This might sound out of line, but read the whole post. As a consumer ( hobbist ) we look for the value or what we want for our dollar. As retailers ( ladys ) you are looking to maximize the dollar amount for your product. If you think in these terms you set the parameters for the use of the product. The consumer as always wants to haggle and try to get his way or something more for his dollar. Remind them of the street adage, This isnt burger king you can't have it your way!

I agree with Mya, I didn't respond since everyone else covered my comments on the subject. I can't stress enough that there are those who will "name drop" just to make you feel more comfortable and drop your guard on any subject. If you stick to your guns and are true to yourself, you won't care what any client says any other provider does. You know the risks and the rules of playing safe, taking unsafe risks will not increase your buisness, but it will increase the probability that you won't be playing for long.
Peace, Passion and Love,
Malissa xoxo

I too "thought the words of everyone else were enough" so I didn't post either. We've been over the safety issues before many times and all know the potential consequences of risky behavior. No matter how many times we go over it there will always be 'gamblers' and it's up to each of us, providers and hobbyists, to not allow others to change our stand on it.

Who cares if somebody else 'does it'/'did it'???? If that's what they want then that's who they should be seeing again instead of pressuring others to do it too.

Sorry, can't help myself  It's actually spelled "Leverage" not levrage!

Why would a provider care if another does this or that?  Each provider has their own comfort level and should only work within them.  Too many hobbyists are boldfaced liars.  Some claiming certain ladies bareback or perform greek, or both.  Its just a juvenile attempt to get something for nothing.

Stay within your comfort zone.