My guess is that there is no one answer to this question but I would be interested in hearing the responses from both providers and hobbyists alike.

Who has the responsibility for insuring that a session is a fullfilling and complete experience?

Is it the provider who has the responsibility for insuring that all of her menu items are made known and offered to a client within the contracted time?

or..

Is it the client's responsibility to move the girl along to insure that he experiences all that he wishes to within the contracted time period?

I personally think it is the provider's responsibility as the professional accepting payment for a service and the one who probably has the most experience in managing the clock.

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If I understand the question right, you want to know who is in charge of makeing sure your date is meeting your expectations, the best way is always to verbalise your thoughts  on what would make a great date before you go to the next level, I love it when a guy lets me know what he likes on a date so there are no surprises or disapointments on both sides. We providers are offering a service and we want you to be happy and return most of us would be very sad if when you left you felt let down we really do want you to be happy....so speak up and make sure we are both on the same page....read reviews and pick  wisely....Victoria

guys are under alot of self induced pressure to perform well intimately, and in addition to the pressure of managing a household, a career, and most likely being the decision maker in every aspect of their life, it should be a relief to alleviate that responsibility and allow the burden to shift to someone else for once.

thats one of the advantages of seeing a professional.  

however,
it the the nutty that makes me delicious and being a master of the wand makes my mojo magical, but i can't actually do magic tricks

unless of course,  you're bringing me a magic wand.

Ditto with the other providers...I always assume the responsibility to make sure each session goes smoothly and to the guys advantage.After all,that's why we are called providers---right--lol???!!!kisses,dallas

Bobby, enjoy your posts and glad you asked the question.  There are many girls I have seen that my reviews may suggest. I like reviews to know what the girls MO is and if many reviews, the story will be the same.

I have stayed away from the girls who have a 1.5hr minimum usually because the half hour is for her to get comfortable with you.  Any girl in this biz knows whats the ticket and should lead the way or expect a not so good review. And that's why I will always believe Mya is the bomb!!!!

modified..ok, I was a little hammered when I wrote this response earlier. There are great girls who know whats going on.  Had great times with Sarah, Vicki, Isabella,...and all knew how to proceed....but am admittingly a big Mya fan.




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is to take a few minutes to determine if you are compatible. If you meet at the door and it feels right go with the flow and both do what you can to please each other. If you click it should be awesome! If at the door you don't feel any click say no thank you and walk away. Don't let the little head do the thinking. If you stay just because you are there or feel obligated you will not have the great time you are looking for. Same with the ladies. If you feel that your visitor is in some way not comfortable with you or you feel that he is only staying because of obligation just ask him. If for some reason you are not comfortable it will show and he will not be happy. I always ask if someone wants to stay or not after about 10 minutes of getting to know each other. I would rather have someone leave and not spend a dime than stay and not be completely happy. Just MHO

Very good topic! I believe both the provider and the hobbyist share responsiblity. The provider should have an idea as to what hobbyists tend to enjoy otherwise she probably will not be successful in this business.

The hobbyist needs to convey their expectations to the provider and guide her accordingly during the session (I am presently unaware of any local providers who possess psychic abilities). On occasion, there are times when either the provider or the hobbyist does not feel comfortable. If this is the vibe at the beginning of the session, by all means walk away and cut your losses. On other occasions, there may appear to be a connection only to have the session go awry at a later stage. Isn't that why we have the saying "YMMV" in the hobby?

how many times have we been excited about a new " encounter" only to let down when the door opens?..yeah we go through with it..but you knew from the START it just wasn't there..in all reality..i guess its just the way it is. to bad donnas approach wasn't the norm..i think there would be alot more hobbiest still around..

I've walked out on two girls after the 1st 5 minutes because I didn't feel a connection and they were understanding about it.  A lot of it had to do with my first trying out the hobby, and then it became about the little head as Donna points out.  

I would never walk out on Donna though.

YMMV is not at all the case. if a guy goes to see  girl and he knows from the begining that he is not attracted he will not be completely satisfied even if he finishes. What happens then? He feels that she is to blame. Us ladies do all that we can and try our best to please everyone. But it is not possible. it is not a mileage thing it is a making the right choice thing.  I know a guy who saw someone and at the door he didn't want to do it but felt obligated. He went through with it and 5 minutes after leaving called another girl he knew really well to go see because he was disgusted! Shame on him first of all for staying. If the photos weren't accurate and he wasn't comfortable he should have left. He spent a lot of money that day when a simple "Nothank you" would have been fine. Point is if you seem to be unhappy after an appointment make sure to determine if it is really the lady or possibly you making a bad decision.

I did not feel so little after the meeting.  She is my all time favorite. There is just someting special about her.

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but how'd you know I had such a small cock. Good news travels quickly through such a tightly knit community. But the girls love being in the presence of such a really, really good looking guy as myself.

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