Well said Sarah,

there are a great deal of idiots out there that get off on bashing providers & it needs to stop. If a guy genuinely has a bad session with a provider then they show let the provider know at the time of the session that they plan on reviewing them. This way if things dont work out then they can take corrective action there. If things are not resolved , then the hobbyist can make his case by reviewing his experience.
This does not mean to trash the provider with a deragitory review, but to let others know of his experience.
There are 2 sides to every story. Maybe a rebuttle button should be allowed for all providers registered with TER. They will only be able to rebut their own reviews .This will help keep things honest & keep good providers from being trashed like Mya did.

Sorry Mya, that some idiot to the time to do that to you.You did'nt deserve it.

TMAN

apparently noone has ever questioned the legitimacy of his reviews before and he's never participated on the discussion board.

i dont condone the activity of punishing providers via their reviews, i've been a victim of it as most of us .....

so i private messaged him and told him he needed to explain himself.

and he answered me very promptly.

generally, i find that when i want to question a person's integrity, i question the person who's integrity i am questioning.
between my ter posts and clients, i just dont have time for gossip and speculation.

the insults really weren't necessary, and they never are but that doesnt stop them unfortunately.

very, Very, VERY well said Sweet Sarah.

Let's hope this puts an end to the incessant yapping of the heel nippers.

Their reveling that one of their sisters was attacked, not reviewed, but attacked in such a manner was obscene. I'm so glad I've read their posts.... I dread nothing more than somebody messing around my heels.

To the yappers - I've been around a while. When this happens to you.... I'll still be around. Don't go to the TER board for comfort. No quarter will be given.

Achilles

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Sweet Sarah, you express yourself much better than I could ever do......thank you for taking the time to loggin and explain what I was trying to get across . And yes the review is down and I for one applaud the powers that be in taking care of righting a wrong, hopefully this will help everyone not just a selective few win the war against outright bashing of ANY provider. to those that feel it should of stayed up put yourself in the providers shoes . Most of us really try hard to make sure you have a good experience. I know Mya  values her reputation and is   very hard working at maintaining her level of service the fact that she never came on here shows class , she KNOWS what she is all about....Victoria

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GOOD I hope he gets banned and just remember Anna it could of been you. I would love to hear his defense for being so unkind and rude. As far as your lower post about if it happens to you  want no support , do not worry after your cruel comments  I do think many would even care. your crude post about fingering yourself in the car on the way to M and G spoke volumes , you mentioned someting stinks on one of my post maybe you need to go wash your hands ,I hope you did when you reached the party .....

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why dont you ask the reviewer instead of talking about people behind their back all the time victoria.


ya know, things have a way of getting back to a person..


what cruel comments ?   i've never been cruel.. i have actually supported providers whenever they have a review that was bogus..

unlike you, who always told them it didnt matter.... maybe you should listen to yourself more often.

Never been cruel calling a provider the queen of whores is mean Ana You might do it by pms but it is not very nice , I have never met you or even seen your reviews but I would never go to an event if you were there because you seem to be an angry person and negative energy is not what I surround myself with.....as far as things  being said behind ones back sounds like hearsay to me .As far as I know I do not have a problem with any of the girls except you because of your attiude by the way I did first contact the reviewre to hear his side and no reply......

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no victoria.. its not me that you're afraid of..

its the truth that scares you.

and you have no place to AT ALL to insult me, i've never done anything to hurt you or anyone else..

my dear, grab a dictionary if you dont understand the big words.  

 

to mya out of context and twisting it.

dont read other people's mail. but since you did, im sure you saw the real reason why she called aria coach and it wasnt that fake reason you posted earlier.

im not negative but unfortunately the truth sometimes is.

im sorry you were scared to go to the m&g and had you come to me with your problem instead of just talking about me behind my back we couldve discussed your issue and probably worked things out.  as it was, i was completely unaware that you had a problem with me and cant see how you would since you dont know me but i just found out tonite.

i'm going to ask the reviewer if you emailed him because i think you are lying again.

There’s no need for any hobbyist to trash someone the way this guy did. If he didn’t have a good encounter he could of said it in a way that wasn’t so defamatory. The review itself sounded fishy to start with and I still say he didn’t see her or SHE couldn’t get away form him fast enough. Although I never reviewed Mya she is the one that kept me hobbying all these years.
My first couples of encounters were so bad that I thought this was waste of money. Then I met Mya and knew that if we do our home work we guys can have fun an meet some fantastic ladies. Oh I still make mistakes but like the old saying goes you get what you pay for. Just my 2 cents.

wrong Ana I e-mailed him asap , and so did many others including Mya we recieved no reply who's lying ? I am going to stop this fighting with you right now it is getting way to catty and we both are smart women and enough is enough Ana so let's put this to rest and no more name calling or drama I wish you success and I will not be in this pissing match anymore good luck and I am sorry it got out of hand .victoria

i forwarded his email to you

 What a rude person you are it seems from your 3 reviews that you really do not like women Mya is a lovely Lady with a good heart and did not deserve you trashing her.  so what a few strech Marks ....I wonder what you look like  Mr. prefect do us all a favor and quit the hobby guys like you are mean spirited and should do us a big favor and never see us providers. shame on you  ANa here it is sent yesterday around 2pm no lies here


