In my experience a serious workout - the kind I think you're describing to get to the next level - and sex during or immediately after, are completely incompatible. Could just be me. Good luck.
I've been exploring the notion of finding an erotic workout coach, to help me get more performance out of my workouts, through erotic teasing and reward, combined with traditional coaching.
Any providers in Phoenix have training as physical trainers? Any interest in making me sweat? I'm in good shape-just looking for some motivation to get to the next level.
Curious what others think about this as an untapped avenue for self development and gratification.
In my experience a serious workout - the kind I think you're describing to get to the next level - and sex during or immediately after, are completely incompatible. Could just be me. Good luck.
You might want to try Bailey (TER ID 146536) or Brianna Sun (Briannasun.com)
I don't even know where to begin with this comment, other than thank you Gina for mentioning me, but I only train serious people, maybe Brianna has the patience for tinkerbell.
Basically what I hear you say is you want somebody to take your money so you can do toe touches, lift the pink and purple dumbells 20 times and walk on the treadmill for 5 minutes so you may call yourself an athlete. Then get your dick sucked afterwards for your attaboy from your trainer....... Yeah this is the reason why your body is in the skinny fat zone and will remain in the skinny fat zone, but hey you'll get your sexual gratification out of it
Oh and Stevesoros nailed it the two aren't compatable, If you did a real workout you would know Your Cock Won't Get Hard After!
I personally think flirting with someone in the gym or on the tennis court could be fun with the sexural tension and heat between the two people. I know going to the gym everyday I would love to take someone in the shower with me after ! Just think getting back to your place and showering each other and then playing , It would be fun. ( But I am not game for this as I am only in the gym to sweat till I am dripping and the faces I make while I try and reach 600 calories a day are not pretty ! )
BUT Why so harsh .. just say no thank you.
Work in the fitness industry and you will fully understand the high blood pressure, or better yet watch the finale of the biggest loser tonight and watch what people can achieve with blood, sweat, tears and pain in the gym not flirting
I personally think flirting with someone in the gym or on the tennis court could be fun with the sexural tension and heat between the two people. I know going to the gym everyday I would love to take someone in the shower with me after ! Just think getting back to your place and showering each other and then playing , It would be fun. ( But I am not game for this as I am only in the gym to sweat till I am dripping and the faces I make while I try and reach 600 calories a day are not pretty ! )
BUT Why so harsh .. just say no thank you.
I was not trained by Bailey, I was educated though, bailey is right, when your legs are so sore you cant walk right you don't want to "play". This from a guy who lost 40 lbs and 4 pant sizes.
I think everyone is missing the FUN BUTTON ! His request wasnt to be trained for a marathon, not even to get seriously trained... NOT even to lose weight. He asked a simple question about a fantasy he was trying to fill. If you dig it cool... If you Dont, DONT get your panties in a bunch. There is something for everyone, acting like your too good just because someone thru your name out there for a "hay this person may be what your looking for " is just un needed. Just because you take the profession " to heart. .
I should point out that I'm running a half marathon this week and I'm in good shape already. Did I say anything about sex exactly? I think I said tease and reward.
Not sure how anyone made any assumptions about my current level of fitness.
Sorry if the suggestion offended anyone's sensibilities. I thought that there might be other men out there as well who could use the extra motivation to work with a trainer. Just looking for creative avenues of expression. That's all.
I appreciate all the feedback thought. I at least know who to avoid in the Phoenix community.
Well you stated you were curious about what others think, so you got it. Avoiding me won't be a problem I'll be too busy fighting the obese epedmic, because no child should grow up without a parent and no child should be teased or bullied because of their weight
You didn't offend anyone's sensibilities, but people did make assumptions (rightly) about your current level of fitness based on the essence of your question. As every athlete pushing their body to a high level knows, it would be extremely unlikely (and I mean, infinitely so) that at any time during or after a workout to feel the desire to have sex or be motivated by the reward of sex.
I'm not talking about your average guy who goes 2 days a week to 24 hour fitness and jumps around for 30-45 minutes. I'm talking about anyone who is an athlete striving to get to the highest level of competitiveness.
I'm not saying there is anything wrong (at all) about not being this type of athlete.
I'm just saying that to an athlete, the essence of your question points to your level of fitness...which is...
...not an athlete
It was Bailey that got me going back to the gym and my waist shrank from a 40 to a 34 along with 60 lbs. A major benefit to getting in shape, besides stamina and just feeling great is it seems like my dick grew another inch at least.
I'm so focused when I work out, that Kate Upton could spot for me naked and I'd probably just throw out a "thanks dude" and when I'm done working out. I don't have the energy to watch a porno, much less try to reenact one.
was when you're done working out with her you'll have a limp cock if you do the work out right.
If you want to lose weight do a lot of fucking if building muscle is your goal lift weights. LOL
There I go again posting when I should say nothing at all.
Sorry folks carry on.
Sounds like a worthy goal. I hope your big ass-umptions don't get in your way.