that there are hobbyist out there that don't know what its like for the providers to do the job that they do. And it goes the other way with providers that treat us hobbyist at times like you are just lucky to be in my presence so lets get this over and done with. Lets just have a good time, be safe and leave the attitudes out.

We are all here for a good time!

Valid points & I hope you have a fabulous weekend!

...... just through booking why the hell would he make it to my door?  They don't usually act much different in person. If he makes me uncomfortable thru email (or text) they aren't usually easy to appease in person. I can't deal with bad juju.  I try to emphasize in ads I only see the open-minded so tight asses get the hint to stay away lol. Some use the hobby for major therapy....those are the ones to avoid.

Next time he shows up you caller me

I’ll knock that chip off his shoulder.

and on the flip side, hobbyist didn't force provider to accept the appointment. I suppose a lot of hobbyists (not me personally) are very miserable and don't care to put on a smile for something important that they need in life. Just figure they pay a fee to get what they want, and that's all there is to it.

I know a provider's job is hard, but I hope y'all can be selective for y'all's sake. You may make less money that way, but if you're really just "here to have a great time" you'll do what you gotta do...

Sometimes my location or the time of day limits my selection on providers... and I may be tempted to see someone who really isn't friendly on the phone. So, for my sake, I should just stay home. But... I give in sometimes anyway, regretfully

The phone conversation can definitely say alot, the ones I hate are when the person I talk to on the phone makes it sound like they are the independent provider i'll be seeing. Then when we meet the voices don't match up. I probly should walk out at that point. But, regretfully I never do. I wander what would happen if I did? Probly get caught in the hallway by her pimp... wouldn't that be fun :P

Adura - for many of us, what you describe is precisely what we are looking for in this hobby, a wonderful date with a charming, delightful woman --- call it companionship with benefits!  It is nice to be reminded that you have expectations of us as well and that we should always strive to act accordingly.  I would like to think that for most of us, that is simply doing what comes naturally .... as it is for you!

or just the beginning?

that has happened to me twice before an appointment. I was in a "bad mood" or not feeling like it was gonna go well.

Once was because of the hoops  she made me jump though just to see her that day( she didnt confirm until 30 minutes prior,was late and changed hotels,) It made me nervous waiting in the hotel lobby for her to be ready so i was a little on edge when I went up.

The second time was a provider I had seen a few times before. I had reservations of ever seeing her again because each time I saw her I got the impression that I wasnt her "type". it was very confusing because sometimes she would say things that made me think the opposite.( like we should go out to dinner at a particular restaraunt or see a show/concert)

She had cancelled our meeting from the prior week and then emailed the morning of our rescheduled appt. that she would be late asking if I was "still around the area".wtf? I'm thinking great she will cancel again.

I  saw her but it was the most "blah" session I've had with a provider. She must have noticed becasue she asked me what was wrong. I just blew it off because I didnt want to get in to an argument/drama over it.

Sometimes I'm excited to see someone .make the appt, then the day of something might change to alter my mood.i suppose the same thing happens with providers too.