Here's a tip for you, next time you have an inquiry, put the link to either her ad or profile. Have you read the "self help center" on the newbie main page? It's in red print at the top of the board.  Spend time on the newbie board to learn about the hobby.  It will quickly become apparent to you, that you want to see well reviewed ladies. Also check to see if the reviewer has written reviews.  I think in the case of Sissy, she has enough reviews, written by experienced reviewers to qualify as an excellent choice.  I noticed you haven't written any reviews, nothing wrong with that, as we were all newbs at one time or another.  However, you will need references to see most providers.