I ALWAYS post a review if I have a good time, unless it's with a girl I've previously reviewed, and then it's only because TER won't let me post two.  If a girl does only mediocre work, I may post one and make some suggestions, but I won't post one that's entirely negative unless I've been ripped off in some way, and then I am only doing it to warn other hobbyists.  I also won't post a review if the Provider doesn't want me to.  Some of them prefer to stay under the radar, and I'm not about to mess that up for them.

Fred

Each one is really a review of how two people interact. If I am having an off day and felt I was not able to experience the true gamut of service I will hold on review and try  again. I try and give the lady  an honest opportunity  to exhibit her full repertoire and  apply her  herself. "YMMV" can  go  both ways.
The nuts and bolts for me are , a web link, a true  professional session and  no recent prior review from me.  The rest is my feeling on the time we were able to share.   Some may disagree and think this needs to be some clinical critique.  The way  the review  process works can certainly leave that taste.  When it comes to deciding on writing a review I go with the feel the lady left with me. Maybe it is dumb and certainly naive....  but hey it works for me.

Let your BIG head decide whether to write a review or not.  Don't candy coat it. Tell it like it is.  Also keep in mind the lady may have been having a bad day and as always YMMV. Be honest with your self and in the review.

If you did not have a great time, there are many ways to relay your disappointment without getting nasty or slamming the lady.

Only after asking if the lady would like to be reviewed....  it's her call.  The thing to remember about reviews is that often expectations (other than fun and satisfaction) are different for each individual.

The review process is here so that we as a community can share information (good or bad) about our experiences. It is healthy to honestly rate and disclose our encounters. If you had a terrible time with someone, well, like modprod said, use your judgement. If you think it was just an off day, then give it another chance. Otherwise, tell it like it is.

Its always problematic on public sites, especially if the review were less than stellar.
Ive seen reviews that i thought were honest and factual removed because the lady protested it was unfair etc. I ve also seen fake reviews written for that free vip as well. Ive even seen reviews written for free sessions.
Really all any review is good for is contact info and possibly a general idea of what will happen even then ymmv.

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for the simple fact that they probably prefer the girl in the review (if less than stellar), not to see it...and there is no way to keep her from doing so on a public board.  But, luckily you gentlemen have a back channel and private boards...you lucky dawgs you. (brats)  

No matter how hard we try, it is almost always impossible for a provider not to be compelled to look if it's available.  Wouldn't you, if someone were talking about you?  Especially intimately?  I do try not to though. 'Try' is the key word here.  I even try not come in here incase someone is talking about me...but, look how much I have been posting lately! It's the nosey-ness in me.  And a bit of narcissism too, I have to admit.    

My last review before I retired was less than stellar and though my feelings were a little hurt, I remembered the session and why he may have felt that way.  At the time, I felt it was very pleasant.  There's that darned 'changes in perception' thing again.  *note* (patting myself on the back) I did email him to sincerely apologize.  But, hats off to him if he felt the remarks were warranted in a review.

So, even if it is sometimes hard, and if you feel the need to review, it's good to be honest about people.  And if that person is open to constructive criticism and doesn't get offended, they can grow from it. It is also good not to get caught up in the fact that the provider may consistently get good reviews, therefore, you don't want to rock the boat...be honest or don't write a review.  Then, what's the point?

Ciao,
xoxox
Isabella M      

One day, I will take English class
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on when to post a review.

When to post a review:

1) when the service received was so fantastic, you just have to tell someone (really, we hobbyists can't share with most friends and family what we are up to.

2) when the service is so poor, or non-existant, that other hobbyists deserve a warning.

3) your experince with the lady has something to add that hasn't said before of her.


Reasons not to post a review:

1) her performance was merely average.  It may have been an off day for her, or YMMV.

2) she didn't meet your expectations.  Did you read her profile correctly?  Or did you assume that since one lady at her agency enjoys/allows BBBJTCIM that all do?  (Today I made this mistake with a lady here in the UK, where I now live. I visited a fantastic lady a few months ago, and a very average lady today. While I left satisfied, but a bit disappointed this afternoon, but having reviewed all available specific information on her this evening, I found that I received all of services she had on offer.  Knowing that each woman I see is an individual, with her own boundaries, I won't hold my unrealistic expectations against her).  Only after this review, would I post something negative.

3) the only reason for the review is because she asked you to.  If you had a great time, well that is great for you!!  But posting a less than honest review for the rest of us, is not so great.

4) the worst possible reason for posting a review, is for the sole purpose of acquiring, or extending your VIP membership for free, of which,I have at sometimes been guity.  The most effective reviews, for hobbyists and ladies, are open, honest and truthful.

Just my 2 cents,

jazz32

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This is more about mini-reviews on this board than formal reviews:  Are there times when you have had a good time with a lady and you refrain from saying anything because you don't want to subject her or yourself to possible negatives reactions?