that there are hobbyist out there that don't know what its like for the providers to do the job that they do. And it goes the other way with providers that treat us hobbyist at times like you are just lucky to be in my presence so lets get this over and done with. Lets just have a good time, be safe and leave the attitudes out.

As a woman with good reviews, a charismatic, enthusiastic and fun personality, I find it rather uncomfortable when a gentleman arrives who is dry, carries an attitude, chip on his shoulder or is short in our conversations upon 1st meeting. It feels as if he doesn't want to be where he is at the moment. This is noticed immediately PRIOR to our session, before even meeting face to face, during our two way arrival call.

We providers can feel just as nervous about greeting you are upon your 1st visit. Please don't make it even more uncomfy by this type of unfriendly, cold behavior. If a woman embraces you, is laughing, chatting, warm and welcoming-please remember your manners by at least being courteous. You don't have to be a ball of energy & love but at least enjoy the moment and show that you're content to be a visitor. I never want to make anyone feel uncomfy when I'm a guest elsewhere & I'm pretty sure none of us gals forced you against your will to make an appointment so please play nicely-it's much appreciated. Bring your smile, personality and conversation hat-life's too short and remember that we're ALL here to have a great time!

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Kisses! HAPPY FRIDAY!!!

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Valid points & I hope you have a fabulous weekend!

...... just through booking why the hell would he make it to my door?  They don't usually act much different in person. If he makes me uncomfortable thru email (or text) they aren't usually easy to appease in person. I can't deal with bad juju.  I try to emphasize in ads I only see the open-minded so tight asses get the hint to stay away lol. Some use the hobby for major therapy....those are the ones to avoid.

Thank you so much! You as well and stay safe! =)

I’ll knock that chip off his shoulder.

and on the flip side, hobbyist didn't force provider to accept the appointment. I suppose a lot of hobbyists (not me personally) are very miserable and don't care to put on a smile for something important that they need in life. Just figure they pay a fee to get what they want, and that's all there is to it.

I know a provider's job is hard, but I hope y'all can be selective for y'all's sake. You may make less money that way, but if you're really just "here to have a great time" you'll do what you gotta do...

Sometimes my location or the time of day limits my selection on providers... and I may be tempted to see someone who really isn't friendly on the phone. So, for my sake, I should just stay home. But... I give in sometimes anyway, regretfully

The phone conversation can definitely say alot, the ones I hate are when the person I talk to on the phone makes it sound like they are the independent provider i'll be seeing. Then when we meet the voices don't match up. I probly should walk out at that point. But, regretfully I never do. I wander what would happen if I did? Probly get caught in the hallway by her pimp... wouldn't that be fun :P

LOL! LacaBrasi! Love it, but it was just meant in general because although I do meet a lot of really sweet gents, there are a few that arrive with "poor sportsmanship"! Guess it can go both ways though for some.  =p
I always have a smile on my face, laughter and jokes to follow my warm welcome so I don't understand. Different personality's....it takes all kinds but I would rather be mu kind. :]

Well, sometimes I do some of my homework on a gent, prior to seeing him via email due to the discretion and fact I can access it via my cell. I do this sometimes because A.) I work another "real" job and B.) Attend school as well. So sometimes an email is my best discreet communication and when they pass the reference requirement, you let them through. Then they show and it's a different story sometimes. I am VERY selective on whom I see through screening process. I have to be, with a future career goal that requires a State license. I'm not worried about the money-I just want to mingle with nice gentlemen who are SAFE. Safety IS priority #1.

It does work both ways, I'll admit. I actually contacted another provider for a reference recently and she chewed my head off so I do get it. :/
Be careful about settling for those location/time-frame providers at the moment. Like us ladies, as soon as you get more relaxed in selection, it's more likely something negative & unsafe can occur. Never let your guard down. I just wish everyone would remember that this is supposed to be fun, entertainment, fantasy and WE are ALL on the same team here. =)
Have a wonderful Halloween weekend!

Audra, I just saw your links. Wow.

The guy was clearly brain damaged!

Adura - for many of us, what you describe is precisely what we are looking for in this hobby, a wonderful date with a charming, delightful woman --- call it companionship with benefits!  It is nice to be reminded that you have expectations of us as well and that we should always strive to act accordingly.  I would like to think that for most of us, that is simply doing what comes naturally .... as it is for you!

or just the beginning?

that has happened to me twice before an appointment. I was in a "bad mood" or not feeling like it was gonna go well.

Once was because of the hoops  she made me jump though just to see her that day( she didnt confirm until 30 minutes prior,was late and changed hotels,) It made me nervous waiting in the hotel lobby for her to be ready so i was a little on edge when I went up.

The second time was a provider I had seen a few times before. I had reservations of ever seeing her again because each time I saw her I got the impression that I wasnt her "type". it was very confusing because sometimes she would say things that made me think the opposite.( like we should go out to dinner at a particular restaraunt or see a show/concert)

She had cancelled our meeting from the prior week and then emailed the morning of our rescheduled appt. that she would be late asking if I was "still around the area".wtf? I'm thinking great she will cancel again.

I  saw her but it was the most "blah" session I've had with a provider. She must have noticed becasue she asked me what was wrong. I just blew it off because I didnt want to get in to an argument/drama over it.

Sometimes I'm excited to see someone .make the appt, then the day of something might change to alter my mood.i suppose the same thing happens with providers too.

This post wasn't about one gent in particular. It's about a few who you will run into from time to time.