I'm no newbie, but I don't get out very often... I notice from the Phoenix sites, that almost everybody wants two references.  So how do I come up with references?  Some of the ladies I've seen don't want to be bothered, and some of them wouldn't remember me after 6 months or a year (!)

Hello Aleister:

Some providers will be happy to verify you with an employment reference. I am one of them. If you have a single positive provider reference, I'll accept that as well. Two references of course are better than one, three references are better than two. However, I realize that not every gent is enmeshed in this hobby weekly or monthly. I am happy to work with you and anyone else and provide a fantastic, intelligent, sensual and humorous experience...and I promise not to forget you in the event you would like to utilize me as a reference in the future.

In fact, I'm available all this week for incall and outcall and I have ads in various places for your perusal. I also have stellar reviews here on TER. I'd love to meet you!

Love,

Megan

Cute name You an Ozzy fan?? I don't know who you are or who you have seen but I can tell you what I do if I get a request for a reference and do not remember someone. If it has been a long time I ask the lady to ask you something specific that we had spoken about or something that I would remember you by. I might have trouble with just a name, but I do remember my conversations. I will not give a reference if I absolutely do not remember someone because we all need to be safe. If you are concerned with someone not wanting you to use them as a reference I don't know what to tell you. Most are good because it is common courtesy. There are exceptions but I have great luck with the ladies here in the valley.
Donna

I love the name too!  As for myself, I only require one provider reference(as long as she is known and respected).  If a lady does not remember you, you may then want to contact that lady you have seen to "spark" her memory.  I am sure most ladies wouldn't mind, as most of us are more than happy to help each other.

not an Ozzy fan but do admire the old Beast himself -- thanks for your comments  -- I'll keep plugging away  -- my trip this week has been cancelled, but I'll definitely visit your fair city soon, most likely in August when it's HOT  and the hotels offer discounts --

If any of our girls catch your eye...give us a call!  We can verify you, and are more than happy to give references for clients.

I don't get out much either, but I have no problem in telling them that I'm a member of TER, nor do I mind showing my D/L, employee ID or giving employer contact info.

Even if a previous lady I've seen is okay with it,  I don't like to give out her name, just so I can another lady.  

If she doesn't accept the above, then I won't see her.  Then, I consider it her loss.