the provider should........  the reason men see us is they are tired of always  having to be the one doing the initiateing with their SO just the fact you ask or offer makes a guy feel wanted......and as long as it is done in the time frame why no?t we charge enough that it should be an option

......When the fabulous Reagan woke me up at 6:00am by pulling the covers off and giving me BBBJ in order wake up Mr. Happy so that she could start her morning off with a bang....so to speak.   It was by far the best moring I have had in a very long time....and it beats the heck out of setting the alarm clock. (Thank You Miss R!!!)

The best possible senario is when you and the provider are in sync and you can sense when your partner is ready for another round.

If it is a first date I would say that the provider should initate round 2 because the client may be unsure if MSOG's are allowed....she should glently stroke his johnson and if he responds it is a safe bet that a second round is OK.

Just my $0.02 worth

Correct or not I wait for the provider to initiate round two (unless I have a repoir established with the provider).  The truth is I don't know if a second cup is on the menu even if reviews say it is. The provider may be having on off day or whatever and the last thing I want is to have to worry/deal with the drama, etc.  As Victoria beautifully stated I am there for a reason! If I wanted to go through the same thing I can get on a regular basis I wouldn't be there.

All things being perfect or even close to perfect, then the companion should. However the companion should be aware and keep in the mind that seconds or thirds can be both a physically and mentally challenging proposition for some.

I try to make my approach based on how I feel the client feels. The last thing I want to do is make the client feel like he is either under, or not performing to his own expectations. In a perfect world this would never be a concern, in the advent of ED it is.

A well established, caring and experienced companion will know the difference and should react accordingly.

.... even if it's rejected for w/e reason ... I think the lady should offer/initiate at the latest after the first round.