I have been in touch with a famous porn star about meeting up. Got in touch through Twitter. She is asking me to send a series of expensive gifts to her in order to secure a date. I am about to move forward and am inclined to believe that she will follow through. However, it occurs to me that there is no contract and no guarantee other than her promise. Thoughts on this situation? Should I just send the gifts and trust that she will meet up with me?

This ranks up there with sending deposits.  Do a search on here regarding how many people have been burned sending a deposit, compared to those who it worked out fine for, and you may find your answer.

Personally, I wouldnt do it, and I would be gracious and thank her for her time, and state that I am not comfortable sending gifts or donations.

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one other thing is PM a few of the regulars that deal with the porn stars, like  Danny Ocean. PM him and see if he knows anything about that particular girl. Knowing him,  he may have dealt with her in the past

I did a deposit once but I had already met the person in question face to face. That's not a ringing endorsement of sending deposits though.

I agree w haya - do your homework. If someone said "buy me things and we'll see" there's no way I'd do it. Doing it for love or because you like someone as a friend is one thing, but this is business

Bad idea.

And I concur with the other posters, it's somewhat equivalent to sending a deposit, which is also not recommended.

And is this PS known to be available on some of the agency sites or is she utr?

surely there is someone else you want to see.

Could very well be a fake -- Twitter, MySpace, etc. are full of them.  Even if not, this board is rife with horror stories involving deposits.  Please search the board for more details before moving forward.  Take care and best of luck.

If a lady's asking you for gifts because she wants you to show how much u want her.

my rule She's first  gotta AT LEAST call u on the phone and let u know she is she and i would do know more than flowers one time and see how the behaviour goes.
If she insists she needs this or that, walk away, or get to her do your session sooner than later, but dont buy anything but flowers one time , and only after voice verify has been achieved and she's behaving like a possible friend.

She will lose motivation to see you and also she will have the leverage..

The MAXIMUM deposit should be $100 and that goes to a lady who post on this Board and has a good reputation because she will have a lot to lose if she screws you over..Look at Kate Frost..She used to post a lot until she screwed over a couple of guys..

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I got burned once by a PS by doing that, so I quote the raven, "Never More". I wouldn't do it, esp since she said its a "series of expensive gifts", too many red flags raised in her statements to risk doing it. There are many reputable PS that would see you and not send her expensive gifts. Can you email me in private who it was so that I can no longer/don't follow them.

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She is gorgeous and I'd love to blast all over her pretty face. She said that if I send the presents it will mean an least an hour with bbbjtcof multiple times. Which sounds great to me. But she won't talk more until she gets what she wants. Weird Twitter tactic haha.

A "SERIES of expensive gifts"???? What the fuck is that?  She's either going to see you or not; tell to forget the gifts, give me a price and agree to see me or not.  

If she wants a deposit, it's your choice to send it or not, but requesting gifts in ORDER to agree to see you?  Is the value of the gifts to be applied to the cost of the meeting?

The reason why a lot of men name the dicks is that they don't want their decisions being made by a stranger!

i think you can book her through pam peaks or tlc or somebody else.

She plays that game. I met her once and had a great time. She always wants shoes, so I sent her some. She is reliable though, but if you have not met her, I would not send the shoes.

And tell her she can have the other one once you are done with your session.  The shoe will be released from your grip and will fall to the floor when you are just to damned exhausted to hold onto it any longer.  She is then free to take the shoe and leave.


And so the term "waiting for the other shoe to drop" was born.