i dont know about increasing duration...all i know is im so ugly i have to give myself the date rape pill before i do choke my chicken

masterbation is such a touchy subject

you're not ugly, just funny!!!!

.....probably not exactly what you were looking for; but watching "you" masturbate to orgasm(with or without help)is quite a turn on that (IMHE) definitely increases duration during the follow up act(s)!!!

Has nothing to do with duration.  It does reduce volume and power of ejaculation.  The big inhibitors are condoms, age, chronic diseases and mental stuff like performance anxiety.
You ladies do your best, but getting old is not for sissies.

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Lots of things infuence how "promptly" I can ejaculate, and how many times within a limited period of time. One reason I go for multi-hour appointments with understanding ladies.

Hydration, rest, alcohol all influence things.

But, a particular provider consistently (well, not all the time) comments on how thick I am. OK, not how thick skulled I am - she does that too time-to-time, but my ejaculate. I try to listen, of course, but I lack access to a comparison group

But, I guess when she has to ask me for a glass of water so she can swallow (think of somebody taking a horsepill), I should consider that a definitive statement. After consulting with a Jizz doctor (1-800-ASK-JIZZ), his recomdendation was to consider masturbating.

The problem with masturbation is that the male organ becomes accustomed to certain things. Positions (even which hand!), etc. So, over masturbation may - in addition to depleting the tank - also lead to an inability to achieve that O in a wide range of positions.

Personally, if I know I have a session planned - I stop doing-myself at least a few days in advance. Nothing like showing up for the big game - with my pee-shooter and no peas. It takes longer for we older guys to refill the ball tank.

I suspect the relation between masturbation (as a control parameter) into an (in)ability to easily ejaculate is tied to age as well. Those damn 17 y/o's get hard in a strong breeze, reach O by just thinking of sex, and can repeat the cycle way tooooo many times a day. Bastards always screw up the bell curve

TJ

I don't know about all the rest, I just know where my mind wanders when I can calling my own number, as they say. You and Sarah are at the top of my visual memory. Thanks for that.

Depends on when it was last done and what your used to.  The womans " V " plays a vital role too.  I could build up for a week, but if the woman is loose as a goose it might not happen.   But, if she is tight as a drum then it doesn't matter when it last happened !  Cloud nine comes quickly !!  Valueable lesson for providers.  
Can we have a catagory on the review list for this ?  

but seriously. Depends on how soon before the session. And honestly, there are some women I take longer with than others. Chemistry. And sometimes when it is "all about me" so I go for the gusto (which in Portuguese means something else).

Heck, there have been some women it would not happen with, and some women who I would just look at and, well, you get the picture. Masturbation or not.

But - for duration, the best thing is regular sex with a partner. Repeated sex on a regular basis helps loads, I mean a lot

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Hard to answer; everybody's different, and depends how soon before the act we're talking about... If it's within a few hours of the act, I can sometimes go for 90 minutes or more; If it had been 12 or more hours before I'm usually good for about an hour...

For once Terri you agree with me ?   Awwww, how sweet.   :*

provides plenty of vivid erotic memories for all the self-pleasure I need, as long as it isn't too long between visits. To your question, I stay away from self-gratification for a couple of days before live pleasure, as that allows for more intense gratification. I regard self gratification as a way to stay in shape for the real event! And you, Mya, are the real event!

left so when I do it I want the real thing. Besides it's lonely doing it by yourself and when your done you have one one to cuddle with.
I can't hug my hand and I don't like kissing it.

The self-stimulation thing works in regards to new partners.  I have a tendency to literally explode (quickly) when I'm with someone new and extremely attractive. Timing is very important on the self-stimulation thing.  Do it too early, and the effect is lost (batteries get fully recharged).  Do it too late, and you'll have no battery life to speak of.  Magic time: 90-120 minutes before the encounter.

But it's generally not neccessary for partners with whom I've been with many, many times