This poll is for everybody.  Choose an answer or provide your own!

Why do women see male providers at a fraction of the rate men see female providers?

1.  Women want more warm fuzzies and longer relationships than men.
2.  Women can't enjoy it if they're paying for it.
3.  There just aren't enough males with the skills comparable to female providers (Muffyman excepted, apparently).
4.  Men have too much dignity to be providers (I'm kidding...I'm a kidder....ha ha!)
5.  Men are so easy that women don't need a pool of providers from which to draw.  They can have most anybody the choose, anytime they want.
6.  If we also had male providers, Sherriff Joke's head would explode in confusion.
7.  (My personal favorite).  Women already have a pool of providers to call--the female providers who actually know what they want!

Happy Rest of Your Weekend.

for many of the same reasons men see providers....can't answer to the why do womens see male providers.....I didn't know they did....

D15

I can't answer for every female because I'm only one, but I have on occasion considered seeing a male provider, when I'm lonely or in between boyfriends. I never have, though. Mainly because I figure I could just as easily head out to any bar and get laid if I wanted to without paying for it. Or head to match.com or somewhere like that and throw up a personal ad. I mean, virtually everyone online is looking for sex, right? So, if I really wanted to get laid, I could head online.

The only way I think I'd see a male provider is if I was seriously depressed. As in, too depressed to do any of the above. Where it'd be easier just to make a phone call and order someone up. But the thing is, there are few to no male escorts who aren't bisexual and I wouldn't be interested in a bisexual male escort. I'd prefer one who isn't all muscled out, and if you've ever looked.....it's very hard to find a straight male escort who doesn't look like he lives in the gym. I guess I could've shortened this whole response by saying, "I might see one, but I'm super picky and haven't run across one I'd be attracted enough to pay."

Long-windedly yours,

Megan

Now I guess I'll answer the actual question. Sorry, Gallop.

I guess the market isn't really there for male providers, especially if they're straight, so the price is lower to entice women who may not otherwise pay, to pay. That's my guess. Though I did [virtually] know a male escort in Canada who had a higher hourly rate than I. He didn't do it full time because the business wasn't there, but he did have business.

Megan

My vote would be for for #5. As Megan said, women can always find a guy with little to no effort and in the 1 in a 100 case were they just want someone right now, they are just as picky (if not more so) as us guys. Also it is much more difficult for a guy. A guy must have interest in the women in order for the equipment to function properly - it's hard to fake hard.

But hey, if there's a market out there for it count me in!! I'm available for you anytime Megan.

..warmth and affection that is. This thread hit the head on the nail. Yes, Mya saw a woman. Off the clock though most likely meeting the needs of a human for attention, care, warmth. And it got me thinking as well as Megan's post. We all need "affection and attention" at times. Wanna know what GFE is (at least another non-sex angle)? The ability to be kind, warm, sincere, listen, affectionate (not just "spank me daddy!"). Yea, can we go online and get "done"? Well it is harder for guys than girls - else this biz would not exist. So ladies - who is truly a warm, sensual, naturally affectionate (not just sex), and can soothe my troubles with a touch, a hug, a cuddle, take care of me for the moment. Tuck me in instead of tucking me in. Who will not share her tales of woes. Who will warm my heart with her look. Touch me like someone who honestly cares. Does it exist in this hobby? Can it be real for the moment - where you care? Or is it just a playful experience. About the big "O". Looking at the clock, tick tock. If you are out there, you get the next appointment for sure. A new business model. In a world of pressures, everyone needs someone to hold them once in a while - yea, will it lead to something more? Probably. But then it will be an incredible session and not a lunch break.

