Your humble pollster was recently informed that it is a good thing to describe a provider as NQNS (no quit no spit).  That was a new term to me, but I happened to learn it shortly before viewing a porn clip showing a BJ session that was NQNS, but also involved some outright domination.  Shortly after that, I enjoyed a DTBBBJTCIM that qualified for the NQNS Seal of Approval, but only because she was open to my directions and encouragement (so obviously I'm not criticizing the practice.)

The Gallop Pole is in a sociological-study mood, and wants to know if you think NQNS is a form of subjugation by the guy and/or a form of submission by the provider.  (Some would argue that Greek also falls into this category.)  What's your opinion?

-- Modified on 9/18/2006 5:06:33 PM

being a NQNS is bonus points not submissive.  And since I especially LOVE doing it, I only quit when I have to.  I do not consider that at all submissive - in fact, if a woman knows what she is doing and continues for multiple pops, I believe she may be the one in control.  

I hope you men will agree with me on this one.  If you don't why don't you come see me yourself so I can truly show you what it is all about.

suck it too.  Yeah guys you should really experience the two of us...certainly a time not soon forgotten.

ok, no hands!  But I sure do love it when a woman puts her hands on the back of my head while I'm DATY!

one crazy hot sponatenous moment...  blush

I see it differently. Your pleasure is at the ladies command.  As Mya said no hands on the back of the head, not needed. If the lady is willing then let her apply her skill. Allow her to build the moment and bring you to pleasure at her control. Not a question of dominantion or submission, but more of allowing yourself to be passive and enjoy a gift offered.

CIM is great.. What difference does it make if she spits it out?
Peyton, formerly of AZM, for example was my top pick for CIM.. It seemed like my Os would last for longer than I thought possible and every time she left me on Cloud 9 and barely conscious for a good 5 minutes afterwards.. The fact that she spit did not detract one bit from the experience.

BTW, anyone have any 411 on her?

--p#3

I've never asked for NQNS. I've always felt that was a woman's choice. I really like CIM, and NQNS is more satisfying because it's sexier (it implies the woman likes it) and extends my pleasure. After NQNS, I don't care if the woman spits or swallows. I can't begin to unravel the complex psyches of females, so I won't even venture a guess as to whether women are being dominant when they do it. Although I will say more than a few women have told me BBBJ's give them a feeeling of control. P. S., I drink a lot of green tea, and I've had Asian women tell me I taste like green tea, so if there are any female green tea drinkers reading this message....

I sure do miss her talents!!



-- Modified on 9/19/2006 8:52:00 AM

and you blew my mind (?) or was that something else.  When it just happens, it is the most fantastic happening.  I look forward to when it may be spontaneous again and again. -

So cat got your tongue?  And your handle and your alias??