you have arranged a dinner date with a very high profile porn star..you have had dinner and retire to a very popular lounge for a few cocktails before the fun begins..she is immediately recognized by quite a few of the patrons and naturally approached by many to say hello..question is then for you players..would you..
A.] let her work her magic..discreetly turning your head to allow her to possibly line up some future clients..or
B.] remind her she is with you and you have paid the tab with no fishing allowed..
what would you do?

-- Modified on 3/22/2013 6:52:34 AM

cutting into our time together I say let her go for it.

If it is known that she provides (has ad/web site/ agency) she can set up her appts on her own time.  I think it is a little bit rude to set up dates when she is with you.  Plus she could be putting you at risk LE wise if she says the wrong thing to someone while you are sitting there.
Autographs, photos, greetings within reason I would have no problem with.

Anything more than her saying 'contact me thru my site" or something similar would make me uncomfortable.

Watch her pick someone up and fuck them.

Yes, it is a bit rude when you're paying for someone's time for that person to spend it on someone else, but, you know what, in this sort of situation, I'm usually ok with it.

Ya see, I like to build a friendly relationship with the porn stars I see.  I want them to think nicely of me, and to tell their porn star friends that I'm an ok guy and to provide references.  If I treat her like a whore and point out that I paid for her time and she should only be paying attention to me, she's going to treat me like a john and I will only get a mechanical session, if that.  And if I cost her future money, she's gonna be annoyed.  

Besides, I don't know a woman on this planet who thinks possessive guys are attractive.

Why are guys approaching her in a private setting when she obviously is on a date or engaged with another guy.  If she approached other guys I would be pissed off at her; if she is approached, I would be furious at the assholes who tried to flirt with her.  This has nothing to do with possession; its just appropriate etiquette.

your post just confirms my fear of why i don't take PSE's out on public dates, because typically your time will constantly be interrupted by others who either are flirting or attempting to set something up.

I have had this happen a few times while out with UTR girls. It is a touchy situation. You don't want to be a dick to the girl involved. But it is your time together. I've had guys approach and want photos taken and such, the girls were uncomfortable. I had to ask the guys to respect the privacy of the lady. It has worked so far. The girls have not tried to drum up business in front of me what so ever. And they were greatly appreciative of my action for them..and showed it later..

This is a communications issue.  I have not taken any ladies out to dinner, or in public for that matter, but it seems if you want to see PS's regularly and want to be known as a "gentleman" worth seeing (and want a referral) then why not ask her how she wants to handle it?  Does she see your time with her as y'all's private time and want your assistance with not being interrupted if she can't mange it?  Are you willing to allow some autographs and photos?  Discuss how that time would affect her booked time with you.  Isn't this just another aspect of deciding what you want you experience to be like including what you like sexually?  I'd be as up front with this as I would be telling her how I like a BJ!!

Z

-- Modified on 3/23/2013 6:48:28 AM

If she is high end and professional, she would just quickly respond to the gentlemen with a quick response of email me or what have you, and she should just turn the attention back to you. It should not be an issue for you, if she is high end and professional, it is her job to handle the situation and get it back on track.

I've had it happen, I was nice and told the guy I was on a date but thanks anyway.