There was an interesting start of a discussion a few pages back. A full service provider who specializes in massage posted that she took offense that some clients not wanting a massage, just the full service. It appears that her paying clients felt that they should dictate how a session with her progresses. She felt that since she likes to give a massage that these clients should have not selected her as their provider.

I tried to summarize as best i could, and there is no intent to slant the discussion in any way.

While I like a session to begin with a great rubdown, it appears others do not. Should these paying clients choose a different provider? Is the provider crazy for feeling that the paing client has no right to dictate how a session progress? Since most sessions are paid for on an hourly basis, does the client have the right to  say no to a 15-30 minute massage and go with an hour of other activities?

Opinions??

a clarification

While I too would love to learn what the community has to say on this issue, I must clarify that I AM NOT a full service provider. I know it says on my profile sex: Yes, but as we all know sometimes those darn profiles aren't always correct,and making changes to it aren't exactly easy (as I have tried in the past to correct inconsistancies). Since the thread was started by my comments I thought I should make sure you know where I am coming from as the provider in this scenario.
Peace, Passion and Love,
Malissa xoxox

Re:a clarification

That brings up another question, and again, I am not picking on any one provider. When a provider links their website to TER reviews, are they not saying that the reviews are a fair representation of services to be expected.

Re:a clarification ~Again lol

while I don't want to get into a tit for tat match with you coyotefan2, and I do think your thread posts a valid question that is indeed interesting, and warents some answers. Please understand that I do not have control over the TER reviews and have always tried to be as fair and honest as the day is long. But somethings are out of my control ie: REVIEWS. By linking to my reviews it is true that they are a "general" representation of the services I provide. But, they are not to be taken verbatim on my sessions or any other provider. They are a "general guide".
The other issue is that you say, "she likes to do massages". Yes I love to do massage, I am state licensed,to do massage. I offer massage since that is what I am there to do. I work in a massage establishment. I have a massage table, not a bed in my workspace. So why all the confusion about getting a massage lol??? I can understand if I didn't make it clear that Massage is first and foremost with my services.
~M~xoxo

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in all honesty ive never gone into a session with a new person expecting anything. What that means is reviews, word of mouth, casting runes, and reading the horoscope aside you can research someone all you want and still its not totally certain what will or wont happen.
Ive had fs sessions with women who dont normally do them and simple handshakes from others that widely do fullservice (no i wasnt horribly disappointed and i wasnt ripped off)
. Now that doesnt mean i toss good money after bad if the session isnt where i thought it should be in level of service i wont repeat, but you never know whats gonna happen until you pony up and get on the table or bed.
I will grant though its also why ive cut my pool of girls i will see down to three since i like knowing exactly what im getting when i show up.
the provider dictates the session really, any time i have tried too its not gone well.  it throws them out of their comfort zone in my experience.
take one of my all time favorites no matter what, she has to start with me on my stomach. anything else throws off her tempo and she's out of sorts the entire time.
I dont always care about the massage part but it doesnt hurt me at all and makes her happy so i go ahead and take it like a man
then again im not a control freak so i dont mind letting the professional dictate how her sessions go......

if you aren't interested in getting any massage you should be seeing an escort. Yes, sadly, there are some people working in massage establishments who have no desire to massage anything but your wallet. They slap on some cheap lotion or baby oil, slather it around and then find a way to 'get down to business'. I personally believe anyone who doesn't want to do a massage should be an escort and stay out of the massage shops.

In most all cases, escort or massage, it's usually a YMMV thing. I prefer massage because I think that it's a great way to relax and get to know each other... a great begining to a perfect ending ;o)