emailed a well reviewed provider for a visit ,sent references with the request,received email asking for her form to be filled out ,left out my work number ,her 2nd request wanted my work number ,I responded with I will pass on visiting you if the other info is not enough. 40 reviews, known in the community,as many verifiable references as you want and that is not enough. I can't see what my work number would add to the mix. Being that the hobby is the other life  I lead, I don't have a comfort level in having the two lives overlap(business phone ,business email,etc.)I wonder what number would have been required if i was retired? It just seems a bit much and I do value a persons right to due diligence when seeing someone new to them ,however,enough is enough. Am I missing something ?

No, you're not missing anything. It seems over the top to me. Thankfully in Phoenix there are plenty of high quality women to choose from so a situation like this shouldn't slow you down too much. Consider it her loss.

With the 40 you have reviewed, you should be able to find some wonderful fall-back !!!

...response. Far too often I call, leave all my info, my TER handle, that I'm whitelisted, that they can feel free to leave a personal voicemail, etc. And then I never get a response, including some I've seen before.
I've found a curious correlation between the success of the provider and their responsiveness. Classy successful women like Tina Pink, Mya, Vanessa Evans, Cherry, and far too few others are prompt -- even when they're not available for an appointment or they're out of town.
Then I talk to women who never return my calls, and they whine about how slow business is. Earth to Sally Slacker: Treat clients and prospective clients in a business-like manner, and you'll get real busy real fast.

If a provider is inept in her screening process, hmm... perhaps that is unfair...  If she does not have enough forsight to figure out who you are then she is NOT worth your time.

YOU deserve the best.... treatment, providers, respect!!!!!

xoxo
Jazz

at your age  it is an honor to get  "carded"!
Poon on my friend there are still a lot more to see

You mean you didn't like my asking for your American Express card, your social security number or your underwear size? Shame on me. I need to brush up on my reference-checking skills. Tee-he! Just kidding. Maybe it's time to venture out to other ladies.

Hugs,
Ciara

hope all is well, baby!

xoxoxo
Terri

Who I’ve seen lately that was good. Well you can’t go wrong with Ciara but save some for me because I’m going back for more fun. She’s one of the best but watch out for those eyes they’ll get to you.

PS. Ciara you can have my AmerExp card # I maxed it out any ways.

I had a very strange message on my office A/S last week good thing I was the one to retrieve it.  

yes, Ciara is first rate all the way and i have enjoyed her company on several occasions,

Will I see Thursday we can compare some notes? Na we’ll just have a few drinks and have some fun.