would you post this under an alias? Could it be for nothing other than to start some trouble or drama? JSR's points are well taken and in this case I would add another. This particular lady is a visitor to our city and not in town for a very long period of time. If you would prefer to wait until a significant amount of her limited time in our city has passed before hearing about her (through a formal review), that is just plain stupid IMHO. The gentleman also offered his thanks to the lady for providing a nice time for him. My, how terribly inappropriate........!