Do any of you indie providers actually use email exchanges to "upsell" with potential new clients (as opposed to simply scheduling times and places and obtaining name, rank, and serial number)?

About 3 years ago, I tried online dating, and having exchanged pics, there was one woman in particular with whom we ended up having email exchanges several times a day, which gradually went from flirtatious to outright hot over the course of a week, and finally when we actually met at this hip little coffee shop, within minutes, we ended up in the darkly-lit back corner with tongues down throats and hands under clothing.  It was one of the hottest experiences I ever had.

So does anticipation and a healthy buildup of desire enhance the ultimate experience?

It seems like a provider could raise the level of first-visit satisfaction by personally "selling it" a bit more before-hand.  Maybe you don't need to.

as a general rule a smart gal isnt going to initiate or discuss anything specific with someone unknown either over the phone or via the internet. Further she'll run the other way if you try and start to get specific with her.

Just my 2 cents based on numerous conversations with my favorite cuties

Reangerous practice....

waste of time ...but an interesting idea. Problem is there are too maany guys out there lookin' for a free hand out. And I would guess, time is money and providers learn pretty quickly there's only so much of both.