Before Stoya's allegations, I was getting really bored with the way he had sex during scenes. The constant muttering and dominating made him sound like a crazy person.
When it comes to watching porn, I don't really have a problem with the sight of a man's penis. Some guys get really skeeved by witnessing one of the things that makes porn so awesome to watch: a man penetrating a woman.
My thing is, while I don't mind seeing all of a man's body, I do have a problem with guys who have sex like idiots. Marco Banderas comes to mind (Mr. "I love Fiona," if it spurs your memory). The silly grin and exaggerated expressions just take me right out of the scene. Same thing with Deen. The constant noise and the slapping and smacking are just distracting.
The good ones are guys like Peter North, who sadly is starting to look like Jack Lalanne, Erik Everhard, Rocco Siffredi, Manuel Ferrara, Steven St. Croix, and some of the younger men, like Tyler Nixon. They just look like they're enjoying it.
As for Stoya's allegations, I also think James Deen shouldn't be legally punished until convicted in a court of law. Which makes me happy I'm not part of the legal system, because I totally think he raped Stoya and sexually assaulted other women in the industry. I think what Stoya did was she resorted to another kind of justice, an extralegal kind. It may seem unfair to some men, but she was probably not going to get him sent to jail, so she just brought his actions into the public eye. To this day, he has not sued her libel (a twitter post is essentially the written word), slander, or any other defamation of character because he knows if he did, he would get exposed in the discovery phase of the suit. He pretty much has to pick up the pieces and move on.
So, I don't watch scenes with him in them anymore. Partly because of the allegations, partly because of the way he performed.