Went to see kristen off Tman's post, knocked for every on the door,thinking i bruised my knuckles,went to call her of course voicemail was full. How often does this happen to U? can't believe it, ruins the day!!

Unfortunately, this seems to be an ever increasing problem here in the Phoenix area. Also unfortunately, Phoenix is gathering a negative reputation for this kind of behavior on the part of our providers. We once enjoyed the dubious distinction of being one of the more notorius "rip off" areas in the country. We were able to get that one behind us for the most part but are fast develoing this other one. This kind of behavior has even begun to infect some of the better known, higher priced ladies here as well. One of these days, folks, both hobbyists and providers alike, are going to wake up on this issue and realize how this kind of thing hurts everyone. My only suggestions for trying to stop this crap are as follows: 1) out the ladies who are prone to doing this on these public boards when it is appropriate to do so, 2) keep fellow hobbyists informed, both local and visitors, through back channels and, 3) support the gals who are respectful of our time and efforts as fully as possible. Ladies who are prone to this kind of thing should be driven out of the business IMHO.

Have not had this happen personally, but I have sent Kristen several emails and left several voice mails, none of which have been returned.  I have given up on her.

Sorry 'bout that. What I want you to do if that ever happens again is make sure you have my number whith you so your day/night won't end up with you being alone again.

I want you and anybody else who has ever gone through something like this or sad to think it does go through this at anytime as a hobbyist is that I will answer your call and if I can't I WILL within a reasonable amount of time.  

Heck I don't care if I wasn't your first choice I don't even have to be your second choice of all the beautiful ladies in town I just don't want you day/night to end up with you unhappy about not being able to see your first choice AND still frustrated to boot.  

A frustrated man is uptight, jumpy, GROUCHY and will tend to take things a little too personal.
Why should a man be all grouchy and grumpy when he can be happy and a lot less stressed.

I am sure to help get rid of almost all of your tension at the very least burning a few calories is never a bad thing.  

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This has happened to me a number of times. It definitely sucks! I agree that we need to broadcast the event (if there is no legitimate excuse). The time, effort and scheduling that surrounds a call is significant. And yes, it does ruin your day!!

My experience was with another provider, not a no show but a misunderstanding about the time, I thought one thing and she thought another. Well, she made other plans and I called the other lady that I had been considering and had a great time. You must always have a plan-B in this hobby.

She got me last week too.  I was explicit as to the process, which she agreed to.  We were to talk LIVE, 2-3 hrs prior to meeting to confirm, which never happened.  I've been educated by a provider, not to just show up and start knocking unless that had been explicitly stated.  Last minute changes can always occur, so showing up and knocking at her door, could've made a bad situation worse. Confirming is easy, simple and starts the whole appt off in the right direction.

Regardless, I've sent a follow up email, which hasn't been answered - it's been a week.  I've moved on.  Helloooo Donna!

Hearing impaired.  I like that.

Well I finally got there, for the BJ Auction and called her before I left and she was so sweet on the phone, she told me to call as soon as I landed (one hour flight) which I did, not there so left a message. Got my luggage, rent car etc called her 45 mins later not there left a message.  So stopped and had a light lunch and called again not there. Left a message.  Got to my hotel and called again and left a message to call me when she got my message.  After dinner that night still no message.....WTF is up with these PHX gals....so I called sidney later and she said to come right over and she would work my kinks out....so I did

Guys don't even bother wasting your time with Kristen. She shouldn't be in this business. Very unreliable provider. I think she needs to resolve some of her personal issues.

Not sure who you are but the only reason I would not confirm with someone would be that your reference didn't check out. I have had three of those in the last few weeks. I do return my e-mail as long as I get it and it doesn't come through as spam.

got email 48hrs later, claiming accident, i know it happens but thanks TER community for enlighting me to this situation, that many others have had, w/her or another. Thanks again!

I had been stood up by a 411er.  Made arrangements.  Talked with her the day of.  No show - no call.  She's still on 411 and it irritates me every time I see her picture with the rest of you.