If that first phone call goes poorly or if i think back and feel i just didnt click at all i wont make an appointment.

Combination of things,  price, openness, incall, looks, age and also important - NO kids !!  Who wants loose ?  Not me.

Sometimes you can read it in an email, hear it over the phone, or see it in her eyes.  Some have it.  Some don't.  

Some guys crave a certain look, but looks aren't passion.  Some crave openness to their particular desires (or kinks), but acts are not passion.  Some enjoy getting a bargain, while others love to pay top-dollar, but money has nothing to do with passion.

Passion grabs you by the imagination, fires up your enthusiasm, and takes you where you really want to be, where you haven't been (at least for a very long time), and leaves you happy with yourself and your choice.  Passion leaves you with the warm knowledge that you truly enjoyed an experience together.

(The rain is inspirational this morning!)

OC-- I couldn't agree with you more.

The initial decision is usually based on looks, reputation and word of mouth recommendations.   Follow up visits come from that poorly  defined catch all of "chemistry".  And there is the mystery of  looks, touch, feel, smells ,smiles, laughter and  interaction  both intellectual and physical.  I am a lucky man to have  met so many  wonderful ladies who have shared amazing good times.  Most I would see again in a minute, but yet only rarely do I actually make return visits.  Variety is  great. To find that special fit that makes an "ATF " is wonderous.  Whatever you choose, live it today.

Physical beauty, references from respected hobbyists, attitude, skills, but the real clincher for me is multi-orgasmic.  If the lady has a history of being incredibly and honestly responsive, I'm hooked.

I offer to you a non rushed true girlfriend experience I'm a very passionate lady as I love to kiss and cuddle There's nothing like soft music and a dim candle lite room to set the mood I enjoy good conversations, fine wines & fine gentlemen...

Lots of fine gentlemen here!!!!! kisses
Terri