart, nice, and special some of these ladies truly are.

Yeah, she was something special.  I had a similar experience with her.  She was definitely a generous, warm, and friendly person and she is missed.

Ashley Shye came to my town for overnights.  Each time, we went out to dinner.  Since it was away from her hometown, I never gave it s second thought, especially since she has been retired from the adult film industry for many years.  She is also a very bright lady, dressed appropriately for dinner, an  d we had a great time.  I will do it again with her, no problem.

Swim

Ago, friends with some spectacular benefits at times and we hung out on a number of occasions.  It was always a good time and on at least two occasions, it was clear that guys recognized her.  It was fun watching them glance over a time or two with a quizzical look on their face, then watch the light go on, "ohhh, I DO recognize her, especially now that she's eating a banana!"  Other than that, they were just like another dinner dates, only ones with a smokin' hot chick who was a blast to hang out with!

My question is what do you mean by "taking things to the next level?"  If all you're talking about is having dinner, what the hell, why not?  Try it a time or two.  If you're talking about a relationship, tho, the old "be careful what you ask for, you might just get it" advice comes to mind.  I have had what seemed like relationships with at least three girls in the industry (that is, we would hang out, do the things that couples do and I wasn't handing over a "donation" whenever we did so) and while I have no regrets about any of them, another witticism comes to mind: What's the biggest difference between sex for free and sex for money?  Sex for free is a LOT more expensive!  Well, it is if you're a knucklehead like me who likes doing things for the people he cares about!  

Either way, go for it, carpe diem, no guts, no glory!  My only true regrets are those very few opportunities I passed on!

I have done it a few times in other cities. With some UTRs. I did once in Phoenix, and ran into someone I knew(not good). Had a blast with Diamond Foxxx in Vegas as we spent the day together. We walked the strip, went shopping, to dinner. Lots of heads were turing all day long(men, and women). Diamond was dressed very normal, but her beauty is impossible to hide!

Not a porn star but with 2 UTR LA models.  Yeh guys were staring as were some women but I had seen each of them at least once before the dinner date and we were catching up and talking and having a great time.

was with a provider in a mall, she is not a PS, but ran into my roomie's Sis-in-law.  Eventually told the truth.  Fortunately, no harm, she was cool with it once she knew I see escorts.  But you never know.....

Swim

I've done it several times- went out to dinner with Ava Devine a few times (once just seeing her for dinner  without a scheduled session and no sex), had lunch a couple of times after a session with Sabrine Maui, had dinner after a session with Mimi LAXX (who isn't a porn star but is a legendary non- porn star provider that was BETTER than a lot of porn stars!) and even went grocery shopping with a porn star named May Minx!

Ive done so countless times. The times I've done them w/Angela Summers were always awesome. One of the times I ate w/her and a friend of mine, she partly deep throated a large strawberry in front of us and said afterwards, "not big enough" (I nearly dropped my food off my plate). When I first met Lauren Legends, she suggested trying a new place in Vegas to eat. I offered to pay her for her time and our dinner but she refused saying, "I knew I liked you when our eyes met." And the last time I was w/Ashley Shye, she picked the place, table (quiet area), and we fed each other our cheesecake not to mention when I went to pay for it, she smacked me saying, "uh uh, you rearranged your schedule to stay and see me, im not letting you pay for dinner". So i didnt care about any attention this presented, its about having fun w/people you like spending time with