... then guys know it's safe to post bogus reviews on you!

You really can't publicly declare that.

But, to me, a review is like this... imagine if every date you went on, the girl (without your consent!) then posts on Facebook for her friends and all the world to see a play by play of your entire date, including any nit-picky criticisms she had about what you said, how you acted, what you looked like, how you smelled.... or really anything about the date at all. And then they all rate you based on some arbitrary scoring system!

It's no doubt that reviews help us and our business. But women are sooooooo sensitive that even subtle criticisms can be a dig. And guys will invariable throw them in when they think they are primarily writing them to other guys. It's locker room talk. "She's a terrible kisser, but with a rack like that, who cares" sounds like a compliment to a guy. Not so to a girl. We naturally hone in and focus on the negative comments about us. It's a very female trait.

I had one review on another site a long time ago that made me stop advertising on that site. I was angry at the guy and everyone on there and just had a "F*ck you all!!!" attitude about it. I hated EVERYONE on there! lol

The bottom line is that every girl is not for every guy. I had one guy who saw me and thought our time was spectacular say he saw a girl with mostly 10/10 ratings that charged a lot more and was so turned off by her in person that he couldn't get hard and just left. She tried to give him his money back but he told her to keep it!

He never reviewed her or me. The key to a great experience is to find a good fit. Each combination of reviewer and provider is really going to be a unique experience, so reviews are subjective as everyone knows and at best will just give you a clue about whether you might have a great experience with the same girl. You won't know until you see her yourself. And you might not. And then you can tell the world!!!

I recently became curious about something.  And the mod wants something to do with the site to discuss.  I wondered what types of thoughts a provider has when reading a review about themselves.  Do they see if simple like a comment card these are my strong suits these I can work on type thoughts?  Do they just read them to make sure they are true people they seen and that's that?  Does reading one ever excite you knowing how your turned this man on?  Do they bother you maybe get embarrassed how us guys talk about you?  Or do some of you just don't read them for one reason or another? What do you get from your reviews feeling or information?

Oh yes I know that first hand the little thing said can become the one thing she reads.  I wrote what I thought was one of my best reviews once but if the review I mentioned one little item I didn't feel was her strong suite never said it was bad actually even said it was good just not what she was best at.  She wrote me back saying I am sorry you didn't enjoy this particular thing and if I come back she would show me she can do it better.  I tired to explain that I didn't try saying it was bad it was still good but she was so much better in other areas it didn't matter and overshadowed this particular item on the menu.  She insisted I come back so she could show me how much better she can do.  I finally agreed and yes she did a fantastic job not that the first time was bad.  I felt kind of bad after saying all those wonderful things she seemed so upset by one little thing.  This has happened twice to me the other I think was a bit upset too but did well playing it off when she wrote me telling me thank you for pointing out I'm not so good at this item maybe guys will stop asking for it. hope she was sincere about that because again she was another wonderful provider.

And hope my phone rings off the hook! I love it. SexyA - one of the best replies ever fo' shizzle. And a great point that perhaps the mods can take forward on ettiquette in writing a review.

when your going to have a time to die for. BTW love the name.

The reviews are written for the guys and she is right its lock room talk.  Okay maybe not locker room when I guy is naked with a bunch of other men we are normally very silent getting covered back up quickly.. its more bar talk than locker room talk.  I will for fun sometimes make small talk at a urinal because I know it makes some very uncomfortable LOL

But at a bar the guys might be in earshot of other women they may want to pounce on later.

Locker room is safe.... haha

This site could write instructions all it wants and most guys won't listen anyway! lol

"No ones gonna tell me how to write a review!"

A guy friend popped two of his tires driving over one of those tire guards near a sign that said "Do Not Enter... Severe Tire Damage" - I joked with him that he saw the sign and said, "I'll enter if I want to... no one's gonna tell me not to enter!" lol

Often you both feel something "different" - you get lost in it and forget it was a service.

Sometimes I'm thinking "Whoever gets to have this with this guy on a regular basis is soooooooooooooooo lucky!!"

Or you just talk and talk and you feel like you've known each other forever.

It's magical!

I read them and I'm like ewwWww they want to criticize? Funny! Wish they knew how much work it takes to satisfymamlotmofmthese hideous guys.

So true, funny thing it when you least expect it.

Yeah and the girls at the Bar don't like it when you ask how is there rate and menu and does she have any reviews!

I like setting dates with smart women like you lovely ladies.  You would be surprised how many of the women I meet in Public don't even know there TER ID number!!

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Evey  provider read her reviews  if she cares about her service those who say they do not are fibbing .....its human nature to be curious and you need to read them to see if there is something there you can work on to make sure if you made  a miss step you can be sure not to do it again it could  be as simple as chewing gum  during your date.....or as bad as poor hygiene  .....now if if it is something she cannot control like stretch marks  then those are just plain hurtful.....I rarely read clients reviews of other women  before I see him  as I want no preconceived  biased info  before our date  maybe I should but I feel each date can  be different  and I want to bring  my A game so if I were to read he is a low scorer then I might not be able to be myself as I would be to worried about it......so far  this method has worked well for me I do know providers who will not see a low scorer....my lowest score  was actually a great review  so go figure and yes I would see him again

Wow, yes guys are critical, whether they pay or not.  The "hideous ones" as you describe maybe even more because they know without $ you would never notice them as human beings.  Some providers realize that Brad Pitt is not coming through the door and accept it as their business.  I imagine that your reviews would represent your attitude, if not, you should move to Hollywood and win "Best Actress", more likely you currently win "Most Bitter".

"Hey, baby, what's your rate?"

I lol'd when I read that... that's pretty funny!

Geez, I can't get anything right!

Get a picture! Or a description! Or hear anything about the guy from his reference.

There is something important to me about facing each date from "ground zero." Bringing your A game is a good way to put. I don't want to know anything that can create a lack of excitement or sense of foreboding about spending time with the guy.

I want him to remain "the mystery man" until I meet him with no preconceived notions.

But that's just me. I know other girls will screen based on previous scores like you mentioned. That certainly puts pressure on the guys to score high on their reviews so they don't feel black listed based on their scores.

Pretty ironic if you think about it.

I don't even need to finish that sentence, do I?

You know damn well what I was gonna say... LOL

Well, for those who don't, it's kind of hard to deep throat (or do a lot of things with) a thumb! I'll leave it at that...

Sometimes our "performance" has a lot to do with what we have to "work with."

Or you have personality conflicts. I saw this one guy who reminded me of Eeyore from Winnie the Pooh. Just as depressed and down as anyone could be. I just wanted the session to be over before I killed myself. LOL

Maybe I need to begin slower, The Hey whats your TER ID must be too bold I just get blank stares mostly.  Maybe Approach a woman in the produce department "Got any Reviews?" Then I could ask for the TER ID  I mean really? how am I suppose to decide to bed this woman I have just met if I don't even have her do's and don'ts ?  You have to know the rules of engagement right?

Sexy A did you get my PM?

Maybe a sign that reads you have to be this tall to board this ride?  Oh and have a pulse?

"Hi, I'm Mark, you wanna f*ck?"

Of course, he was in a band and had sexy long hair... but it was funny and the girls just laughed.. but a lot of them did!

I actually gave good reviews. I'm a very good actress! What I meant on my last post was that sometimes clients are very harsh on other girls and they should look at themselves first. Of course they are paying but what if they were the ones banging a fugly fat stinky girl? What would their reaction be?