Guys if you have to ask this question the answer is probably not, having said that, it does not mean that we ladies have not enjoyed our time with you.Women are wired differently alot of what we experience comes from our feelings we tend to be more romantically inclined where men tend to place more on the BIG O...As a women that loves men I wish you could know that just being with a wonderful guy that is caring is more important than if I do or do not reach the big O when it does happened of course it is awesome but some of my best times have not had a happy ending but I was still happy and contented being with a good lover.Remember women also have certain times when we are more orgasmic and with our hormones and with becoming more mature it can take longer. I want men to know this is NOT a reflection of how good you are or are not ,just try and enjoy the moment whatever happens it"s all GOOD. Victoria



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Strangely enough, I've met more women (the this biz) that are more into the big-O themselves than anything romantic or sensual.  Ironically, I'm more romantic myself, and although I do like a good finish, a warm and intimate time together can go so much further.
Best bet is to find someone who shares your same goals, then everyone wins.

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My goodness!  I must say, that makes Victoria all the more desirable! (if that could be possible with all her wonderful reviews)
It is much more important to live for spaces in time than for a specific moment in time.  Love making is not a climax.  Love making is the mutual bonding that comes from understand your partner's needs and responding to the non-verbal cues that each twitch and tingle give.  I just love that post Victoria!

I agree with you Victoria.

I especially think that we are more orgasmic at certain times of the month.  Sometimes I fake it and sometimes I don't.  It just depends on how I feel that day.  

I think some guys like the idea of a woman cumming but it just doesn't happen each and every try...no fault of the man and I am not disappointed if I don't cum each time.

An honest answer Kara, thank you, I do tend to notice it is the younger less seasoned clients that are the ones asking.....your right is is all GOOD ...sex is like pizza there really is not such a thing as a bad piece{slice} some is just better than others it also depends on how hungry you are......V

I find as I have matured I do organism almost every time, even have multiples...it really seems easier now too!
when I was married it seemed like I couldn't achive the big O through intercourse only orally but now....IT'S ALL GOOD, NOW!!!!!!!!!!
OOOOH AHH!!!

But were all made different!

[Yawn]

Rosie, you really need to get laid  all your energy is sparing with Donald Trump these days . Maybe you can talk your wife into giving you a good licking to mellow you out dear....

i would never have to ask rosie if she came for 2 reasons.....1st id never have sex with her and second i wouldnt care if  she did

Women like you, Victoria, are thrilling and satisfying to be with, because you enjoy the play, the playfulness, the sensuality, and so generous to your partners.

As a slightly ED challenged guy (nerve damage from diabetes), I would enjoy the time with or without an O myself. But somehow, ladies like you, Tina Pink, Jordon Kay, Terri, and others, always manage to gift me the O, too. Sometimes, miraculously two cups.

We like to give pleasure, too, even though we are in this with our eyes wide open and know it two adults enjoying play, not two star-crossed lovers. So that is probably why some ask if the lady O's, because it is such a pleasure to give that final explosion along with the sweet play.

Thank you, all.

with anchovies lately Victoria.  I'd rather a girl never fake anything except her chest. And I don't care how hungry I am, I'll never do a pizza with anchovies.

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Victoria you speak from the heart and it's nice to see a provider who sees the big picture.  Thanks for making my experience something special, and something that I will never forget.

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I so agree with you Victoria. Some gentlemen that I have seen when we get to talk, I tell that I like the entire time we spend together, from the time they come into my home till the time they leave. For me it is not one single action or single moment I will remember and treasure, it is the entire time spent together. No matter what we do, say or feel.

I have never said to myself..."I remember that big 'O' I had the other day" (well, sometimes maybe...lol)...I say to myself, "I remember that time I spent with that gentleman. That was a GREAT time". Because it was the entire moment I remembered, not the big O.

So like Victoria said, if we don't get the big O, it doesn't mean we didn't enjoy ourselves. I think you guys also knows when we had a good time, when you see the big grin on our faces afterwards

xoxo
Swedish Anna

Is there such a thing as intercourse without oral??? :P

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Loved your view on this!  And it also holds true for some gentlemen ... with the right partner, orgasms can start with the first "hello".  Unfortunately most guys have always associated having an orgasm with ejaculation. They forget that the most important sex organ is the one between their ears, not their thighs.

that the discussion in the thread is the stuff of boring talk shows and that the topic was pointless. Thus Rosie's "yawn" at the end of her post. I'm not saying I agree. Just my interpretation of "her" post.

...with you, it was very big for me. We gotta get together again! It's been too long. (I know, it can never be too long! lol)

Okay Blue , I guess we will be going out next week to some place that does not have anchovies I have great place in mind....see you soon honey...

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