I'm going to be in a midwest city next week and found out favorite performer (short timer left industry) dances in a club there. I'm curious how exactly I handle this situation.  Do I get there at the start of her shift and stay with her the whole time or do I get there at the end and see if I can set something up as she's leaving.

Regarding the whole private show thing, should I just come out with it right away or chill with her for a while and work it in as time goes on. Just one dance and ask if she does private shows or many dances.

Thanks for your suggestions.

Fasteddie, one of this board's mods, posted this awhile back.  It has general tips for hooking up with PSE's.  Read down to the 'Stripclub' paragraph.  Good tips...

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That post was very rudimentary. I need more coaching from the point when this hot 19 year old is stradling my lap and leaning in and asking if I want to go to the champagne room. What then?  Champagne room and privacy or save my cash for a potential session.

Do I just go with the flow and build some comraderie or be blunt up front and ask if she does private shows for fans?

Begining of shift or end of shift?

I need the nity grity so I can get some titty.

1. Begining of shift.  You don't waste money and she has time to rearrange her schedule, if need be.

2. Say,"Geeze, I hate to see the house get all that money when it should be going to you.  Can we arrange for a private date?"  "Geeze" is optional. I guess blunt and early are my answers.

No offense, but I just don't understand guys who post on this board asking for info without revealing who it is they're interested in.  You'd probably get a lot more useful answers if you did.  For instance, you might get a direct answer as to if she is available or not, and possibly even if she's approachable at clubs.

Tip the manager/bouncer $20 for a personal introduction as "a good customer", so she'll feel confident that you're not LE.

Tip her heavily during her first dance segment - $1 bills just won't cut it.  Two or three $10 bills should get her attention, just make sure she sees that it's not just a buck. While she's dancing, smile and try to make eye contact with her instead of staring at her boobs.

When she makes her rounds after her set, buy a lap dance and afterwards tip her $20 and tell her... "man, that was incredible; I'd love to spend more time with you - do you ever consider meeting fans after you're done for the evening?

Investing $$70 to $100 that way should be more productive than spending a lot more to go into the Champagne Room with her.

But make sure you do all this no later than her second set of the night, or you might find that someone else has beaten you to it.