Normally I would be content to merely lurk on these boards, but recent threads have compelled me to comment.  I refer specifically to the recent thread on "ranking" the top providers.  Since WHEN do these truly extraordinary ladies become commodity items?  Is there truly no distinction between them?  Will it come to a point where we reach a stage of the "generic provider?"  I, for one, certainly hope not! I say it is these "rankings" and labeling of these fine ladies that tries to strip their individual uniqueness that draws each of us to our particular favorite(s).  Providers are not in competition to win a prize or overwhelming fan support on the boards.  They are in a profession that also happens to be pleasurable.  If fans want to review them, get the approval of the lady before typing away recklessly.  The Internet makes it far too easy to abuse the First Ammendment right of Free Speech, but people have forgotten that free speech is only allowed when it does not cause harm to someone else.  A famous quote is "the pen is mightier than the sword" and a few errant keystrokes can damage a provider's hard earned reputation.  Please consider that before typing furiously in a review.

I am certain that there are many fans of Jordan Kay, Mya, Isabella, Stacee, etc and each fan has his/her reasons for choosing that particular provider.  I certainly have my preferences, but I prefer to keep that between the lady and myself.  Instead, I merely suggest that for as long as these truly wondrous ladies are willing to grace us with the pleasure of their company, we should be grateful, thankful, and respectful of their diversity.  After all, that is why Baskin-Robbins has offered 31 Flavors for several decades now!

WELL SAID and thank you very much.

a GREAT BIG KISS to you for that!!

you are a true gentleman. You know how to enjoy all that life has to offer.

The 'Garden of Delight' is filled with many different 'flowers' and to overlook any is a loss. Some will be more beautiful, some more lush and others more delicate but each one will be unique and, as they say, 'variety is the spice of life' ;o)

I think everyone wants to be singled out as the "BEST", or in the top ten, or top five, or just to be on the Top of anyones ATF provider list. We all seek some ego stroking sometimes. But the best way to do it is privately, one on one with your Top, Best provider. We have access to reviews here, and we have a great community that really voices who they think is great if someone is looking for a referal or a little help narrowing down their list. But to single out a few among the many fantastic ladies that this city has to offer seems unfair. There are just too many with great talents to single out a few. And one mans list will always be different than anothers. Choosing a companion is like selecting a fine wine. Sometimes you want, a full bouquet, rich and robust, hearty wine. Other times you want more of a subtle, sweet light wine, and then there are times when you only have enough in your pocket for the screw top kind lol. But no matter what, the best is what you make of it, and with whom you make it with!
I fall into the screw top robust catagory lol ;P
~Malissa~xoxo

I second that "Iknead". Very well explained and my sincere gratitude.

Kisses

Often times there are people who do not like to be in the public eye as much and prefer to stay low-key. Although they are low key and certainly more private it doesn't mean that they are any less of a provider. Take for instance Taylor Ann, Chrissy Stone, Madison, Carlee, Wild West Kelly, My Michelle, Little Debbie, Etc. All have an excellent following and don't pop up on the boards every day. Yet all of them provide Four and Five star service... from what you gents tell me, I personally never heard a complaint about them from anyone. The top ten list is ridiculous and needs to be put to a stop. You can't rank a person... a human being with feelings and emotions, a brain to think. You can create your own individual list if you really want, but to create a list for a board where we have so many staying silent in the shadows, such a vast many unknowns...Oh you can judge from the statistics I know, but then how many times have people complained about the review system being faulty. No it is much more important for the provider/ providers that you see and enjoy to know that you really appreciate them on a personal level, not that you support them on a public board. Just a thought....

I agree with all of you and think that this post was past due!!

I, for one, have been around for a while;

I have worked at several agencies, seen many things happen (good and bad), have made many friends who have left my life as quickly as they have come in; and I have made some incredible memories and learned from my experiences.

However, along the way I have met some very intriguing, sensitive, caring, charismatic, genuine, and intelligent ladies (and men).  I think that when the guys on the board try to rant and rave about their favorites, it is all a very biased discussion that should be left in the locker room.  All too often the men are rating the ladies based solely on looks, availability, price, or just a hot time.  However, the problem I always come across is that the men never make mention of what makes their favorite, well, their favorite....other than the obvious.  

I figured I would come out and say what my favorite qualities about the friendly phoenix ladies are....I think we all love compliments.....

