Can someone help me with these TER chicks?  I’m new to the hobby and got my start engaging Craig’s List ladies.  Then a friend suggested CityVibe where back in January I ran across Isabella Amore’s listing.  I emailed her for a date.  It took a week and three inquiries from me before she responded.  Apparently she was out of town, which I can understand might cause a delay in replying.  Then we began several exchanges where she asked for some personal information and for the names of other providers I’d seen – all of which I provided.  At the time I was writing my first TER reviews – one of which was posted and one of which was not. (It is now, however).  Then she stopped responding.  In an attempt to keep things going, I emailed Isabella’s “doubles partner” Mya for some advice – which I followed.  Still no response.  In the interim I’ve seen several other ladies who are reviewed on TER.  Setting an appointment with them was no problem.  Is there a clique of particular providers that is difficult or impossible to break into – and if so, is Isabella in that circle?  Would appreciate any suggestions you might have since I’d really like to see her. Thanks for helping a newbie.

I would just let it go, from the way things were described she decided not to see you. Leave it at that, and spend your cash elsewhere. plenty of ladies in that price range who are just as good or better.

Isabella is worth the wait. I have seen her more than once and look forward to seeing her again.  That is my highest  praise! She has a limited  number of appointments and if you see her you  will know why they fill up. Like all the ladies she has a life outside of work.  She sometimes is delayed on answering even for those she already  knows. It is not a clique or attitude just  timing.  She is as sweet as they come. We gents  would like the ladies to provide instant access and super  service  but they  have to set the balance that works best for them.  Maybe  try again, you have been understanding so far and  that will take you a long way.

I'm not speaking on her behalf mind you. However, from your description it sounds like your e-mail thread went on for a while. If during that time you asked more questions than you answered, it could be that a lady would have seen that as a potential indicator of EL entrapment.

In my experience, initial e-mails and phone messages should be brief and to the point. They should start with "when are you available and what  is the criteria for booking an appointment". Then when she responds you can ask about rate. Never ever ask about services in e-mail. If calling, always leave a voicemail with the same initial questions. Never ask about rate or services in a voicemail. Save those questions for a live talk.

Remember, whenever a lady gets a message, phone or e-mail from someone she does not know. Her first question is always, "is this a cop". If you write your e-mails like you had the same question "am I writing this to a cop". You may find that those dialogues go much smoother.

Now to the last point. Your subject title, will not win you any friends in the hobby community. You probably didn't realize it but the subject line makes it sound like you're accusing Isabella (a well respected provider) of having a bad attitude. While that may have been your experience, you won't win a popularity contest with the ladies here. Not that your running for office but you do want to keep up an impression that you're a civil person. This subject title does not help that cause.

...worth the wait, but if the hassle factor gets high, move on just like you did and enjoy someone else. This is not supposed to be hard, obsessive, or not a fantasy. I know, I know, she is WAY cute and I couldn't resist seeing her either. Da bomb fo' sho'. But I email once then call once and if I don't get a call back, I usually stop the chase and move on. Especially for someone I have met. People I haven't are usually worth a third contact of some sort, like an email. Three communications and I am done.

Not a clique thing, just a style of communicating.

All the best,
j

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when I met her last weekend, I came away with the impression that she is a bit reserved until she gets to know you, and she definitely cares about the rest of her life and keeping things in perspective.  You can feel disappointed, but don't jump to labeling her.  She's also one of the sweetest, sincerest and sensual (hmmmm...lots of hiss sounds) providers you'll find.

lots of reasons why this happened. Knowing Isa as I do, don't think "attitude" is one of them. One of the sweetest and most sincere women I have met. Also one of the better at keeping up with communications. If it is not meant to be, just move on.

Given your use of the phrase "TER chicks", she might have sensed an attitude about you that caused her to veer away. Sometimes, we give off subliminal messages to people that may give pause to them as to whether or not to pursue a laison.  Perhaps your past use of CL ladies indicated a clue as to your ability to move into the higher priced playing field.  I agree with the others.  Move on.

I require two references from reputable providers, or ladies that advertise on Phoenix411.net, I have not been provided with these references, I also have a concern for my safety as some of the emails from newbies have stated some off collar remarks in the emails, very explicit, I just don't feel comfortable with taking these types of requests!
Come back when you can provide these, and I will be more than happy to see you!
Also I take limited appts, Due to my life at home, But I do love to play!
I try to get back with everyone I can, If I've ever missed you I apologize, Leave a detailed message on when I can get back with you, and I definatly will!
480-580-9437 Isa xoxo

Sometimes the wait makes the heart grow fonder...especially if the wait is for a special lady. Mya, you're a spacial lady.

Perhaps this is not the appropriate venue to discuss your issues with Isabella...she is one of the more reputable providers in Phoenix as I would give her the benefit of the doubt that there is a logical reason why she has not responded to you. You, on the other hand, have only 2 reviews and I dont think I have ever seen you post on the forum before. You need to be a little more tactful in your criticism and realize that bringing negative attention (which may be unjustfied) may impact this wonderful lady's income. Instead of emails, try picking up the phone...her number is available on her website as well as phoenix411.net

My suggestion is to move on to another provider who you feel is more accomodating.
Meeps

Move on!  There are so many girls to choose from.  Yes, Isabella is beautiful and I'm sure charming, as I've never met her.  But there are girls as pretty as her if not prettier available to you.  Don't sweat it and don't expect to get remorse on this board.  All these guys are in a little "group" that back up specific providers.  Only board I've seen like it, kinda funny.  "Nuff said."

Keep yourself safe, and keep on being sweet!

See what I mean....
Im not saying she can't perform or doesn't have the look, but she is not the only choice, thats all.  How can you argue with that.  There are over 200 + girls in the area.  Im sure she's lovely!  I have read her reviews, sounds lovely!  Everyone's opinion is valid and men like variety.  It's what makes this business work, the variety.  Nobody was attacked, yet you act as if they were.  I'm sure she's a very successful lady, so let people comment.  It shouldn't affect her if she's as great as said.  I have a meeting to get to.  I dont have the luxury of checking this board every 10 minutes.  Mya...keep us all updated!

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there are many greats providers in the valley. And it is VERY clickish on this board and the click does back up certain providers. I never met Isabella but im sure she is just as pretty as her pics but like you said there are girls pretty as her if not prettier in the valley.

business must be slow......