I've been deciding for months. Business will take me to LA in a couple of weeks. I never had the idea of spending only hour. I don't like spending just for the act it doesn't matter who she is.

I seriously question value of time to cost, what's being accomplished. We all know this situation between hobbyist and provider can be uncertain. Some are ready for it on both sides, usually one is doing this kind for the first time.

Provider is supposed to know how it all works out but thats not the case even if she's a well known PS. Hobbyists ripped off surely are clueless to what can happen. This forum has provided much reality.

I'm scheduled for a complete health test on Friday.

I haven't discussed details with any provider, but there are favorites and intriguing choices.  It doesn't matter she's a hot body, there might not be any chemistry between each other in personality. I really don't know them at all even though I've seen them naked.

I'd rather do things in my hotel room than theirs. I won't travel to see them specifically, if their in my area, I'll get the room. I'm in LA rarely but will be there this later this month and next.

I question myself constantly if this possible.  But some people today are pooh poohing their past as meaningless before age forty. I'm 37.

I have a future possibly that's going to be very public a decade from now. My moniker gives that idea.

Discretion is the best policy and only doing this the fewest times as possible.

Prices.  Some are outrageous. I guess if some provider can get $7000 for 4 hours ( Chloe Verier?) okay, I'm not paying it.

$7K for 7 hours is my thinking.  

$1350 an hour some ask. Shouldn't prices decrease as the final amount gets bigger? 1K an hour after the first is the most reseasonable to me.

Some can't rationalize $1K an hour for this kind of thing, a part of me is yelling that.

I don't question the legality or think this is a shameful experience. I'm not married. Won't be cheating either, my last relationship ended in August says her.  She failed me totally more than I did to her. I don't do drugs or vandalize, get in financial desperation, should that kind of chick really be my wife and mother of future children? I don't like her family, brothers are bums.

The dream day with a PS having a GFE is 10 hours! 10K cost. Hey, its my dream, probably not reality.

Spending an afternoon 10 am. to 5pm is better.  Brunch, food in my provider could make her a better person to get along with. Conversation, time to be relaxed and just an afternoon together. She won't get any kind of phone call that takes her away unless someone is dying.  No way she makes the full amount leaving early on her own.

Many people don't run away from me anyway. Its my room, I'm not going anywhere if she's just terrible to get along with.

This is a choice, that's becoming more real everyday. I have my hotel room reserved already in LA.  Will be there 5 days.

Hmm... I'd love to hear your idea of the type of girl you'd like to spend time with. Maybe I can help? mail to: [email protected]

SL

Thanks for a great night - you were spectacular, and wotth the year wait!  Too bad you missed the roast, but at least you got to spend the time with a guy similar in looks to Ron (fat), only with a lot less hair and a smaller dick - lol.

Hey Eddie, after all of our email correspondence, you should know that I'd give up spending the night around a bunch of drunk club goers and loud music for a little raunchy fun just me and someone that will do a few naughty things with me... I had a great time with you too... Kiki and I shared notes on you today. We both agree on the "belly rubbing against the clit in the woman on top position," You get a 2 clits up from us both! You rock!

SL

Hey, thanks for the "two clit's up"... I'll have to change my name to "BellyMan". (Say hi to Kiki from me when you talk to her again, and tell her to get her pretty little butt back down to Philly soon).

I was getting worried there for a while when you hadn't posted... I was afraid I wore you out too much to crawl to your computer! - LOL. (just kidding... I bet you could wear out a whole lot of big, strong men before throwing in the towel).  It was pretty hard dragging my ass out of bed for work that morning...

By the way, how was it sleeping on the wet spot?  It was definitely too large in diameter to avoid.... next time we'll use the rubber sheets, and maybe even play with your rope collection!

I will definitely pass on the message to Kiki. She in Boston right now ya know! I was pretty tired, but the Borgata started blocking TER after day 1 from their server. Lol! I'm in Detroit now for the weekend so I have semi-access for a couple of days.

Now, about that wet spot... you're right, it WAS to large to avoid. It wasn't too bad until it got cold then is was hard to deal with! I curled up into a little ball and crashed! You really did wear me out ya know! And leaving me around 4:30 didn't help either! I was worried you'd be too tired to make it make to Philly safely! Thanks for shooting me that email to let me know all was well! ;-D

SL

the TER survey results have pretty much stabilized -- it's "official" (you might say) ...  7 out of 10 hobbyists prefer a GFE to a PSE!

for any PSEs (or agencies) paying attention, this means that there's a whole new market out there that is potentially 3 times bigger than the one you're currently doing business in

perhaps if pornstars could be more GFE-ish they could reap huge profit margins in return ... what's a better deal,  a nasty-but-cold by-the-numbers PSE or a PSE with the added warmth and friendliness of a GFE?


just some shallow thoughts by a shallow mind!  

The poll really has little value... the results are skewed by the fact that only a very small percentage of hobbyists are into pornstars, and there are a lot of guys who have no idea as to what exactly a true Porn Star Experience is, let alone have ever had one.  Hell, even those on this board who have had multi-pornstar encounters still argue about the true definition of the anagram...

This is supported even further by the number of guys who check off the "yes" column under "pornstar?" in the review sections for women who have never been in a video, film or magazine.

And as an aside, of my 30+ PSE encounters, 98% of them have been true GFE's as well... it's just a matter of doing your homework.

speaking of that cursed "Porn Actress" field in the review profile, the other day out of sheer boredom i set about to slash-n-burn my way through the PSE database and get rid of as many wannabes as i could!

over a few hours i reported a coupla hundred or so of them and to my amazement Staff approved them within 24 hours (or so) and i consequently scored almost a year's worth of VIP membership (not that i particularly cared one way or another)

then just now out of glee and false pride i went to check to see how many were left in the database (after my good samaritan deed was done) only to realize that the total had not only caught up with what i got rid of but even exceeded the previous total cuz of all the new incoming mislabeled providers! LOL


so let this be a lesson to you newbies "loitering with intent" -- you can prune the database oh-so-easily and score VIP points in the process ... and in a (vanishingly) small way you'd also be helping out your fellow hobbyists!

Thats insane and pretty much means that the porn actress field in our reviews is useless, I checked what you are talking about and it's just crazy, How can anyone think 98% or more of these women are porn stars, what a joke

actually, there are now (as of this posting) a total of 21,789 provider profiles, of which only 806 are designated as "Porn Actress" -- that's a relatively small 3.7% of the database

but you are essentially right, out of that 806 i would venture a guess that only 50+ are legitimate porn actresses (anyone care to guess different?) which if true would mean that only 6% of them are really in the porn business (magazines/vides/etc) -- so yes, that field has become pretty useless (i'd say 94% so) for anyone who specifically wants to search for a porn actress

perhaps it's too much work to clean up that 750+ already in there, but just how hard is it for TER to check the accuracy of the Porn Actress fieds as a standard part of their approval process for  newly submitted reviews ???  it takes all of 30 seconds (you click on her URL, look to see if she says she is and if so you look for one solitary video or listing elsewhere)

maybe someone (other than me) should suggest this to Staff

...how long will you be in Detroit and r there any plans to make it down here through Cleveland?

HI Big Boom,
I was in Detroit for 3 days... didn't get this message until today when I got home to L.A. as I was doing a shoot yesterday with Chrissy Daniels (of insidechrissy - sorry guys, she's not a provider - in her words, she only likes people with pussies,) and photographers Treagan Kier, (tkmgirls) and Anthony (eyecandymodeling.) I've never really considered traveling to Cleveland, if you'd like to email me privately perhaps we can work something out.

Sinnamon Love
[email protected]