Who's out there??? GFE's only need apply. Lots of wam bam thank you mam's available I am sure. But whose really got game? Yea, that's what I am looking for. I can "take care of myself" if I need to for the quick o, but there are few that have the total package (don't you like a challenge?!). Can you fit that experience into an hour? It has been a rough few weeks work wise. I need something other than the "normal" hobby girl. Let's see who can really make it "all about me". Not looking to take care of you. Unless you make me feel "it". The warmth, the attention, the true GFE. Guys talk about it. Girls claim to be it. Yea, it is a chemistry thing to. Which is why Megan's post is true. We don't always go looking for it because what we will get is just sex. Sometimes the people we end with do not know how to be truly warm, passionate, affectionate - or heck, can't even kiss. So while I do search traditional methods, I am curious if it can be fulfilled professionally. Seems to be a rare find (tease, tease). Want it from the moment we glance to the moment the glance ends. Door to door so to speak. Not chit chat about the hobby. Who's doing who. When the next social event is. Why the appointments are busy or slow. Who you saw last. None of that. Just touch my heart for one hour. Go for it!


Peace,
JD




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Woman are not thinking about sex 24/7 like men are.  Plus when we do feel the urge, yes usually we can find whatever we want - for free.

If I have to vote, I'll pick #5.  I think the real reason is the X vs. Y factor.  Women have two compete X Chmomosomes, men only have one X and a tiny-not-many-genes-on-it Y chromosome.  I hate to admit it, but women are genetically supeior to us.  Plus, they don't suffer from a know medical condition know as PSB (Painful Sperm Buildup).

and yeah, some of it is chemistry.  But there are a few women in this biz that have provided me with exactly what I needed - affection.

I am a very caring, witty, affectionate and easy-to-talk-to provider (or at least that's what I've been told). I'd like to think that I'm reasonably intelligent, too.

Hugs,
Ciara

JD:

My sessions always run over. It's funny because I have virtually no client base from the boards, despite a very few who've sampled. I believe anyone can get laid and if that was all everyone wanted, they'd be trolling Van Buren. My style of service is as I describe, like a girlfriend. When my friends come to visit, they know to leave at least two hours for a one hour appointment. That's because we'll spend an hour getting to know each other, talking about their family, their job, what is missing in their life, sports, anything and everything. I share my life with them, too.  My experiences as an escort, in the professional world, my family, everything under the son. To me, THAT is a GFE. Not the alphabet soup. But I don't think most of the people on the boards, TER, ASPD, Bigdoggie, etc. feel that way. I think most of them just want to get laid, want the alphabet soup with the limits pushed. I may be wrong, but I've never been very popular amongst board members on either coast when it came to booking appointments.

Anyhow, when someone vistis me, they can expect conversation. Someone who genuinely cares to hear what they say. Most of my clients are in relationships whether marriage or otherwise, and I think as relationships grow in length, we sometimes run out of time to talk to our significant others. I provide that outlet for my men. I love to talk, to learn about people, to help people and the clients I have come to see me for that reason.

So, if what some of you are looking for is a real girlfriend experience where most of the alphabet is included but really pales in comparison to the emotional tending you receive, try me.  There's a reason I write what I do here, it's because I want to attract the members of our hobby who delight in a woman who is intelligent and has something to share. I don't believe in spending my whole appointment giggling incessantly and pretending to be vapid. It's not who I am. I believe in sharing my gifts with any and all who wish to share theirs. We're all human, we all need to feel loved, concerned for, cared about, and most of all, heard. That's what you get with an appointment with me. Along with the rest. And time? Time is just time. If I can spend an extra hour with you and it makes you feel better, that's my whole goal. Money is paper. More can be made in many other ways, but love and concern are priceless and a price tag should NEVER be put on either.

Megan

PS With this message, I'm in no way inferring I'm any better or worse than any  other lady in this hobby. I'm not inferring that anyone in this community is vapid or less intelligent than I. I just want to make that clear. Some of the most intelligent women I've ever met work right here in this industry and I appreciate each and every one of their contributions to my life.

Perhaps at some point soon, we can share a meeting of the minds, etc.

Megan

like a pair of shoes!