Gentlemen, have you ever been "fired" by a provider?  (Asked to not return.)  

Ladies, have you ever fired a client?  

What was the reason given?  Do you believe the real reason was something else?

Please don't use real names.  (We don't need a Jerry Springer episode...although that could be fun to read.)  Using an alias to reply might also be a good idea.

I dont know that i've ever been "fired" per se...but the world turns and things happen. I'm friends with a fair number of providers and most of the time if a guy gets booted its because he's either become obbsesive (one of my ATF's had a guy who'd camp outside her incall) or is physically or mentally abusive in some way.

The other extreme is when the lines blur and one side or both either lose objectivity or simply feel the need to move on...

-- Modified on 6/2/2006 9:10:16 AM

I was a newbie, and was fired by one of PHX's finest for "getting too close."  Sweetly, but firmly delivered.  Lesson learned.

1-Guy gets too obsessive, stalker-ish or wants to get too much into my personal life.
2-Bad hygiene(some guys will never get it).
3-Takes advantage of my time without compensation(one jerk always expected to pay for 1 hour and stay as long as he wanted to.  it was such a relief to "fire" him)
4-Guy compares me to another provider(not a good thing to do whether good or bad).
5-And finally, an innocent guy who looked so much like a relative of mine, it was just too freaky.  He was so nice and I felt badly, but this ain't West Virginia!

I never contacted her except with regard to my regular appointment - never emailed, never wrote, never called, never texted ... but after 3-4 months, SHE emailed, wrote, called, and texted on a social basis (to which I did not reply until I saw her in person at our appointed time) ... and I GOT FIRED for "things getting too close"!?

By client. Pinned down and entered me without the party hat after telling him I didn't allow that kind of risky behavior.

FIRED.

Hopefully your nightmare ended with your victimizer being sent to prison and being raped by a larger inmate as poetic justice, He should get a taste of his own crime!!

Providers...how many of you have ever had a similar experience (not necessarily violent, but unwanted penetration without protection)?  (I'm guessing a lot.)  Did the client climax in you while unprotected?

like I was fired for 1 of your 3.  My hygeine is important to me, no pleasure only passion...so just gotta hate those boundaries  =)

For the record, I fired myself because 1 of your 3....still hate those boundaries.

-- Modified on 6/3/2006 9:20:41 PM

Such behavior is NEVER acceptable and if there is a hell I believe it has a special section for people who rape women and abuse children..
Perhaps karma will repay this person for you in spades..