seems to be , at least to me, a logical progression on the way to becoming a hobbyiest. Gentlemens clubs, massage parlors and then escorts. Reading a review this morning about the rates for massage and a happy finish and wonder why the decision to go the 'mp'. Same dollars and cents, for an escort, some 'fs", some bj. Other than a more readily available community(mp's)and the massage,why put your discretionary funds at play in that venue. As well, I have never been enamored with sex on a massage table. Thoughts anyone?

Maybe some married guys feel that visiting an MP is more acceptable than visiting an escort?

Or maybe some guys have a view that MP's are 'safer' (in terms of LE and/or STD) than an escort?

Or maybe since most ladies are all-inclusive the guys would rather pay just for a happy ending and not for the whole she-bang?

Or maybe some guys just don't know what they are missing by visiting with a top of the industry escort LOL.

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Many of my clients says that it have been the 'introduction' to the hobby because the step hasn't been that big to go to a MP initially. After a while they feel comfortable with how it works and finally they pick a suitable lady for the first 'real' encounter.

well that and the shower table. i sometimes enjoy not having to make 15 phone calls then show up at some circle k parking lot while i wait to find out if the chick is going to flake or not.  

(how in the hell does two call system do anything for the hobbiest? im almost to the point of telling them no, ill make other plans if they want to use two call.  i know plenty who dont screw with the hobbiest in that fashion.
sorry off topic but i was burned by two call last night and ended up at hawaii spa where i should have gone first and saved my self an hour of bullshit)

there are also times where i dont really care to make small talk. AMPS are awesome for that too ive had sessions where my entire verbal output was "the hour" "120 for everything?" and various grunts of pleasure

theres also something to be said for the purely laissez faire system the massage parlors use. all they care about is how much money i have. no asking who i have i seen before, or my bosses phone number, or my blood type just pure capitalistic negotiation.

i know why there's screening. personally alot of times i dont feel like waiting while someone calls someone else, leaves a message that may or may not be returned and then calls me back to let me know.
i hobby on the spur of the moment and the massage parlor is perfect for those times when you just dont give a shit about dealing with someone elses shit.


then theres the sybaritic pleasure of the table shower. i love the feeling of being washed down like that no matter how tired or out of mood i am that always gets me going.

for  a real massage though i go see the indies they actually know what they are doing. i just wish i had more time to deal with the scheduling issues that seem to arise.

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Some 1st timers do like to break the ice with a massage. They are jittery and it helps relax them. If they do not request it I recommend it if they seem nervous.

On the other hand, YOU Chilopsis, are so wonderfully easy to small talk with while getting naked and getting to the FUN part of the visit, no massage is needed... unless you count rubbing... um, well... NEVERMIND, LOL.

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C

What I would really like to find is a lady who is a true GFE AND gives a really great massage. many say they can but I recently had a lady give me a massage that felt more like a mugging, though I would never say anything to a lady that was negative. A good massage that smoothly transitions into a great GFE session can bring intimacy that isn't mechanical.

For me it is about all of the above,spur of the moment,LE,my back hurt etc
But also the mystique of laying there and maybe building some heat (if it's contrived who cares as long as I can't tell) and then having an anonymous intimate encounter. Sometimes happy ending,BJ or the whole she bang.
Ditto on Swttraveler--idealla massuese who goes GFE on a YMMV basis.
If Sydneys last review is true she may be the one.
Casey is FYI

In Tucson, there just isn't the availability of decent providers.  There's nothing for under $250 without playing roulette on Craig's List.

With massage parlors, you know what you're getting and you can get a reasonable price.  If you find the right girl, you can get a professional quality massage with a happy ending for under $100.

Sometimes you're tired and just want to be pampered.  A table shower, a good massage, and a happy ending leave you feeling great for a reasonable price.  What's not to like?