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You ladies are all too classy to let this get out of hand. After all this board is for fun and not fighting with each other. Now let’s see who’s available tonight for me on my way home.

you are just scolding him for being rude.

there was nothing for him to reply to.

i guess you knew it was a legit review but i didnt so when i emailed him, i asked him if it was a legit review and he replied yes.

im sorry i accused you of lying on that matter victoria.  after seeing the earlier lies, i just assumed you always did it but we shouldnt make assumptions.

but it did not include anything about you asking him if the review was legit, nor did it include his reply.

i think some things should remain bcd and  i would rather show support for the provider as i always have

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i thought i had included the whole email but if i've left something out, feel free to share it...

classic case of what comes around goes around. mya publicly insults another provider, called her coach for no reason and now someone did a bad review and called her trailer trash.

.. i dont think reviews should be pulled unless it can proved that the guy never saw the girl.  he saw her.

i think its unfair when guys use the review process to punish a provider and im sure that this review was a backlash from her silly comment. if the volume of private mails that i recieved after she made that comment are any indication, i would be willing to bet that many more are forthcoming.

no i dont think its fair but dont expect me to cry a river for her either,

and if being rude is enough to get someone banned, then ms mya mays would be on that same boat.

Hopefully folks will appreciate the reality check from a the bright mind and cool head of one hot lady.  Someday my dear I must explore you BCD

Now you know why I don't go to Meet and Greets. Mean people will always inhabit the world and people who make mean comments usually do it because of stress or from being hurt. Everyone can make a mistake. None of us are perfect, so let's all try to remember that as the stones are tossed. Why not skip them in water and watch them bounce. It's much more pleasurable and the rocks always sink softly to the bottom where they belong.

Remember, some men love BBW, some love skinny women, some love shaved, some love red hair, brown hair, blond hair, no hair. Who gives a rat's ass (pardon the language), but this community is really childish and needs a good spanking. Anyone up for it? Let's have fun. Isn't that why we're here?

Hugs,
Thank God I'm old, Ciara

Well, I guess I must enter the fray. I have never met Mya,however I have met some other girls who had stunning reports and tho not as many as Mya,nevertheless had great reviews. I was totally suckered,paid up front, stroked,her pimp walking around the 5star hotel,and after finally saying I was calling the manager of the Hotel and the police, did she offer to return the money.I posted the review, and within two days it was taken down by TER.As everyone knows, there are Pimps and agencies who are"in" with Ter and add and take down as they feel like it.That is why some poor girl gets a bad review by a jackass and it stays, or a legitimate review is taken down or never posted. After several weeks I read another review by a guy in Oregon who had seen the same girl as I and he stated the same thing of hook and bait and NO FISH, on the promise of more money. IF TER had left my review up he and countless numbers of other men would not have been ripped off.I emailed him and told him of my review taken down, and low and behold his review was removed in just two days too. So much for TER being functional.I had written a review last year of a provider in Phoenix who pretty much talked for 50 minutes and then informed me she had to leave in 10. I said "what are you talking about"? As she was walking out the door of the resort she said she would make it up to me tomarrow, as you all know tomarrow never came, then she was going to refund it,SURE,.I was not cruel, just stated the facts and gave her a poor performance rating. The following day of the review I got multiple texts, phone calls, tellimg me I was ruining her business. NO, I think she ruined her business, A provider on this board who likes to talk alot emailed me and said she was talking to TER to get my review removed. Yes, it was removed. Right? I think not. I doubt the review of Mya is correct given her history, maybe she just had a shitty day and has been doing this a long time and it was a tough day for her and she just didnt perform to his liking as he was expecting so much more because of the past reviews.Maybe he was wrong,probably wasn't the nicest of guys, but we are talking about "hobbiest" and "providers".Shame on me. Just my two cents.

I must add one more thing. Thank you Ciara, for your comments, especially this one and the one time I had the pleasure of seeing you. Thank you.Everytime I read these things, your input always seems to be right on.You are always classy. Have a wonderful day. BJN

you turned a very ugly situation around and made it a positive for us all.. im sure all the girls are grateful for the opportunity this opens up and i hope they all have success with their disputes.

personally i dont believe reviews should be removed unless they are bogus and/or compromise safety but i do understand that even if it doesnt effect business, it does hurt a girls feelings so im glad for the girls that you were able to convince staff to reconsider.

we are all very lucky to have someone with your courage to speak up for us and im sure the girls appreciate the renewed hope you have inspired.

I'd love to see that!!!

Hmmmm, maybe even pay to see that....

Just some friendly teasing.....