Everyone has a different screening process that they use for seeing gentlemen. It seems to me that ladies that have ever been in an LE situation with the business or live in a city where they do alot of stings are probably more strict on their screening. I've always been more comfortable doing outcalls, so if a gentlemen calls me out and he's from a review board I check that first tom make sure it's legit. The only time I ask for last names is if it's at a hotel. Then I call the hotel and at most you only have to put in the room number but some you have to have the last name to get transferred to the room. When the gentlemen answers the room phone then go and I just do that to ensure that I have the correct room number and hotel. But some men even get spooked by that. You just have to go with what feels right to you.
So I am seeing more and more ladies that wants to know gentlemen's full legal name, where we work, etc. Although, I do understand that ladies want to be safe and protect themselves the best they can - I would like give a perspective from a hobbyist point of view. Over the years, I have gotten to know multiple ladies well and I know their full legal names and they know mine. But that was and is by choice. If we have never met, I will never give you my full legal name or let you know where I work. I also have a strong desire to protect myself. There is a reason why we use alias just like the ladies. I am not asking anyone to change how they screen people. But there are lot of us gentlemen who will not see a lady because of the invasive screening process. I am active in multiple boards/sites and can be verified thru multiple active ladies. Isn't that enough? Please be safe and verify your clients, but lets not go crazy
I totally agree with you! While I really don't have a problem with giving my information, (I'm single and self-emplyed so have nothing to hide) but I have never understood and question why that is required. What good is it going to do? Hell, 'they' don't give me all of their information!
Wouldn't it make more sense to check references from other ladies
Provider gets my full legal name when I get hers. That's fair I think. They never seem to agree to that though.
Posted By: ki.wan
So I am seeing more and more ladies that wants to know gentlemen's full legal name, where we work, etc. Although, I do understand that ladies want to be safe and protect themselves the best they can - I would like give a perspective from a hobbyist point of view. Over the years, I have gotten to know multiple ladies well and I know their full legal names and they know mine. But that was and is by choice. If we have never met, I will never give you my full legal name or let you know where I work. I also have a strong desire to protect myself. There is a reason why we use alias just like the ladies. I am not asking anyone to change how they screen people. But there are lot of us gentlemen who will not see a lady because of the invasive screening process. I am active in multiple boards/sites and can be verified thru multiple active ladies. Isn't that enough? Please be safe and verify your clients, but lets not go crazy
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