after all the drama and lies that cost me to spend several hours trying to get to the bottom of todays fake posts and feeling that I might of caused harm to a poster by outing the wrong person, for which I am very sorry. i know realise that there is a good reason why so few people take the time and effort to share there views and thoughts.....I never wanted to be a queen just someone to share my life stories with and maybe a laugh or two. I have enjoyed my time here and thank you for letting me be a small part of the group I wish you all good will and will check in sometimes to see how everyone is doing but for now on this board I am now a lurker.....I will do like other providers and place an ad every now and then peace. everyone.Victoria

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...we're nicer and not so bored that we have to amuse ourselves by creating unnecessary drama (planting fake posts, being cruel to others, etc.).

I will see you on the LA board thanks for your kind words luv you V

Vic- you are one of the most honest and sweetest people I've ever had the pleasure of talking to... Your posts have always been interesting and thought provoking... It's a shame that today's drama has led you to this decision...I'm sure that many other people feel the same way... You are a class act and I will follow you when you post elsewhere and will speak to you soon-

Victoria...I know I speak for many members here that truly hope you reconsider leaving the boards.  I have always found your posts to be entertaining and insightful.  You shouldn't let one ass be your reason for leaving!

I got a birthday coming up this month, and you were on the short list to have some Dom in the jacuzzi with me.

Methinks you put too much into what was, and was not. No one controls this place, that's the beauty of it-post what you like, when you like, how you like.

And let the chips fall where they may.

Otherwise, you let the naysayers and nitwits win.

Screw them-Hobby Happy!

JJ

PS-email me at my name at yahoo dot com-cause I wanna fill my dance card up for the birthday romp sooner...rather than later.

send me an email so we can catch up
I have a new one [email protected]

we will all miss her...hopefully she just takes a break..sad,we encourage the ladies to participate and then some moron screws it up...

others and drive them away, we all lose.  It is a shame, so shame on us for not standing up to the few jerks who get a big laugh from their hurtful ways.  Yeah, I am one who infrequently posts on this board and rarely in reply to the  AH of the world as I choose to not add fuel to the fire.  Don't go away Victoria, we have lost enough good people like you.  Without you and others like you this board will become less than it could be and if that is the case, we all suffer.

which I cannot access.  

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I know how you feel Victoria this is the reason I do not post it has happened to me, and it is not worth the time and effort to ans the narrowed mined post of some idiot who can't use their real name.If you can't stand up and face your rival with your true name and self then you are not worth ans .Your worth on this Board is valued My Friend not the no Name who has no courage to uncover his true face!!!

edensrose

The reason you don't give in to a terrorists demands is that it only encourages the reprehensible behavior, it is important to consider the source and move on. Banker

I am a longtime lurker and most likely always will be.   That is my choice.  I have been a member of TER for a long time.  In one of our meetings - which I consided very special - you was telling me in your very nice and thoughtful way - you would like to see me on the boards.  I did not take your advice, but with the thought of you not giving your thoughful insight and not seeing your posts, is not good for our community and especially for the board.  I regretfully respect your decision but you will be missed.

Victoria,

I know that you are upset about what happened and I do understand you. I wasn't on the board here for almost a year and a half because of all the drama that was going on. It is no fun to participate when there are so much negativity...however you are one of the few people here who cheer us all up with your life stories, questions and jokes. Please do not let this 'poster' drive you away for good. Just take a break if you feel that you need to be away from it for a while. You will be missed, and nobody here is just saying that to be nice. It is how we feel. Your comments have always been very informative and insightful (if that is a word...lol) and I have thoroughly enjoyed them each and every time. What you write are many times my own thoughts, but I could never write as fancy as you, so that is why I never do it.

So with that said, I hope I get to see you really soon here again, and we are all looking forward to it.

Puss och Kram
Swedish Anna