Let me take Sheika Fatima's point about misogyny in a different direction. There is no word in our language that describes women hating men, but going the other way, there is misogyny. Misanthrope describes a person hating all humanity. Two very experienced providers with extensive contacts in the business told me that as many as 70% of women in the business hate men. They withhold this hatred to exploit men for money, and many women don't remain in the business that long because they burn out and become jaded. Many of these women are bisexual, and they definitely prefer women over men to pleasure them. True? I was astounded to hear these comments. One provider I know is not bisexual and hates men, so she is in the dilemma of hiding her hatred while being pleasured. It is a tightrope act that leads to burn out. What do you think about the argument that women in the business hate men? Aliases are welcome, of course.

Yes, you are correct. The situation/s you describe are very prevalent and they are very painful and disconcerting to endure…

I refer you [all] to my post of 12/16 in the “facts behind 'discounts'" thread. It sums up the situations you described when you wrote,

“One provider I know is not bisexual and hates men, so she is in the dilemma of hiding her hatred while being pleasured. It is a tightrope act that leads to burn out.”

The situations you describe is much more common than you might suppose. Simply put, it very often causes providers to disassociate their concept of self from their feelings.
This creates a very unpleasant, empty and precarious mental state. Many providers try bi-sexuality, drugs, certain kinds of pseudo spiritual/self help disciplines, and other things as a responds to this unfortunate state of affairs…

Again, I appreciate your interest and concern

PEACE, PROPERITY AND LOVE,

Sheika Fatima

Just curious, did those very experienced providers with the extensive contacts in the business mention whether they hated men too? I'm betting that they said that they enjoy men. So many providers are all too happy to try to make others look bad so that they can hold their clients. I see plenty of providers who've been around for a long time and are nowhere near being burnt out.

It is very important to remember that providers are consummate actresses; and, for the most part, the character they play does not demand a lot of stage craft.

You seem to be somewhat confused, about Niccolo’s post, so the Sheika will try and clarify.

Many, many experienced providers no-longer find sexual pleasure with men. They faking it, over and over and over in many stressful situations that are complicated by pressures from other—shall we say--business sources.  They fake it until sex--which is a natural act of pleasure and affection--becomes something they despise. So, they burn-out, usually after trying to compensate for the emptiness with a variety of unorthodox, abnormal behaviors.

LOVE, PEACE AND PROSPERITY; AND, PLEASE, EVERYONE HAVE AN ENJOYABEL HOLIDAY SEASON,

Sheika Fatima


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I understood Niccolo's post but just don't agree with it. Yes, I'm sure that there are many providers who fit your example but I've known many in business and as friends who don't.

I also disagree with your statement of "for the most part, the character they play does not demand a lot of stage craft". Any good provider has got to be a good actress. I think that if a provider can make the average guy feel like she's into him she has got to have some serious acting skills. I admire and thank them for it.