really need therapy.  It seems like certain providers provide an environment that is uniquely intimate AND safe for men to open up emotionally (if they choose . . . and whether they realize it or not).  I always wondered how well a "sex therapist" could really do.  Any thoughts?  (Please feel free to use aliases.)

Hello darling...you are most definiatly a jewel. I truly believe we are all physicial therapists. And when we meet someone who opens up to us, we are more then willing  to offer advice. I believe a sex therapist can't compete with our knowledge, wisdom and experiences , gained of course by meeting many clients from all walks of life.   My greatest satisfaction is to connect on both levels, mentally  and physicially...it makes me feel on top of the world,  when I know I have gone the extra mile to assist someone in more the one way. Smootches, Starina

Being a LMT gives me the unique opportunity to really address the theraputic needs of my clients. One of my tantric specialties is working with gentlemen that have a quick trigger (not a theraputic term lol)a.k.a. Premature ejaculation or gentlemen who want to learn to sustain their arrousal for longer periods of time. Most are amazed after a few sessions (and doing their homework , yes I give you exercises to do at home) that they can actually learn to control the urge and provide longer lasting love making with their partners of choice. Most of my clients open up emotionally in some way or another with me. Just feeling comfortable, safe and relaxed makes your psyche want to dump alot of the emotional baggage. And I am proud to say I am a full member of the Emotional Baggage Handlers Union #6969 lol. I have a regular client tell me once, that he considers my sessions better than any psychotherapy session. Everyone needs to vent once in a while. Women find it easier to let off steam verbally and then feel better. Men on the other hand struggle with verbal emotional purging, you boys are much more tactile and visual. Some of my sessions also help you gain a better connection with your verbalization of negative emotions. Along with all that you also get to relax under my skilled hands, gently kneading away stored stress, muscle tension, and built up fluids. Just my two cents.

and there's a reason why I call mine 'Nurturing for Body and Soul'. The majority of my regular clients come to me because they know that I will care for them as a whole... mind, body and spirit. I have some wonderful relationships with my clients because we can meet and enjoy each other on all levels.

I happen to think of myself as an unlicenced doctor of the mind, body, and soul. I know I don't have a degree, but I also know I help people resolve issues everyday. I deal with lonely, neglected men with cold and heartless mates, if they have one, who just need a warm body to snuggle with while they listen to reassuring sensitive whispers in thier ear. To sexually frustrated men who have no mates or unwilling mates. To fun loving good old boys whose only issue seems to be a lack of time and funds to come see me more often. I love working with the variety of life and I definitely get to have fun and help others at the same time. As far as those needing serious help... almost none though occasionly somethings that are requested really make you wonder. LOL

Kisses

Do you realize how many sheep you providers may be putting out of work with your sexual therapy? Come on! Have a heart!  These little fleece-muffins need work too!!

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