Recently, I've been reading about an Internet & Twitter "War of Words" between two providers, Jenna Shea & Kelly Divine. Now from the looks of it, Jenna did Kelly dirty by uploading a vid of the both of them when Kelly was, let's just say, " under the influence." That's not right, especially since Jenna's supposed to be a friend and all. But I'm here to discuss the interview they made BEFORE their recent blowup. They were basically outing certain rappers and such about what they did with them behind closed doors, ala "Kat Stacks" (who has since been deported, I believe). Personally, this bothers me because in this hobby three things on paramount:

HONESTY: Providers about what they provide & Hobbyists on their reviews

RESPECT: This goes w/o saying on both sides

DISCRETION: What happens between people are BETWEEN THEM & NOT THE WHOLE WORLD!

I started to have some questions when someone posted about their worst pornstar provider experience & Kelly was mentioned. I'm not here to hate on ANYONE just to be clear. I don't know her or Jenna. I'm just going by what I heard them say during an interview. If the guys involved had said something publicly about them I could understand, but the way that it seemed to have gotten down just isn't cool w/ me. They were saying that you're paying for my silence so that I won't tell your wife and kids.

WHAAAAAAAAT?!!

That sounds like blackmail to me & THAT AIN'T COOL! Don't they know that the situation will backfire on them & possibly other providers that aren't even involved in that mess? DISCRETION is the main element of this biz & it should be kept by both sides. I'm not gonna posts any links to the vid because they can easily be found on the web. I know many of us on this board aren't famous (Unless Charlie Sheen is lurking on here somewhere) and we may not be billionaires but we will appreciate you like NO OTHER! And ladies, if you REALLY feel about us the way that they do, PLEASE don't let us guys find out because we love you!

Am I wrong for bringing this up? How do you (providers & hobbyists) feel about their interview and whatnot.



Closing out my comments w/ the delicious Nikita Denise, yet again!

Zartan the Pussled & Confused

https://twitter.com/#!/Zartan_2004


-- Modified on 6/2/2012 1:47:11 PM

I actually think it's better to be one of the Joe Averages in this hobbyist stuff! If you can afford it without messing up your finances.

If your a celebrity or wealthy hobbyist you have more to lose. I do believe there will be books written in the not so distant future were a provider would use it for financial gain! Especially after there Escort career is done. It's all about money, but with Joe Average providers probably don't even remember who the heck you are!

As time has gone by (5years to present) the hobbist provider code Honesty, Respect and Discretion has gone by the wayside and the new generation of "WIIFM" ie Whats In It For Me has become the norm. Now I know why I try so hard to read reviews and make sure that I will get personality wise along with the providers. I live in the Phoenix area, I have seen a past her prime pornstar, ie check the bucket list. Now I would like to take out a pornstar on a Vegas weekend or relax resort weekend or vacation in Hawaii at least once and truly see if they are better, more excitement or great fantasy. We have a few pornstars that provide, but unfortunately one that I was interested in has a video up of her telling everyone during her interview she doesnt like white men and she just acts to get them in and out as fast as she can. Would that crush your pornstar fantasy? or imagine if you did a weekend vacation not knowing that was your date!