Mya- Mya is a truly unique AZ lady...not only is she a natural beauty with or without her makeup and cute dresses...this lady has a brain on her that would stun most of you!!  She is sensible, strong, passionate, driven, extremely intelligent caring, nurturing towards her true friends and has an enormous passion for life and making people happy! Those of you who have had the immense pleasure of meeting Mya, will all know the genuine article I am talking about here.  

Jordan Kay- This woman is not only a bombshell in person, but has such a sensual, passionate way about her.  Not only is she an incredible friend, but she also shows such a caring quality towards others whenever she can.  This lady would give you the shirt of her back (and what a great sight) to someone who needed it more than her.  She is a true gem!

Isabella- Isabella is a fiery, passionate woman with such a drive within her heart!  This lady shares my passion for education and learning something new everyday...Not only is this woman a stellar beauty in person, her personality and confidence takes her to a new height that sets her apart from others.  Confidence, beauty and Brains...oh My!!  Did I mention the salsa dancing skills???  

Lynn- This lady is full of spunk and as kind hearted as they come....she has always been there when I needed her and has that light in her eyes that will always make her shine!  A beauty inside and out.

Taylor Lynn- Although Taylor is not a provider, I know that she has always been in the eyes of the boys on the board....Those of us who have had the chance to meet her know how special she is.  She was always there to help her girls, take care of them and be there for them when in need.  Taylor is a strong woman and never throws a boring party!!    If any of you boys have had the chance to meet her, you also know how amazing she is in person.

There are many other ladies I have met along the way, and it seems that all too often, the catiness can set in and make you into a whole different person in this business.  I think instead of ranting or raving, we should all recognize the real beauty and brains that make up this wonderful community here in Phx.  There are no other communities quite like ours and we should all feel so proud to have been able to make such wonderful friends here.

Sorry if I left any one out.....there are too many ladies to mention in a short post.
However, You are all very special women, and you should all know how beautiful you are!!!


Kisses and Hugs, Madison

Our names were probably just fresh in SayWhens head when he posted that message because we are always chatting away on here. But, I don't think he meant any harm.  I think he meant to compliment some but didn't think of the fact that he could be hurting others. I think he learned his lesson though.  Didn't you SayWhen? It's okay to come out now, I don't think anyone is going to bite ANYMORE.

Ciao,
xoxox
Isabella

taking some back!

Madison - Very intelligent, divinely curvaceous, such a pretty face....and that voice! Have you ever heard Marilyn sing 'Happy Birthday'? That would be Madison.

And while I'm at it...I owe Mya one too!

Mya - A Pisces. Need I say more?  hehe. (she and I..both fish).  She brightens up a room each and every time she enters...like Madison said, a natural beauty with an amazing personality and a brain that could hold FBI files. lol

All of the ladies that I have met over these past months of being a provider, could take up a page and I have no doubts the ones I haven't met could as well....

But, I owed Madison and Mya. hehe.  You are all the best!
       
Hey ladies, do you think the guys are getting sick of us drooling all over each other?

Ciao,
xoxoxox
Isabella

I think some of the hobbyists say some incredibly insensitive things at times, but then there are other times when I think some of us hold back in fear of offending some of the ladies.
I personally try to keep my identity secret I post reviews weeks after I have seen the lady, and I try to avoid the specials for TER members.
And usually after two years I just start up with a new member ID.
This board was meant to be a tool avoid ripoffs....for us the hobbyists, the ladies have their own board or boards where they can freely vent without fear of retribution why shouldn't we?

Don't Hate The Players Hate the Game!!! Not to sound cold but It is my money So it is my right to choose any provider I want. remember this is a business and realize it is up to the women to market themselves. realize that the ranking of the LADIES is  controlled by the LADIES!! not the fellas. What I have noticed is that the most successful ( and most popular )providers have the following qualities in order

1 a good attitude
2 marketing
3 looks

I understand we do not want to treat the ladies like commodities, but we must also realize that we ( The Hobbyist )
are paying for a service so we have the right to choose, and I for one will only make a choice based on information givin to me.
Personally I will only make a decision from the following

1. Nothing under the radar ( Been burned before )
2. If have more than 2 bad reviews per 20 good reviews
3. no pics ( been burned )
4: and I like em thick ( but not to thick )

Realize this is what T E R is for to limit or eliminate bad experiences and to make informed choices

My record before TER 0 and 4

My record after TER 22 and 1

remember life is about choices