I recently saw someone that told me he had seen something really bad written about me. He could not tell me where because there is no access for ladies. If someone has something to please say it to me. If someone says something about me without a chance to even defend myself or respond that is just pure chicken****. Now I was going to let that go but then this came to me from someone else. The person who wrote it has never met me.
Fact 3:
Donna next door is a crazy bitch just like what
another provider told me. She has yet
to respond to any of my emails. Yet when criticism
comes her way, she just goes ballistic.

I have never gone ballistic because of criticism. People don't normally say bad things about me. My reviews speak for themselves. Now I only know two girls in person in this valley and am pretty sure it was not them.  I have talked to both and they are nice to my face. I don't know either one very well. I traveled with one for a very short trip and did one double with another two years ago but talk to her once in a while on the phone. I am nice to all the girls I talk with on the phone for reference checks, I am helpful to girls who want to tour with advice, and always get references back right away. I do not believe in saying bad things about people and if you talk to anyone who has seen me they will tell you that. I do not answer my phone much because I preffer to do e-mai. BUT... everyone knows I return my e-mail. If someone does not get a response from me it is because it came back as undeliverable or because they said or asked something really bad. Even then I normally respond telling them to please contact someone else. The only time I ever stop responding is when I have asked someone not to write again or to stop calling and they do not. I am one of the nicest girls in this valley. I go above and beyond the call of duty and have made friends with most of the people I see. I have a lot of repeat business and have never ripped anyone off or hurt anyone. In five years total I have only missed three people and they were situations that could not be helped. I always offered to make it up, and usually on me if they were willing to give me a chance and be nice about it. How many girls do that? What is it that I could have done that has made someone say these things? This kind of thing might not bother others, but it does me. One more thing, I am tired of being in the middle of the private boards thing. Those who have lists and posts and weekly e-mails are being very silly and childish. We should all be helping each other stay safe instead of worrying what someone else is doing to get in our way. I don't post on them anymore because I genuinely like everyone and will not take sides. I have opinions but I tell someone when I do not agree with something instead of telling everyone else. I was asked to a party recently and I was considering it but have decided not to go because everyone is arguing amongst themselves and I don't want to play. From now on have a reference request? Fine. Anything else look elsewhere. I am only interested in nice men who want to have a relaxed time with me with no games.
I wish everyone a great week!
Donna

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Hi Donna...I haven't had the pleasure of meeting you yet..but hope to some day...I feel kinda bad for you...I mean, for months now you have had to defend yourself left and right and for someone who is so totally upfront and seems truly sincere, that is alot to have to put up with...

I realize that you will be back here once a month after you have gone to Colorado, but I really hope that when you get up there, you won't have to go through the drama that you are down here...Anyway, just wanted to say hi and I think its sad that you are having to fight so hard for the respect that you obviously deserve...Just my opinion!

Take care sweety
Carmella

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I am totally behind Donna on this (& it's not only cause it's a great view. Lol). I met her once & we became good friends. I can't see a bad thing about her. Except maybe she worries too much about what other people are saying about her. Hehehe. Take it from me Donna, be like a duck in water & just let it roll off your back (I have no idea where that pun came from!!) And if you ever find out who said those things about you, let us on the board know, cause I bet there's a few of us who will stand by your side. Also please change your mind about the party, I look forward to seeing you again & I'm gonna need someone I know there. Lol.

Vampy

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I agree 100% with vamptat2.  There have been many bad things said about both myself and my Company and I have learned to let it roll off my back and move on with the important things.  I'm still here and doing better than ever and so are you!!

The people that believe in YOU aren't going to let rumors and bad talk take over them.  It just makes them like you even more (crazy isn't it??) I've never met you but I've also never heard a negative word about you and fully support you.  If you ever need anything, here or in Denver, I'm here for you!

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Thank you,
I have actuially been doing very well in the last months. I am very happy and do not have and bad thing in my life. I just do not understand why someone would say something about me not knowing me. But I guess that is the business. Anyway I don't see myself as having to defend myself lately. I decided to move and I travel a lot. I do very well when I am gone and I plan on staying that way. I will only be here to see the many friends that I have made through the years here. All is actually good here.
Donna

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Thank you Taylor,
Things have actually been great for me in the last months. It just hurts my feelings that I try to be so nice and people just stomp on you. Some people do not have any feelings, but I still do. I don't mind bad things being said because that is the business. I hear bad things about others a lot. I let it go and say oh well. I do not take it at face value and blast people with it knowing that most of it is not true. What I really do mind is when a girl who does not know me will call me names and not say it to my face. The guy took this persons word on me and they do not even know me. Their loss huh?  
I thank you very much for being so nice and hope you will keep your chin up. This is a tough place to be and I wish you the best. If you need anything let me know I will be around.
Donna

"Hang in there, Baby..."

Dee and I had lunch at the Islands, yesterday. Our table felt a little emptier without you.

Sorry our schedule has just been hell....I'll trade you two kids for three dogs.... j/k

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Donna we have met a couple of times and I can vouch that you are a very sweet, caring, and nice LADY. Maybe these people that are saying bad things about you are just plain jealous of you.I have never heard anything bad about you and if I did I wouldn't pay any attention to it because I know you.I will miss you. I would definitely like to see you again but my financial situation prevents that right now but maybe when you come back for one of your visits. If you could let me know when you come into town again hopefully we could get together so let me know.Angelo

No way!!!! I like kids as long as they belong to someone else Ok maybe for one week to give you a break. Only because I like you All is good here. Things are truly going well. Just like to let everyone know how childish people are and that they need to watch what they do and not to trust anyone. I have my friend here this weekend and then I am off to Indy for a few days. Hope to see you both when I get back
Donna

Indianapolis is like Mecca to us racers.

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Angelo you are always awesome and I am sure we can make it happen. I will be around till the end of the month and then back one week a month. I am sure we can get together Thank you for being so sweet. Have an awesome week
Donna

I have only heard great things about you from the people I know so I am not certain where that other stuff is coming from. As has been said before, let it roll off and don't lose any sleep over it. The "new" you looks SUPER btw. The "old" you wasn't bad either.

Show me that smile Donna....................!

Donna that broke my heart,  my favorite lady going to the city of my favorite race.  I want so bad to be there for the race. And it would be total heaven if you were ther too.

Donna remember that you are better than they are and do not let it get to you. Also remember the old latin phrase "Illegitimus non carborundum est." (Don't let the bastards get you down!)

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"I just do not understand why someone would say something about me not knowing me."

There's a wonderful word in Yiddish for these kind of jerks: "putz." People who tear down others behind their backs are putzes, plain and simple.

Trouble is, you have to expect a certain number of them in any public contact work -- it comes with the territory. It doesn't make it any less annoying or hurtful, but it's there nonetheless. Over on the LA board a well-know quality provider was trashed in a recent bizarre review that just does not sound like her in the experience of anyone who knows her. I'm sure it must grate like a rasp to her.

It's easy to say and hard to do, but the best thing is to let it roll off your back* and ignore it. Let your reputation for good customer care speak for itself through the many fine reviews you have here. They certainly convinced me that I want to meet you, for example.

--b.

*(Preferably while I'm giving you a massage. }:>  

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Ah, the St. Elmo's steak house. Fine, fine food and a shrimp cocktail sauce that will clear your sinuses in 10 seconds flat.

It's a really nice city.

--b.